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[–] [email protected] 33 points 11 months ago (1 children)

things penises should represent:

  1. hehe that person's genitals are dangly
[–] [email protected] 11 points 11 months ago

HELICOPTER!!! WEEEEEEE!!

[–] [email protected] 26 points 11 months ago

isn't harmful or violent

Betting OP got a looooooooad of pushback and anger for this one!

[–] [email protected] 26 points 11 months ago

To be honest I think one of the many reasons I'm trans is I felt dirty when I thought about being with a woman, as a man. I daydreamed of being in a lesbian relationship constantly, but when I thought of myself pre-awakening being with a woman, I felt like a rat, pervert, and creep. I always felt like I was some diseased plague carrier and having a relationship with anyone, especially women,would just make it obvious that that is what I was. Maybe I was thinking of my dick in the same terms as mentioned in OPs post.

Since transitioning my relationships are getting much better, I have a few partners of varying genders.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

As a pakistani/indian, cishet guy who grew up in Pakistan and now resides in the USA (DACA recipient). I just want to say that if i can process and understand that i'm attracted to the person and not their genitals. If I can process that so can the losers in the west who claim to be civilized.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 11 months ago (1 children)

The penis is all things considered the least interesting part of the seminiferous system. Like, can I get some love for the tunicæ vaginales? The epididymides? The accessory glands? The prostatic utricle? Hello???

[–] [email protected] 14 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I need some transmen to post "How I sleep knowing I have the best boy-vagina (I guess like girl cock?) and I'm always correct", or something appropriate I'm not a transman I don't get to decide.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I have a friend refer to it as a clit dick

[–] [email protected] 11 points 11 months ago

Cli-ck :kelly:

[–] [email protected] 19 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Let's play the penis game, I'll start:

ₚₑₙᵢₛ

[–] [email protected] 38 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I don't know the rules of this game. I play a mountain, and tap it to cast Goblin Welder. Pass

[–] [email protected] 28 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 21 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 19 points 11 months ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

god damn, nice hand

you sunk my battleship

[–] [email protected] 10 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Nice try. No one ever gets a chuuren poutou. A daisangen would be more believable.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 11 months ago

it was the first picture of just a winning hand i could find on google images, okay?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago

F.o.w. , I'm not letting you setup for a darreti mindslaver lock.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 11 months ago

New Neil Cicierega album

[–] [email protected] 16 points 11 months ago

Personally, I hate when I’m eating a succulent Chinese meal and police officers won’t stop touching my penis

[–] [email protected] 14 points 11 months ago (2 children)

This was a problem with the friend I was in love with. They always used my pronouns and stuck up for me, but when it became known that I had “feelings for them” it seems like I stopped being one of their “girl friends.” They didn’t believe me when I said I wasn’t trying to get in their pants.

Since then I’ve just fucking given up on being a “trans girl.” I no longer cringe inside when someone calls me a “he” or calls me “sir.”

It doesn’t help that I am basically a guy in every facet. Hell I don’t even feel all that gross about having not shaved in like a week. And I act like a straight cis dude in a lot of ways; it feels wrong for me to expect to be “one of the girls.”

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (2 children)

And tbh I feel like the people who assured me that of course I’m a real girl (including the friend) contributed somewhat to this shit, because when my friends called me out for being kinda fucking weird I got to deflect it by saying to myself that they wouldn’t be saying this if not for my gender presentation.

And I’m not saying anything about trans women, just me. You’re all women. It’s just, I’m not and never was.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago (1 children)

What is a real girl anyway?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

You! And me. And anyone who wants to be

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago

Everyone is a little weird in their own way. Do you.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

Assuming social pressure wasn't a factor, what would you like to be? Where does the center of your soul gravitate?

when it became known that I had “feelings for them” it seems like I stopped being one of their “girl friends.”

It's difficult to maintain friendships where attraction is asymmetrical. Most people don't have the maturity to get it under wraps and it tends to seep into every interaction regardless of gender. I don't know enough to say that your friend's internal transphobia is shining through but in general romantic feelings just complicate otherwise simple transactions.

I mean we can't say she wouldn't have reacted similarly whether or not you were a "real" girl in her eyes.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Still want it gone. A want a streamlined crotch area with no pinching.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 11 months ago (1 children)

It's like a gun, it's the intention of the user that becomes the issue. Hopefully my turn on the lathe doesn't cause the mandatory caging of all penises. Or hopefully it does. I'm a freak I do not care. Your move liberal. smuglord

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Penises aren't used primarily for killing things though

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Yeah. I kinda shitpost Willy nilly.

Was kinda predicated upon the threat of penises by society and applying gun control rhetoric to it. Idk not my best bit.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

One could argue that one of the primary purposes of a penis is to do the opposite of killing (creating life)

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago

Is there a penis in the room with us right now?

penis monster in the corner

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago

penis thots