it's hot. also i'm growing cacti from seed which is new to me and i'm excited, a few of them are sprouting now. how are you?


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[–] [M] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (12 children)

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

Disaster_of_Passion (7/7 - 7/13)
sodium_nitride (7/14 - 7/20)
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Seryph (8/11 - 8/17)
Shaleesh (8/18 - 8/24)
GayTuckerCarlson* (8/25 - 8/31)
Eco* (9/1 - 9/7)
nemmybun (9/8 - 9/14)

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    [–] 23 points 1 year ago (15 children)

    Shout-out to the people who encouraged me when I posted in the trans megathread when my egg was cracking like 7-8 months ago. 6 months on hrt now and Im so much happier :D

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    [–] 23 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    I went on a date with a reaaaaalllyyyy cute guy last night. We talked for like 3 hours and he kissed me goodbye. So forearms were like double the size of mine I was in a puddle at the end, this is my first time that I’ve had a guy make me feel this way and I’m like what the hell, how have I missed this my whole life 😭

    I feel like I’ve always been attracted to men in kinda a different way, like they were my friend and we were the same, while women were like this other species, but i really like it flipped around lol. 😝

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    [–] 21 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    dogs are aware of how cursed the fourth of july is as a holiday

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  • [–] 21 points 1 year ago

    Hey loves πŸ’œ

    I wanted to give a little update, we made it through the hospital thanks to you all, but now my sisters and I are really struggling to find a safe place to stay. Right now we’re stuck somewhere temporary that’s not safe at all, and it’s scary not knowing what could happen next.

    UNHCR told us to stay in Juba while they keep working on resettlement, but there’s no safe place here, and we can’t go back to Gorom camp because the host community doesn’t want us anymore. We’re trying to raise around $700–850 so we can get a small apartment for the four of us, with money for transport, rent, bedding, food, and the meds my sisters still need.

    We’ve only raised $66 so far, so we still have a long way to go. If you can help us by donating, sharing, or even giving advice on safe places, it would mean everything to us right now. My mutual aid link is in my profile. Thank you so much for being here for us. Love you all so much. πŸ’™πŸ™πŸΏ

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  • [–] 21 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Henlo mega thread. I am nonbinary

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    Current mood

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    Got a few web friends to use my real pronouns and my new name. It just makes me feel euphoric, but somehow still feels wrong. Maybe some internalized transphobia or just the disphoria (probably because I haven't started any part of the transition yet). But I'm happy anyways for getting some validation.

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    [–] 16 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Gender is fake but also im a woman but also im not a woman i just do woman but also theres no such thing as woman but also but also but also

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    [–] 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

    Coworker gave me a hair tie and another put my hair up for me kitty-cri

    Low key have shed a few tears about it... just really nice of them to help me and feels kind of like something women would usually do for other women. Not out to them or anything but still you know.. needed something nice to happen to me today too.

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    [–] 15 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

    I've never seen cacti sprouts before. They're so cute! floppy-parrot

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    [–] 15 points 1 year ago

    transphobiaImagine deadnaming someone in your birthday message to her

    I wish I could thanos snap these people into a pocket dimension so I don't have do deal with them. Fucking hell

    Up with trans. Down with cis

    In other news I got invited to a thing on Friday that I'm suuuuuper excited about. I'm going to get to flex my gay muscles

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    about to eat some really spicy noodles, if I never post again yall know what happened πŸ˜”

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    [–] 13 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Is it possible to do HRT badly enough that it permanently messes up your transition or is it a kind of thing where it would just mean it takes more time?

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    [–] 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Coffee coffee

    Black coffee, Brown coffee

    Make rumbly in my tummy catgirl-cry

    Make my head feel funny catgirl-huh

    Coffee coffee

    A cup of no good coffee cool-bean

    Not sweet like toffee

    Not creamy Not dreamy

    Coffee coffee

    taken at 23*

    I feel like puking walter-breakdown

    *hour of the day, 11 PM

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    [–] 12 points 1 year ago* (5 children)

    CW for Government TransphbiaApparently the state department is intentionally defying the court order to let trans people have correct gender markers. Past few weeks have been pretty tough and I keep catching L's. I can't wait until I get that shit in the mail and have yet another emotional episode about it. Im mostly angry at myself because none of the bad stuff would be happening if I just stopped fucking up all the time.

    The new blue sugar free monster tastes fucking amazing and I can't get enough of it.

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    [–] 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Is Better Call Saul and Breaking Bad trans culture?

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    Learning all the counties of England doggirl-smart

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    We had two guys from warring gangs sat next to each other lol, I had to convince them the hospital is a truce zone and to leave the fights and taunts for when theyre patched up

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    I would love to limit my dating pool to only trans people at this point, but there's just not many enough around for that to feel like a viable strategy

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    [–] 12 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Male tomboy with a little bit of E busts it down agender style, are they goated with the sauce?

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    [–] 12 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    always weird to find protest/event pictures on myself online, especially reddit, still not used to it. not posted by my party i mean, like from random people.

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    [–] 12 points 1 year ago

    πŸ†˜ Trans Sisters Attacked – Need Urgent Help

    Hey friends πŸ’œ We were attacked in our camp just for being trans. Our shelters burned, and some of my sisters were hurt. We covered hospital bills, but now we really need help finding a safe place to stay in Juba.

    We’ve raised $102 so far, but still need about $700. Any share or donation means the world to us. Thank you for being here. The mutual aid Link is in my profile.thank you for taking time to read this πŸ’™πŸ™πŸΏ....

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  • [–] 12 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    TONY STARK was able to build his gender in a cave! With a BOX OF SCRAPS

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