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alright gang, we need another win over the news mega this week! keep those numbers up and keep being trans as hell 
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Attempting another voice training regimen, hopefully my meds will help me stay on track this time and I don't get too discouraged. Maybe if I can keep with it long enough, I can start streaming and practice my girlvoice into the void
dysphoria
I generally like how I look but just randomly I see myself and think “why are those hands and forearms so big? It seems disproportionate. Ahg.”
whoever posted this youtube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmMubqzMeJDrW7u6d4SJh-Q the other day i love you and all of their videos, i don't remember who it was though
tiktok is a hellsite for many reasons, but the biggest one for me is the shitty annoying music that makes me want to stab myself repeatedly in the ears.
"oh cute animal video! wonder if there's sound" - last words before death
CW: Family Drama
My parents gave my sister an ultimatum: she can get back with her abusive ex, but she can’t do it under their roof.
She just left and they are changing the locks 
writing cover letters 
As some of you know, I am thinking about coming out... maybe not immediately but I am thinking about it. One of my big worries is them not understanding, and doing things that might hurt me without meaning to (am fragile ) Obviously I can explain things to them, but I don't want to have to explain everything. Its hard enough being a baby trans without having to explain everything to a cis person.
So my question is what resources would you recommend a cis person read/watch/whatever to better understand a trans person? I'd look at anything you suggested as well obviously, and with that I'm sure explaining would be easier, but being able to offload some of it would be very nice. Any recommendations would be appreciated
Added concerns
They are christian and probably think I'm going to hell for this. Not that I care what they think about that, lmao, but also they haven't pestered me about going to hell in forever (I'm a bad girl who was already going) but just to give you an idea where they might be at. But they're the like, "gays are going to hell for living in sin, but that's their issue to work out with god" kinda christian if that makes sense. I don't know, anything I can give them to help them understand and alleviate things a little for me would be really nice.
they were cowards for not making the hobbit 1 movie, and then you just have a 2 part 10 hour duology of a dude who just explains the Silmarillion to you with a power point
i love playing my tabletop game with all my gay ass tabletop friends. we have literally one cis man and the rest of us are trans women
I wrote two and a half cover letters today and I'm tired. Going to have fun doing DIYs now, that's enough adulting for one day.
pretty sure my body conquered the cursed tap water i drank yesterday. i don't feel great but i'm good enough to function today and that's all i need
self harm
I like mirrors. I have three in my room and plenty of others around the house. ~~Do not utilize two to observe your own back and shoulders.~~
I thought my build was better than that. Why have I never realized how big I am. I guess I don’t identify with my body anyway. I see other people outside that look kinda like me and think about how bad I’d feel if I were them.
Still haven't figured out how to apply mascara to my lower lashes without making a complete mess 
I have two wolves inside me, and they get along really well 
the wolves
Tried out this knitted sweater with my floral skirt this morning and felt cute as a button.
Then went down to the basement to try and replace the UPS battery on the rack. Had to throw some shoes on cuz its a dirt floor, but I only have men's merrels, like the durable sneakers. I AM STAMPY GRILL!
I thought I was gonna have to wait til I got a cute punk outfit and some docs to feel like that, but nope. Turns out I had everything I needed. Absolutely made my morning.
remember back when there'd be a big release of a game, that'd have like 5 different versions that played entirely differently, even with different stories. like Star Wars episode 3 came out on PS2 and Xbox with one version, a totally different one on DS, another totally different one on gameboy advance, and then they always had a shitty gameloft mobile game with the same name too
Just started playing Minecraft (mobile/bedrock) for the first time in a while. Started a trash dwelling and found a diamond but lost it. Hot take: maybe I’m just a noob but hostile mobs suck. I often cant relax due to my lack of peripheral vision irl. It’s worse in game especially with even worse vision. I like seeing when it’s dim/dark irl. It’s miserable in game. Im significantly more safety conscious in Minecraft than real life. Real life: fuck it I don’t need directions I’ll find my way if I get lost. Fuck off with harnesses and railings. Minecraft: yeah, gonna add a railing there, tons of signs, torches everywhere. The controls aren’t great but they’re acceptable since I’m not used to better ones atm.
no harm in playing on peaceful, i often do. i much prefer being able to chill 
Me irl: fuck rules and laws I do what I want
Me playing games alone: oh no am I violating my own expectations for how this game should be played without “cheating?” I shouldn’t do that.
I read through half of Boy Parts and just couldn't finish. I've read plenty of extreme horror, I've read plenty of stuff with annoying or morally bad protagonists, I dunno what didn't catch me about it at all. It was like "what if American Psycho was about this one sociopathic alt chick who photographs erotica/fetish art and it took place in the 2020s and also... its a GIRL protagonist" and I dunno, I thought Id be more into that premise. Kinda reminds me of what I would've written to be edgy when I was 15
Ow, I burned my thumb on the straightening iron. Slipped trying to corral my bangs 
first time for everything...
Every song i write, its just trans allegories all the way down
oh yeh, I'm so cool