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submitted 1 hour ago by sandhu to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

Do you ever catch yourself reacting to things the exact way your parents did, even when you don't want to?

I've noticed impatience and snapping at small stuff in myself lately, and it lines up with patterns I grew up around. Knowing where it came from hasn't been enough to actually stop it in the moment.

How did you actually change an inherited reaction pattern, not just understand it, but genuinely respond differently next time?

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submitted 28 minutes ago* (last edited 22 minutes ago) by deadymouse@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

To be honest, I would like to find something like this: the world is ruled by a small group of people living in paradise without denying themselves anything, the world's population is small, robots work everywhere instead of people, all entertainment content is done by AI, ordinary people live in poverty, often take cheap drugs to escape from reality.

I just want to look at our very likely future and how writers describe it. I want to get a taste of despair. It would be Ironic funny if the book was called something like: when hell looks like heaven.

About a year ago, I think I found a similar book, but I forgot the name.

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For a good yawn I need to really open my mouth and push/strain my jaw muscles. If that doesnt happen, then the yawn feels incomplete to my body and it happens again and again till it works "right"

What is the reason/body function behind that?

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submitted 18 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) by kSPvhmTOlwvMd7Y7E@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

EDIT: wow you rock!! woke up to a huge list lol thanks everyone I ll give everything a try

I need some more psy-trance, like old Infected Mushroom ("None of this is real", "Albibeno", "Red Filter!", "Dracul", "Astrix on Mushrooms"; not a big fan of their new stuff), because I keep listening to the same songs in a loop, as nothing comes close. I tried Astrix as they often do feat with IM, couple of good songs, but not as elaborate.

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submitted 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) by FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

For example, I'd like to see a Lois Lane movie

Or maybe a tv series or comic book

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submitted 23 hours ago by atro_city@fedia.io to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

And by immigrants I really mean immigrants: you don't have the nationality and live in the country = you're an immigrant.

I keep reading about the plans of parties to kick out all immigrants, stop letting in any, and some parties even advocate to revoke dual-nationalities and kick those people out too. I've never really understood what the point of it is and have trouble imagining what the effects of such actions would be within the country.

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Recommend a new TV! 📺 (piefed.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 22 minutes ago) by akunohana@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

Edit: thank you for all the kind suggestions! 🩷 I ended up keeping my current TV for now. I was this 🤏 close to buying a 48 inch LG B6E. Just before heading to the store, I got cold feet and decided to look through the settings of my current TV again. It's a 43 inch Panasonic 6700 from 2020. I don't know how I didn't realize this until now, but I was actually able to remove ALL preinstalled apps, which made the TV way snappier. I also found, after an unreasonable amount of digging, that there is a setting under input sources - HDMI 1 called HDMI Ultra HD that was TURNED OFF by default. 😱 My only gripe with my Panasonic is that it emits a lot of heat. When I checked out the LG earlier today, it barely felt hot at all… Well well… The heatwave is passing anyways, so… 😅

While I would relish the opportunity to live the rest of my life with a CRT TV, those are unreasonably expensive, being vintage and whatnot... :(

For circa five years, I have been debloating, deslopping and deshittifying my smartphones. Is this something that can be done on a modern TV too?

Preferably, I'd skip all that and instead buy a no slop, no bullshit TV. I want it to have an HDMI port, next gen picture quality and a size of 43 inches, give or take. No budget limitations as of yet. Hit me with your best shot!

Slop/bullshit = apps, AI, anything not directly related to playing motion pictures over HDMI.

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Is this photo AI? (thelemmy.club)
submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by beep@piefed.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

cross-posted from: https://piefed.world/c/questions/p/1265973/is-this-photo-ai

This photo is currently the top post in the r/pics community on Reddit, with close to 50k upvotes.

I have my suspicions about the photo and wanted other people's opinions about it.

Is this AI?

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submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by Shadow79@piefed.social to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

The reason why student debt is basically unheard of in Denmark since college is free (although to make that happen, the Danish government poses high taxation towards citizens like they do in order to maintain stable social security nets like subsidised healthcare and public housing, also why they have less homelessness).

Mainly Danish, Swiss and European citizens are eligible to study without stressing over student debt upon graduation. It stems from this: Danish government is more on for the people while American government is more on caring about themselves plus nepotism on the side (MORE & HIGHER TAXES TOO ON TOP OF THAT).

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e.g It might teach you to ride the wave of destiny, and treat life more like a rollercoaster than a linear videogame that you're supposed to grind and minmax in.

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How does Banned work? (piefed.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by sem@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

I was reading a comment section and I saw that some people were banned, but the comment wasn't removed. This got me to thinking: how are banned and removed treates on the threadiverse?

When a moderator bans someone, do they choose whether to remove the comment, or leave it up for all to see if that is better?

Is it that some clients autoremove banned users, and some don't?

Do some clients allow banned users to still poat in the community they're bannes from, and it is up to the client to decide whether to show it or not?

What is going on?

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I am looking to learning about the political ties between modern day Egypt and china. Unfortunately, no matter what terms i use, All Search Engines always default to Ancient Egypt on any given topic. I wouldn't mind some fun history facts about Ancient times but i am more interested in the current political ongoing of modern Egypt.

On a more general but related note, how do Political research look up stuff on Modern Egypt? are there any scientific journals that publish on modern Egypt?

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submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by ieGod@lemmy.zip to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

Came across a reddit post claiming the Sony online backlash is making publishers nervous. While unverified, this seems plausible enough.

So as someone who doesn't really do social media aside from Lemmy and browsing reddit, where can I get in on adding my voice to this criticism? Do people still use twitter?

Edit: Reddit post in case anyone cares.

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submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by Daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
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I've noticed some people treat their lawn like a carpet. If there is 1 leaf, that's clutter that needs to be picked up. If a tire touches their grass, it's like you got oil on their rug. They've usually manicured their lawn into 1 species monoculture grass with zero weeds and zero bugs. Which because of this lack of diversity, it is now incredibly fragile.

For many people, their yard is like a room of the house. And they expect people to treat it with a living room level of respect. They've put a lot of effort into creating this fragile monoculture grass, and they're protective of it.

Maybe you can tell from the way the question is phrased, but I view the outdoors as different than indoors. If someone misses my driveway and leaves a mark in the grass, I don't care because I know the grass will grow back eventually. If leaves fall on my yard, I don't pick them up. These problems tend to solve themselves. At least that's my view. But I've noticed a lot of people see it the other way.

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Is there some kind of block?

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It seems like every time my phone fails to connect to a site it just hangs forever until I toggle Airplane Mode on/off. This behavior has followed across 3 Android phones and I'm wondering if it's just me.

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When I had a chill, stable life, I fantasized about living a wild one. Now that I have a wild life, I fantasize about having a chill, stable one.

At this point, I don’t even know.

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I speak English as second language. Whenever I hear new stuff, I save it to my Anki. Here's my Cool Phrases deck if anyone's interested.

https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/qqaxf29fk8w7035sbn3h0/Cool-Phrases-20260715174206.apkg?rlkey=aoikq8wupm6n4fud4vgur38tr&st=0slo8hox&dl=0

I want to expand this deck. Do you know a phrase that stuck in your mind? Any input is welcome.

Thanks in advance.

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I was wondering when people consider themselves to have a new PC. Technically I've had the same PC for close to 20 years now, but every part's been upgraded several times over.

I figure everyone's got a different mind about it. For me, I'd have to say when all of the big three—CPU, GPU, mobo—have completed a phase, my brain thinks of the previous setup as "the old PC".

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