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I like mirrors. I have three in my room and plenty of others around the house. ~~Do not utilize two to observe your own back and shoulders.~~Would I care about stuff like this if my label was just NB and not trans-fem? I don’t feel much gender inside of me, but I fear other people will put me into a binary box no matter what, and all I want is to not be perceived as male.
It's understandable to be more worried about other peoples assumptions. Personally I don't care what other people think.
I don’t care much. I also feel kinda divorced from the world and if I wanted to enter society it would be difficult. In a vacuum I like myself. Alas, hell is other people.
I don't feel part of society eirher but when I'm forced to interact with others it can be tricky with the autism.
I do have a personality that can pull me through but it can be RNG and depends a lot on the other person/people I'm interacting with, how comfortable I am.
I’m decent at interacting with people. I can always find things to say. However, depending on my mood and who I’m talking to I will talk excessively or really not want to talk (adhd).
I like being somewhat social but (what a shocker on this commie site) I am at war with the dominant society and its expectations.
I haven’t looked in a mirror in 3 or more years
I have to do it for makeup, or else I'd NEVER. There was a good stretch there without seeing my face, that was nice.
That’s the thing that is keeping me from doing makeup
I'm able to focus JUST on my eye for eyeliner or shadow if I'm feeling fancy. Which is enough. I don't do the whole contour thing, that's cursed cause you have to actually look
Now I feel like I’m over exaggerating to garner sympathy and fit in.
Mirrors and lighting are generally not in the correct positions around the home so they can give you a distorted view.
They are also rarely perfectly flat
Yeah, usually the imperfection of the mirror makes me look better proportionally. I’m not at home.
I mean generally the mirrors will be at awkward angles and they also flip the image so it's rarely perfect
Sure, but I doubt there’s a more accurate view of my back. No, your attempts at consultation do not work on me.
Idk if this is why I’m a big shirt small shorts queer or why I’d rather be a small shirt big pants queer and don’t know how.