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Made this one somewhat last minute, but here goes- my reccomendations for this week are a yuri "mystery" VN that's near and dear to my heart (that goes into processing grief) though it's been a while since I last played it, and a cute and sloppy (not bad sloppy) manga about crossdressing (and if you ask me is honestly at least kinda genderfuckery).

I figured I'd also add BonnieBugsy's "Ranma Lazuli" fanfic series (available on Ao3) to make it a triple feature because why the hell not. The two fics I can recommend (not having completed the other large fic yet though I'm sure it would deserve equal recommendation) are pretty near and dear to me as well.

CONTENT WARNINGSSeaBed: processing grief Handsome Girl and Crossdressing Boy: some chapters, particularly the extras, can be particularly suggestive/R18+ Ranma Lazuli: for the two fanfics specifically I'm discussing, "Skies of Blue, Red Roses Too" covers dysphoria and abusive family circumstances, with the premise of the titular Ranma escaping these and finding a place where she can be and grow into herself. "I of the Storm," in contrast, deals with the abusive and unhealthy dynamics of that "place where nothing ever gets better" from the perspective of someone still living within it- Akane- who herself, also has to deal with her anger and the consequences of (being a victim, but also perpetrator of) abuse, apathy, and past mistakes, while moving past that environment herself.

Premise and things I liked about (SeaBed)Sachiko and Takako were childhood friends and lovers, but unknown circumstances tore them apart. Now they have to piece together the puzzle, as Sachiko keeps hallucinating about Takako, and Takako deals with memory issues of her own.

Personally, Seabed can come across as a bit of a slog (but in a good way- and in a way appropriate to the themes of grief, of mental processing and memory issues, etc). And it can be very heavy. I played it during a time when I was dealing with grief among other things myself and I loved it- I intend to play it again someday (ideally soon), but needless to say it won't be for everyone.

Premise and things I liked about (Handsome Girl and Crossdressing Boy)Admittedly, this is just comfy, queer (IMO), somewhat suggestive (YMMV, if it were just up to me I'd not even consider it NSFW but it's definitely toeing a line and considering cultural and even circumstantial differences of different online spaces- well yea) and sappy light-hearted romance. Iori is a crossdressing boy(? very eggy if you ask me), and Hazuki is a handsome girl. Needless to say gender is a fuck.

The extra chapters (generally noticeable as something like "chapter 23.5" instead of being an outright "chapter 23" for instance) can be even moreso questionably/maybe "NSFW/18+" (though if you ask me that's all "western puritanism and backwardness/regressiveness" which they then infected many other parts of the world with)

Premise and things I liked about (BonnieBugsy's 'Ranma Lazuli' fanfic series)The two "Ranma Lazuli" fics I can recommend (the others I either haven't read yet or are very short) are both what I would describe as "coming of age/graduation(?)" plots, wherein Ranma moves from her abusive, overwhelming, demanding upbringing to the welcoming and progressive Beach City from Steven Universe (no knowledge of either series is necessary IMO to enjoy these fics, that said) and is finally able to develop within such a healthier environment, and Akane comes to terms with and breaks free of the fallout and that unhealthy environment in her own way, in her own separate life.

Both fics, I feel, correlate with my own defining experiences on many levels- whether it be Ranma's growth and the liberating feeling of finding a positive, comfy space and escaping the small, shitty, abusive world she was raised in prior, or in Akane's own growth and rejection of that same small world, as well as the permanence of one's actions having come from and having been a part of what made that world so small and unhealthy to begin with, and growing past that and coming to terms with it.


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[-] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

yewler* (5/26 - 6/1)
AshenWolf* (6/2 - 6/8)
PeeNutButtHer (6/9 - 6/15)
oscardejarjayes* (6/16 - 6/22)
GayTuckerCarlson* (6/23 - 6/29)
Eco* (6/30 - 7/6)
Disaster_of_Passion (7/7 - 7/13)
sodium_nitride (7/14 - 7/20)
peanutbuttercupola* (7/21 - 7/27)
BountifulEggnog* (7/28 - 8/3)

​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

[-] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago

You know what, I'll try to make a megathread

[-] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago

ok! would you like to go sooner or later

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[-] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago

ok, i got you on!

[-] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Putting on my big girl pants and booking therapy with a trans therapist (which I'm obviously very grateful to have the privilege to access and afford such as thing)

CW Misgendering my old self for a bad jokeMen will literally transition their gender before going to therapy.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago

As the meme goes, I'm going to get a good grade in therapy, something that is both normal to want and possible to achieve.

