Lancer - Trans Megathread from January 26th through February 1st, 2026 (hexbear.net)

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Lancer is a... weird little guy? I dunno even though I really liked undertale I didn't really vibe with deltarune and never played past ep1. I do vaguely remember having fun fighting him.

Soooo, uh, yeah, that's Lancer I guess. I'd love to hear about everybody's favourite little weirdos.

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[-] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 4 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

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[-] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 25 points 6 months ago

Pretending to be asleep

My parents are talking about forcing my hair to be cut (they really have a problem with it)

My brother starts defending me and shuts down their convo.

What a good kid.

[-] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 20 points 6 months ago

I came out to my little brother!

It went ... completely smoothly lol. No surprises on that front.

He guessed I'd been transitioning for 4 years. This was actually kinda correct since I did start exploring my femininity around that time (aka when I left home)

[-] catter@hexbear.net 11 points 6 months ago

I'm so happy for you!!! Having a supportive sibling rules

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[-] RION@hexbear.net 19 points 6 months ago

Wasn't the worst birthday I've had, I didn't even cry. But someone forgot or at least didn't say anything which felt and continues to feel bad. And I can't help but wonder whether they'd care more if I was a real girl

[-] RION@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago

Surprise I just postponed crying until this morning in the bathroom at work! My deskmate had the good sense to take away the nail I had found on the floor, and then I asked her to take away the scissors and button/pin from my desk. I guess that's all progress

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[-] SickSemper@hexbear.net 18 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

The Time Has Come (Again)

Also just got my ears pierced and I feel so cute and gay :)))

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[-] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 17 points 6 months ago

Mom is currently discussing with her friend as to why I suddenly went from keeping a buzz cut to growing out my hair.

"What could have happened?"

Truly a mystery for the ages

[-] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 15 points 6 months ago

Mom tells me that my current hairstyle is girlish and that I should redo it.

Thanks mom!

[-] SickSemper@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago

I love when people do that. A dude was trying to pick a fight with me and said I looked like a girl and that left me riding a gender euphoria high for a minute

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[-] RION@hexbear.net 17 points 6 months ago

It's my birthday :/ I wish I could just postpone it or something.

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[-] Wmill@hexbear.net 17 points 6 months ago

Being a professional library goer (unemployed) I was asked to fill a survey today. Passionately wrote down all the library did for me and how cool it made me like on a spiritual level big-cool

[-] forcefemjdwon@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago

professional library goer (unemployed)

Same

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[-] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 16 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

sex

Had sex with a dude for the first time last night, bi confirmed hexbear-bi-2

He was really nervous and couldn't get it up but gave great head and knew how to finger the prostate like a pro. Looking forward to when he can annihilate my ass panting

[-] KrupskayaPraxis@lemmygrad.ml 12 points 6 months ago

Happy for you! Totally not jealous or anything

[-] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 16 points 6 months ago

Important PSA:

Many people want a mommy to take care of them. But where do mommies come from? Not from the sky*! In order to fill the shortage of mommies, we need more femmes to step up and become mommies themselves.

We must seek eggs to nurture them!

*I know your mommy is an angel, but that's besides the point

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[-] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 16 points 6 months ago

It took me ages and ages having boobs before I started having them in my dreams. But it was like 2 days of having a vagina that I started dreaming it was there, that was super fast.

[-] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 15 points 6 months ago

In 2000 you could get a plant based McDouble for $1 and a side of estrogen for 50 cents

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[-] Alisu@hexbear.net 14 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

HRT and body changes

I think my boobs are starting to grow. I can feel a little bit of new fat on them, they bounce a little when I'm moving around too. I am a very skinny person and I know how my body feels pretty well, so I guess I'm just noticing very small changes, but it feels nice to know things are happening.

Can't believe I'm at 6 weeks already. Very excited for what's coming next.

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[-] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 14 points 6 months ago

negativity, jealosy

Sometimes i cant stand seeing other trans ppls progress photos or happiness/joyposting or selfies, stuff that should be positive and feel-good just makes me jealous and upset. Idk if somethings wrong with my brain, i hate it

[-] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 11 points 6 months ago

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I think if you feel that way, then the best thing you can do is to redirect that energy from a negative direction to a positive one. If you want what they have, then the question is how you can obtain it as well. I don't think there's anything wrong with your brain: reframing and rechanneling these emotions is a skill that you can practice.

Sometime the answer is just "time" and you can take comfort that it's something you can look forward to. Sometime the answer is "effort". For me, I felt envy when it came to relationships and appearance. I obtained the first by putting myself out there and going through the stress of dating, and for the second I put a lot of practice into makeup and learned a lot about fashion. There are still things that I feel a bit jealous of, like shilouette and voice training: these things are definitely addressable, just harder for me and I know that with effort (and time) they are achievable.

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[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 14 points 6 months ago

Leading our monthly meeting tomorrow, fuckin hell how did I get roped into being center stage

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[-] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 14 points 6 months ago

Dad takes my phone. Starts looking at my lock screen which is like some enby mf with 6 arms meditating in a dumpster surrounded by LSD angels. His comment was "anime ..."

[-] Alisu@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago

I want to scream

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[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I wish I had someone. I'd like to yap a bit and cuddle. I'm tired. And I kinda wanted to talk more earlier today but idk what specifically about or what I'd want to message someone about.

I'd also like to have someone to cuddle with me right now. I feel alone.

Cuddling and yapping about stuff, two things I wanna do.

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[-] Moss@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago

Everyone start using linux right now! Linux mint is so easy. I booted up windows and was shocked by how much slower it is than linux

[-] catter@hexbear.net 11 points 6 months ago

Linux has raised my standards for what a computer should be by so much that it's painful going back to Windows. Mint has given new life to an old laptop I have 🥰

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[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago

Looking at my chest and low key wondering if there's visible growth? Like at least for me, doubt anyone else would notice atp (thankfully).

