i found this choice difficult and stressful when i made it as i thought penetration would not interest me. also a lesbian, also in a committed relationship. the thing that eventually got me to opt for full depth is that after hair removal is said and done, the actual recovery process is grueling whether you are doing minimal depth or full depth, with the only difference in the latter for recovery being dilation.

2 years out from a penile inversion vaginoplasty, i am so happy i chose to go for full depth. dilation is hard that first year, but have found having the option to include penetration to be really positive, even as a stone top.

in addition, once the tissue is discarded for minimal depth, if you later choose to go for full depth, you have less options to get the needed tissue, and they come with their own risks. though i have met several comrades with pfv vaginoplasty and they also have positive reports about it.