[–] 2 points 2 hours ago (1 child)

The reality of being in your 20s (for most people) is you look very attractive but have more or less no confidence or ability to recognize that you are. Including the shut ins and introverts, and a lot of the people reading this right now who will insist up and down they arent attractive lol

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  • [–] 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

    Canadians in the 90s looked around, realized we were getting late to the party of not having a woman as head of government - so they did the polite thing, got a woman as PM out of the way so we could get back to the real business of white men in the St Lawrence watershed making deals in decrepit ballrooms with cigarette burned in tiling make deals - and maybe sometimes the Calgary business elite too

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  • [–] 14 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    spoilerWe're much harsher on ourselves than other people are. Ive told people Ive had surgery and want more and they say "what?? But you look so femme already" 🤷‍♀️ its also for me, yknow?

    But theres definitely an aspect that youve looked MUCH closer at your own face than anyone else will and dysphoria is painting a different picture for you than may be "objective" (whatever that means).

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