Whoa clearly I had misread what you'd said, cause I thought this was a situation where you were like the trans sister helping someone out who'd just come out like just before moving in with you

I appreciate you feel used but I really don't get the hostility? I was honestly confused, I thought you felt used because you'd helped someone and then they asked you out - Im not aware of anything beyond what you posted, so if she was way creepier than what you wrote or did way more boundary pushing, I wasn't there physically. Clearly this was way more intense than what I had read.

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Being LGBT is so confusing because we dont have any of the nice relationship stuff handed down to us anymore, its all in the air. One would think being polite and some common sense might preclude one from asking out a roommate - but roommates to lovers is a thing that sometimes happens. Its all in the air, especially a freshly cracked trans girl just starting out. I bet there's some crossed wires with specifically your roommate between platonic love and romantic love and the love we show the trans sisterhood in general, and hopefully she'll get a handle on it as hormones settle (dont discount the horniness of second puberty and the power of a crush towards someone who is nice and frankly life saving to them, I get it as a nurse too)

We so often had to repress and feel ashamed about gender feelings along with however much dealing with romantic feelings as an egg was. Its easy when its been repressed for a couple decades at least for it to come out way strong.

You didnt do anything wrong, she shot her shot and hopefully didnt let the hinting phase get too awkward. Embarassing lesson, but ideally the both of you can come back from this and settle in to just roommates. If not, you or her might have to figure out alternate housing arrangements (especially if she cant let it go). Im surprised you feel used - I think you should interrogate that and think about it, you've extended help with gender stuff like HRT and fashion, youre roommates, and you seem to have done that on your own. Why feel used when she asked you out? Im sure she would've needed the help if she was straight and not interested in you. I can appreciate you feeling used when she touched you, hopefully you shut that down then or will going forwards with others - and hopefully she learns to start asking for consent, although I know it feels weird and unusual

Everyone knows there's sexy stereotype of ladies wearing glasses, but its definitely cross gender cause some of these dudes look fine with glasses

OMG you're so hot. I love it when you are that confidant, I love the way you love yourself, I love how optimistic you are even when things seem bleak

Exes for a reason~

Depends where you live. Also gotta get used to dating your friends exes and your friends dating your exes, just queer things. My trans friend circle is composed entirely of people who've dated people, except for me and ONE other person lol

Its the subs and the bottoms with the hard core fantasies, swear to god

Trans man Tony Stark would be an interesting take. He'd probably invent some super nano gender thing

You didnt know!!

He's got an infamously bad English accent in it. Its actually a bit charming in its own gangly way

Been spending most our lives
Living in a gooner paradise
Been stroked now once or twice
Living in a gooner paradise