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submitted 2 hours ago by tomkatt@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

I’m impacted by the wildfires in Colorado, had to evacuate and currently staying in a hotel. I expect my house is still standing (solar and some network devices were still responding until all power was cut off in the area and impacted the local ISP, and any fires in my immediate vicinity seem to have been controlled). The fires did get near or possibly to my home but the area is all grass and scrub, no trees so it was controlled. Hotspots were extinguished and I’m a bit outside the actual fire perimeter, with no real fuel for it to burn in my neighborhood further. Fingers crossed, I’ll get to go home in the coming weeks.

I’ve never been in a situation like this though. Even if the house is still standing and structurally sound, there’s probably smoke damage, possibly other burn damage from hot ash (the main fire perimeter reached within a mile of my home).

For anyone who’s been through a wildfire like this and gone home, what should I expect, and what hazards should I be aware of? Will things like clothes, bed, and so on be salvageable? Are there things that 100% should be discarded? And can the house just be cleaned and aired out? And is there anything specific structurally inside and outside I should look out for that might not be obvious?

Thanks!

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The Death Note lets you kill anyone by writing their real name in the notebook, although you must know their face.

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TL;DR: Gained too much weight after I fell and broke my arm + couldn't really move for a while. I have a lot of trauma related to sports, like I was forced to play football like any other Hungarian kid, and I was awful at it, which made others be angry at me for it, which made me reluctant to do it. Even if I manage to do it, I often get brutal, crippling muscle pain, which makes me fo it even less.

Since I"m Hungarian, I cannot rely on health care at all, especially mental health, as it was the very first thing that got cut, amd I cannot afford private care.

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Cross posted from https://lemmy.ml/post/49623403

Native americans had slaves? Do you have any references to put in perspective and counter right wing boot licking perspectives on this matter? Like the issue is feudalism and capitalism/imperialism at the core. Like the natives had conflict... possibly scalped a few but I think the right wing on behalf of their "Yes big daddy" capo corpo masters like to paint images of a past a skew.

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submitted 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) by GarboDog@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

Ok so, this is a weird question, but i remembered this scene from a movie and i think it was in the beginning where it introduces the main character, a teenager, whom is seen going into a public restroom to opening a box for a phone. He then takes the phone out and replaces it with a ~~Rick Scott~~ rounded rock* the same size and wraps it with saran wrap and used the hand dryer to heat it up, sealing it like it was never opened. Then he walks to a phone store and talks to the cashier to return it.

Probably not the most detailed, but that’s all we can remember from it and it’s driving us crazy not remembering it. Lmk if you know it, thank you!!

Update: THANK YOU SO MUCH @neidu3@sh.itjust.works :D movie was Hotel for Dogs

Now we may watch it with our significant other later :3

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submitted 11 hours ago by stermy4u@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
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submitted 18 hours ago by Karl@literature.cafe to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

That are just as efficient for growing plants

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Whether intentionally or not, what do movies depict or present wrong a lot of the time?

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submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by schipelblorp@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

I realize I've spent over a year in an organization where things kept falling apart because, ultimately, people in the organization just plain didn't like me.

It started, perhaps, when I brought up that HR's onboarding process made me uncomfortable because it involved a third-party sending out a third-party email to go to a third-party website to entire our personal information. Since this was a training by the larger corporate IT department, and we had just finished talking about the dangers of phishing, I thought it was a good time to mention it.

Mistake.

The next week I was visited by someone who took issue with, "not what I said, but the way I said it". Lesson: don't embarass HR in company-wide trainings.

Anyway, after a few similar call outs by me, I was labelled a trouble-maker, sidelined, ignored, and mistreated. This is an organization, I note, that assiduously avoids contradicting or discomfiting superiors in ANY way. That is deffos not my style.

Anyway, my question really isn't about my toxic workplace, but what you learned about YOURSELF by working in a place that didn't like you.

I'll give you two more stories:

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When I just graduated from school, I started working with a team model. I was paired with someone with fewer certifications, and I was to lead us boldly on our mission. The person I was assigned was a very beaten-down older, brown woman in a field dominated by young white women (seemingly universally with long, straight hair). She seemed to be universally disliked and disrespected by everyone. Because I was incompetent both at my job and my Spanish (sabo kid in denial), this woman essentially did my job and HERS and still got treated like absolute shit.

She invited me to an event that had nothing to do with work, an event for an organization she volunteered for where she was on the board. People treated her with respect and, in return, she was bright and bubbly. I saw a completely different side of her that night.

Lesson: Where we are beaten down, we get small. Where we are supported, we flourish.

(Kind of an aside, she was from a small country, and when I told her I was visiting, she INSISTED I go see one of her family members; he turned out to be an extremely well placed person in the government; she wasn't royalty, exactly, but she had a social prestige in her country that was unsustainable as a middle-aged brown woman with an accent in the USA.)

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I was working retail at one store. I'd been there for maybe two years. I always lived in fear of being fired, and when I made mistakes that I worried about getting me fired, nothing happened. I learned that, ultimately, what mattered is if people liked you, and, there, people liked me.

I eventually had to leave because of some restructuring but the manager found me the EXACT SAME POSITION at a nearby store. After a few weeks, I noticed people did NOT like me. Conversations were kept short, nobody ever volunteered to talk to me,. I got along with exactly one cashier, who was an awesome dude. It wasn't a horrible experience, I was allowed to do my job and I did, but there was always an empty, hollow feeling.

Then the original store invited me back and it was like night and day. "Oh, so this is how people act when they like you." I'd almost forgotten. I loved going into to work to see my work buddies and I loved shooting the shit with them during downtime.

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submitted 2 days ago by beep@piefed.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
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Right now, I have a mess of bookmarks, open tabs, and things saved haphazardly in different apps. I want a system where I can organize it all and also keep it reasonably private. Open to all suggestions, whether that's an app or a tool or a personal trick or some completely different way of interacting with the internet.

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submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by HornyElf@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

I recently stopped using Spotify and other music streaming platforms. And I downloaded all my music. But I am not able to find a "good" music player for me.

I have tried VLC, PixelPlayerOSS, Musicolet, and Felicity so far.

Recommend me a music player.

Edit: the main feature I would like in my music player is automatic lyrics search

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@asklemmy@lemmy.world @ask@piefed.social For working on videos, codecs and bitrates are more important ? The container is secondary ??

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I am interested in hearing your opinions about nuclear power, what you know, if you have any fears, or ideas? Do you know if your country has any nuclear power generation?

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submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by CmdrGraves@lemmy.zip to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

I know that Japanese pronunciation is easier than let's say Korean when you hear either language spoken. The reason why pronouncing Japanese is apparently easier is due to the defined nature of their phonology and the vowels present including watching Anime, but can the same be said for Korean pronunciation?

I mean, when you watch K-Drama: is it really easy to pick up Korean phonology by listening or is it complicated? Also, Korean "anime" isn't common in the same manner as Japanese anime as they focus more on making movies with actual actors rather than voice acting. Is it harder to listen to Korean than Japanese or vice versa?

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submitted 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) by Hirohito@fedinsfw.app to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

EDIT: Enshittification, also known as platform decay, is a process in which two-sided online products and services decline in quality over time. Initially, vendors create high-quality offerings to attract users, then they degrade those offerings to better serve business customers, and finally degrade their services to both users and business customers to maximize short-term profits for shareholders.

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submitted 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) by GeneralGigan817@lemmy.zip to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

For reference, I’m talking about r/CreateARoster and r/WorldBuilding (more specifically r/NSFWWorldbuilding and r/WorldJerking).

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