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Made this one somewhat last minute, but here goes- my reccomendations for this week are a yuri "mystery" VN that's near and dear to my heart (that goes into processing grief) though it's been a while since I last played it, and a cute and sloppy (not bad sloppy) manga about crossdressing (and if you ask me is honestly at least kinda genderfuckery).

I figured I'd also add BonnieBugsy's "Ranma Lazuli" fanfic series (available on Ao3) to make it a triple feature because why the hell not. The two fics I can recommend (not having completed the other large fic yet though I'm sure it would deserve equal recommendation) are pretty near and dear to me as well.

CONTENT WARNINGSSeaBed: processing grief Handsome Girl and Crossdressing Boy: some chapters, particularly the extras, can be particularly suggestive/R18+ Ranma Lazuli: for the two fanfics specifically I'm discussing, "Skies of Blue, Red Roses Too" covers dysphoria and abusive family circumstances, with the premise of the titular Ranma escaping these and finding a place where she can be and grow into herself. "I of the Storm," in contrast, deals with the abusive and unhealthy dynamics of that "place where nothing ever gets better" from the perspective of someone still living within it- Akane- who herself, also has to deal with her anger and the consequences of (being a victim, but also perpetrator of) abuse, apathy, and past mistakes, while moving past that environment herself.

Premise and things I liked about (SeaBed)Sachiko and Takako were childhood friends and lovers, but unknown circumstances tore them apart. Now they have to piece together the puzzle, as Sachiko keeps hallucinating about Takako, and Takako deals with memory issues of her own.

Personally, Seabed can come across as a bit of a slog (but in a good way- and in a way appropriate to the themes of grief, of mental processing and memory issues, etc). And it can be very heavy. I played it during a time when I was dealing with grief among other things myself and I loved it- I intend to play it again someday (ideally soon), but needless to say it won't be for everyone.

Premise and things I liked about (Handsome Girl and Crossdressing Boy)Admittedly, this is just comfy, queer (IMO), somewhat suggestive (YMMV, if it were just up to me I'd not even consider it NSFW but it's definitely toeing a line and considering cultural and even circumstantial differences of different online spaces- well yea) and sappy light-hearted romance. Iori is a crossdressing boy(? very eggy if you ask me), and Hazuki is a handsome girl. Needless to say gender is a fuck.

The extra chapters (generally noticeable as something like "chapter 23.5" instead of being an outright "chapter 23" for instance) can be even moreso questionably/maybe "NSFW/18+" (though if you ask me that's all "western puritanism and backwardness/regressiveness" which they then infected many other parts of the world with)

Premise and things I liked about (BonnieBugsy's 'Ranma Lazuli' fanfic series)The two "Ranma Lazuli" fics I can recommend (the others I either haven't read yet or are very short) are both what I would describe as "coming of age/graduation(?)" plots, wherein Ranma moves from her abusive, overwhelming, demanding upbringing to the welcoming and progressive Beach City from Steven Universe (no knowledge of either series is necessary IMO to enjoy these fics, that said) and is finally able to develop within such a healthier environment, and Akane comes to terms with and breaks free of the fallout and that unhealthy environment in her own way, in her own separate life.

Both fics, I feel, correlate with my own defining experiences on many levels- whether it be Ranma's growth and the liberating feeling of finding a positive, comfy space and escaping the small, shitty, abusive world she was raised in prior, or in Akane's own growth and rejection of that same small world, as well as the permanence of one's actions having come from and having been a part of what made that world so small and unhealthy to begin with, and growing past that and coming to terms with it.


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[-] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

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[-] [email protected] 33 points 2 months ago

So, my gal pal dug up this lesbian magazine from Weimar era Germany called Die Freundin ("the girl friend" or "the gal pal"). And it turns out it was trans inclusive and had articles written by trans women advocating for their liberation. The classified section had ads were women were looking for maid training or a puppygirl.

This was published in 1926.

THEY TOOK THIS FROM YOU

[-] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago

Us puppygirls have always existed doggirl-shock

[-] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago

Not just that, you have also always been good girls

[-] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago

Oh, of course conservatives temporarily banned it under the guise of protecting children even before the Nazis took over. Some things never change, huh?

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[-] [email protected] 24 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Trans megas are such a wholesome window into the lives of people who aren’t very different from me. I’ve been socially isolated most of my life and have serious issues with not feeling connected to people, so reading updates about people’s lives like this is very helpful and makes me feel at least a little more connected to others. Just wanted to say thanks for that.

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[-] [email protected] 23 points 2 months ago

Got invited to the final stage of the interview for the trans clinic job (it's because of woke and DEI obviously)

This interview is with the person who'd actually be my boss, but I already interviewed the person who serves as her boss specifically.

Let's hope this goes well 😬

[-] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago

Good luck!!

[-] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Sometimes people joke about trans affirming misogyny and I had that happen to me today and it still fucking sucked.

I was talking to someone in a professional capacity where at the barest minimum I was an equal peer in the field, and in some areas probably more experienced and essentially a guest presenting on my specific subject matter.

And I'm thinking "why is this old guy being so condescending, disrespectful and just outright critical? This has never happened before...oh...fuck you"

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago

This is a super dumb question but does anyone know when I’m ‘allowed’ to start using he/they pronouns? Literally I have thought about using them solely out of a sense of curiosity and how I mesh with it, and I am not dysphoric about being a man.

Recently I met this masc leaning non-binary person I really vibe with and I can’t help but think “maybe I might have he/they as a better fit” but I don’t want to overstep any boundaries.

[-] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago

I'll refer to you with they right now if you want

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago

A friend who I only hung out with when around my other, closer, friends is crashing out over me because I'm a "tankie" and because of a 6 year age gap with my new partner (proof that I am a goomer). In reality. Not online. This shit can't be real... Please God, destroy twitter. I'm begging you.