[-] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago

Just wanted to let everyone know I'm a wienie uwu

[-] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago

kids these days need to stop playing starfield and need to start reading garfield

[-] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Just had a date with a really hot trans woman and im-fuckin-gay hexbear-non-binary leslie-shining

[-] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago

I was looking at the schematic for 410bdf's diy electrolysis thing and she used an LTC6993 pulse generator

it just tickled my brain for a few seconds blob-no-thoughts

[-] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago

Who did you think invented it

phoenix-think

[-] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago

the realisation that i own not one but two barenaked ladies albums is depressing

[-] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago

One week is pretty good except for the parts that aren't good

[-] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

i actually kinda like them. not enough to buy an album but i learned all the lyrics to 'one week' back in the day. the odd time it comes on and people sing along, but trail off n i keep on trucking... people will look at me with wondering (or pitying) eyes hahaha and it still feels worth the effort

important info: i can also do 'it's the end of the world as we know it' and 'the humpty dance'

[-] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago

respect rat-salute-2 I got their cd with one week from a thrift store over a decade or something ago. don't know if I still have it or not

[-] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago

cw sexIs there any weird things that you find attractive? I don't mean "ew gross weird" but just like "how do you even find that attractive" weird. Because for me it is totally backs. It's definitely my funniest fetish because backs are just backs but like... damn... a bare back... crush especially if there's tattoos goddamn

[-] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

spoilerThere's something special in really pretty eyes, especially when up close.

Also collarbones

[-] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago

spoilerI guess it's not weird weird, but big ol thick thighs! Especially hairy dude thick thighs in shorts~

[-] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

spoilerI want a back tattoo really badly but it's so expensive oooaaaaaaauhhh

I think I mentioned collarbones before.... I also really like arms.

[-] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago

I have a soft spot for men who wear lipstick. Blue or black or purple are pretty great colors.

[-] [email protected] 6 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I like unconventionally attractive guys, like skinny guys with soft facial features, or slightly chubby, nerdy, hipstery guys, the kind that chuds might call "soy". Also I don't really get the obsession over height that a lot of people seem to have, I like guys who are close to me in height (which is pretty short).

This might sound pretentious or even overly judgemental, but I'm also really attracted to people who are a lot smarter than me. People who aren't as smart as me I find boring, people who are nearly as or slightly smarter than me might make me feel insecure, but people who can teach me new things and inspire change in my worldview 🥴

[-] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago

I will let anybody who can rock some guyliner ruin my life with zero hesitation

[-] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago

I eat nails for breakfastwithout any milk

[-] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

People always seem horrified or act like I'm telling a joke when I tell them my age. What's the problem I made a pact with Satan in the middle ages to look 20 forever

Wear sunscreen shrug-outta-hecks

[-] [email protected] 6 points 6 days ago

The weekly kagurabachi chapters are the one true shining light in my stagnant darkness covered life

[-] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago

spoilerDysphoria go brrr

[-] [email protected] 33 points 1 week ago

So, my gal pal dug up this lesbian magazine from Weimar era Germany called Die Freundin ("the girl friend" or "the gal pal"). And it turns out it was trans inclusive and had articles written by trans women advocating for their liberation. The classified section had ads were women were looking for maid training or a puppygirl.

This was published in 1926.

THEY TOOK THIS FROM YOU

[-] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago

Us puppygirls have always existed doggirl-shock

[-] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago

Not just that, you have also always been good girls

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[-] [email protected] 24 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Trans megas are such a wholesome window into the lives of people who aren’t very different from me. I’ve been socially isolated most of my life and have serious issues with not feeling connected to people, so reading updates about people’s lives like this is very helpful and makes me feel at least a little more connected to others. Just wanted to say thanks for that.

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[-] [email protected] 23 points 1 week ago

Got invited to the final stage of the interview for the trans clinic job (it's because of woke and DEI obviously)

This interview is with the person who'd actually be my boss, but I already interviewed the person who serves as her boss specifically.

Let's hope this goes well 😬

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[-] [email protected] 18 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Sometimes people joke about trans affirming misogyny and I had that happen to me today and it still fucking sucked.

I was talking to someone in a professional capacity where at the barest minimum I was an equal peer in the field, and in some areas probably more experienced and essentially a guest presenting on my specific subject matter.

And I'm thinking "why is this old guy being so condescending, disrespectful and just outright critical? This has never happened before...oh...fuck you"

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago

This is a super dumb question but does anyone know when I’m ‘allowed’ to start using he/they pronouns? Literally I have thought about using them solely out of a sense of curiosity and how I mesh with it, and I am not dysphoric about being a man.

Recently I met this masc leaning non-binary person I really vibe with and I can’t help but think “maybe I might have he/they as a better fit” but I don’t want to overstep any boundaries.

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago

A friend who I only hung out with when around my other, closer, friends is crashing out over me because I'm a "tankie" and because of a 6 year age gap with my new partner (proof that I am a goomer). In reality. Not online. This shit can't be real... Please God, destroy twitter. I'm begging you.

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago

hahah whoopsie. i might have accidentally gave some signals i didn't mean to to a friend of mine i'm not into and i think she just asked me out blob-no-thoughts hahaha oh fuck

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