Yeah we went and got boba on our lunch break today :3 she was the first person at work who gendered me correctly spontaneously!!!
Jenniferrr
joined 8 months ago
Met an NB transfem at work 2 weeks ago and like idk she's the best and I love her. So happy we met :) we hung out both weekends since we met and happen to live like a mile from each other 🥴😍
P crazy I'm this hot like what the hell
P crazy I'm this hot like what the hell
Sorry I didn't answer your question. It'salnost certainly just a perception I have. Everyone deals with different difficulties when it comes to being trans. I def have it easier than many others.
Yeah idk it's just so confusing to me and then I'm like really in my head all the time so I'm always trying to figure things out. I should be CWing these things though I'm sorry
Omg a v6 that's so impressive
CW discussion about my perceptuon of my own gender and my feelings about how I percieve others in terms of how difficult their gender discovery is
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Honestly my gender has always been muscle girl anyway. Like, it's just a weird experience being kind of a futchy trans girl cause like, a lot of the time the world just sees me as a man or whatever. Not falling into the masc-fem binary neatly is just... More difficult to navigate. And I have friends who do fall into that binary and honestly I'm just a little jealous sometimes lol
Yeah exactly. Like, idk maybe it's just where I am in my transition or whatever but I feel so in the middle. My boobs are looking good though lol.
I'm def kinda lucky that I spent like half my life building up my upper and lower body strength. Probably if I was still on testosterone I could just campus up a bunch of climbs cause that's just like where I was at. Makes progression really fast but I'm quickly getting stuck at V3's.
My process is to try it, see where I get stuck, then come down and do some thinking. Try again, and see where I get stuck. I find it to be a lot of fun. I just started in earnest last month (I've climbed like a handful of times over my life before last month)
Oooh so I need to get better at slab climbs. I really just started though like last month for real. I actually haven't even tried top roping yet haha.
I guess so far I like climbs that overhang actually I have a lot of upper body strength and kinda like testing it. Otherwise idk, I'm still learning. Stuff that requires me to think about where I'm putting my weight in fun too. Like climbs that require me to kinda hang my weight in tricky ways. I really like the problem solving aspect of bouldering though it's quite fun
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Yeah she's already one of my besties, my roommate though is closer to me she is like actually my best friend