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago

It's me, your mom. Don't forget to take your meds, sit up straight, eat your breakfast, stay hydrated, and brush your hair stalin-approval

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago

hahah whoopsie. i might have accidentally gave some signals i didn't mean to to a friend of mine i'm not into and i think she just asked me out blob-no-thoughts hahaha oh fuck

[-] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago

I'm sorry but I can't help but find it hilarious that a girl asked you out after you just made that post about how much you like men susie-laugh

[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago

i mean i'm still very much bi

but also FUCKING RIGHT????

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[-] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago

been stuck with this omnipresent anxiety over the last several months that something unimaginably bad is going to happen very soon now and I don't know what but I can't shake it

something bad and something global. idk what. national being trans ban? massive disease outbreak that makes covid look like the sniffles? super deadly heat wave? idk what but something very bad is going to happen very soon that will ruin or end my life and idk what anymore

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[-] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago

Mfw I see the trans girlies sad posting:

[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago

MFW when I see trans girls horny posting

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[-] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago

It kinda crept up on me since it's probably a change that's happened over many months, but my waist is kinda snatched now. Last spring I didn't like the idea of wearing anything cropped because I thought it made me look a bit boxy and shapeless, but I've gone from disliking it to becoming more ambivalent last fall, and now I'm at a point where I think shorter tops look great on me cat-trans Estrogen my beloved.

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[-] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago

Of course the person who unblurred captain disillusions number challenge thingy was a trans catgirl lol

They might as well make a tier for the trans catgirls to compete in and everyone else can compete in the second place tier

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[-] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago

I wish my existence wasn’t seen as an act of aggression against women madeline-sadeline

[-] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago

I know what you mean, especially with the news and shit.

For what it's worth, hegemonic patriarchy has a very specific view of Femininity. It's very white, it's tied to a specific body type, it's tied to all of our oppression as women. Some women practice lateral violence in the hopes that by fitting in to that system of oppression that they'll have a position of security in that hierarchy. Some just have internalized misogyny, some really are just haters and haven't done any self reflection about "We CaN aLwAyS tElL" also applies to all the ways they fail to achieve hegemonic feminity- which is intentionally (for a vague hand wavey sense of intention lol) impossible to actually achieve

Some of these women are threatened by lesbians, by tom boys, by butch, by farm girl cis women who don't have time for lipstick or a husband after the last one died, some are threatened by women who either don't have children by choice or can't, etc. The list goes on, uniting all of those people with us in an understanding of inclusive and liberatory feminism threatens systems of control including some women who are at those controls

[-] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago

Some of these women are threatened by lesbians, by tom boys, by butch, by farm girl cis women who don't have time for lipstick or a husband after the last one died, some are threatened by women who either don't have children by choice or can't, etc. The list goes on, uniting all of those people with us in an understanding of inclusive and liberatory feminism threatens systems of control including some women who are at those controls

Yes, absolutely this. Transfems are not where it'll stop. It's already affecting cis women who don't perfectly fit into the expected woman metrics. It'll more aggressively affect queer (sexuality) women next, women who aren't perfectly fem, of course can't forget racism against anything not in line with white, western femininity too.

Unfortunately for us, transfems are just the easiest entry point right now.

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[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Since transitioning cishet men have been acting weirder to me (except Noodle man who is an ally).

But cis women have been way nicer. Which I consider an absolute win.

Small touches on the arm in conversation, smiling small talk, and even walking closely past me rather than the 2m berth I'm now giving strange men.

[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

T-Shirt ideas from this morning:

My body is a machine that turns noodles into breasts

I'm here to eat to eat noodles and grow breasts and I've eaten my noodles.

I ❤️ Noodles (and growing breasts)

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[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago

Feeling kind of overdressed going to the grocery store in my ILA cosplay. doggirl-sweat

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hornyi bought stuff from torrid.com and now they're sending me advertisement emails with thicc girlies on them and... it's just really nice tbh lea-blush

[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago

New girl I just invented:

Going to the lesbian bar holding a collar with a bell on it and shaking it to attract local petgirls in need

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[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago

thank you for posting this gay ass thread

[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago

weight cyclingGoing back to eating healthy and at a deficit is such a bummer after eating pizzacandy all week.

[-] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago

I made Friday Pastajk could you imagine!? doggirl-lol

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[-] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago

poem about trans SI

To My Trans Friends Who Have Also Considered Suicide

Sometimes thinking about it helps.
So go ahead and think about the endless
Ways of untethering yourself and ending it.

But please don't abdicate.
Please don't put down
Your ill-fitting crown.
Please don't renounce everything.

Yes, being resilient exhausts us.
And yes barbs and fists wound us.
And yes the weight and wooze of days
Is at times too much to weather.
And yet.

Enough of us already
Barnacle the ocean floors
And ghost the plateaus
And cloud the skies.

Even if it's out of spite
Even if it's to say "Fuck you"
Please try to stay alive.

-Elba Congreve

From Little Blue Encyclopedia, Hazel Jane Plante

[-] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago

It's my first measles kid today

Even stupider, they had a stem cell transplant which normally obligates them to get vaccinated after but apparently they were able to wiggle their way out if that.

Can't imagine the mental world and logic where you'd get IVIG, stem cell transplants, all these medications and procedures but skip out on a vaccination

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[-] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago

planted a honkberry bush today

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[-] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago

5 more pounds and I'll hit my cycling down goal weight of 190! bridget-vibe

[-] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago

Unfortunately, some of the site taglines aren't funny. They just make me go saul-stare

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Down with cisheteropatriarchy

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