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[-] Alisu@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago

HRT, body changes, family stuff

Nipples feel very sore, chest feels a little soft and I can feel it bouncing a little bit sometimes. My sister noticed my nipples poking through the shirt, not sure how to feel about this, maybe I'll need bras soon. Being in the closet to my parents and still living with them sucks, I'm going to be in trouble on the next few months, probably.

There's also this headache and brain fog, I can't manage to do anything at the moment, not even videogames, maybe I'm just tired, I don't know...

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[-] Wmill@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago

Learning to 'put my mask on before assisting others' is fucking difficult wtf, can I just not and be fine anyway pls catgirl-sorry

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[-] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago

Ahhh, never tucking again~ so nice.

Youre supposed to be pretty dry the first few weeks and months of bottom surgery. And since I have nothing to do, Im off work for this, Im pretty much sitting around with my pussy out all day lol

[-] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 6 months ago

bottom dysphoria

I had a nightmare that my gock came back 😫 That sucked, like it fell out and sprouted back. Awful. My mom said she was worried I didnt really want this, I knew I did but I guess the confirmation that I had a nightmare it came back was nice

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Sister asked my mom (who I'm assuming would be the supportive one) how she'd react if I was gay and she refused to respond, how over is it chat?

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[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago

Been crying lately thinking about the different life experiences the women in my life have had that I never will. Today's was a wedding. Imagining how they must have looked on their day. I wish that was me. I wish I was a normal, typical woman. A husband, kids, just how they look and are...

...but I'm not. I'm not straight. I can't have kids. Even if I could I think my autism/overstimulation would make it not for me. I just want to be them. And I'm not.

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[-] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago

It's weird to go back and be totally different. Time moves, but everything is familiar. I guess life is just like that.

Reconnecting isn't always bad.

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[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago

Nightmares every single night sucks. I used to have great dreams too. Constantly woken up from this.

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[-] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 12 points 6 months ago

I got conscripted to be an Estrogen tester at the femmeperor's imperial court :(

They gonna take me to the flower capitol and dress me up in smooth silky pink robes

Then they gonna force me to wear jewelry and makeup and "serve" her majesty's every "need" TT

Thankfully I'm a communist spy so I gotta assasinate her then run away. It's only temporary. I gotta endure.

[-] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 12 points 6 months ago

wierd?

I tell my friend that I don't feel joy from anything anymore and I'm depressed af. He tells me "you need to get fucked"

I mean, true ಠ_ಠ, but kinda crazy to tell someone.

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[-] meler@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago

transphobic family, rambly

My dad messaged me for the first time since christmas day and I don't know I guess I'm actually really considering this being the moment I cut ties.

I haven't had an actual relationship with the man since high school, and even then I always kept him at arms length. We never talk about anything that's important to me except for when I asked him to call me by my name and he can't do that I guess. He knows nothing about me. I'm seriously curious what he'd say if someone asked him to describe me. I don't think he'd get anything beyond the suface level right. I think I could say more about the girl at the coffee shop I buy chai at than my dad could say about me.

I send him songs every now and then which he ignores, and every couple of months he calls me and I give him a bullet point list of the interesting things that have happened since the last call, and that's it. That's my relationship with my dad. That's the totality.

So like he's just some guy, right? Literally just some guy I happen to be related to genetically and who has my phone number. Which would be cool if he was some guy I talked to who called me by name at the very least, but he doesn't even do that. So why do I indulge in his calls?

I really don't know how to explain this to him, but that's where I'm at.

[-] Shaleesh@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago

Oooooh

I've been forgetting my evening HRT, thaaaaat's why Ive been tossing and turning for so many sleepless hours recently.

I'm so silly.

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 6 months ago

4 months of injections, a reminder on my phone, thinking about it several times throughout the week and multiple times in Friday itself, still nearly go to bed without doing it.

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[-] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 11 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

CW Transphobia, Homophobia, Dysphoria, family abuse, Australian nonsense

So Australia has this reactionary federal senator, called Pauline Hanson. She's always doing these little media stunts (wearing a Burka to parliament to be Islamophobic etc). On the federal public holiday that is so called "Australia day" she released a transphobic song that was a collaboration with a failed former TV star/musician/trophy wife called Holly Valance, who has also been a reactionary ghoul for a while. She was famous for being on a Soap Opera called Neighbours, tried to become a singer but didn't get very far, married a rich guy just to get divorced etc.

And it's transphobic anti-woke trash. Quality wise it's dogshit. Like you couldn't do an ironic camp cover of it or something, because it's so characterless.

But it's kind of made me sad. Which is I guess there intention, but for a different reason. Like I'm in my late 30s and Pauline Hanson has been around since I was kid, just being a piece of shit. It's like wow the same dumb shit from my childhood.

My dad was really homophobic. He worried I'd be gay (lol he was right just not in the way he thought). So he'd buy me all these swimsuit magazines. Not like hardcore porn, just bikini stuff. But I had quite a few posters of Holly Valance (she's a few years older than me and was probably most famous when I was in high school) on my teenage wall and I would stare at those amongst others with yearning I now understand was dysphoria.

And I don't know it's just fucked to hear about someone who you haven't thought about in decades and they're a piece of shit. Like fuck I don't want little domino Holly Valance fails her music career, big domino I get murdered transphobically. That's so chicken shit.

At least Natalie Bassingthwaighte (another Soap Opera actor of the time who had a more successful music career) is a trans ally.

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

My group is meeting in a few weeks and it looks like I'm going to be able to make it, looking forward to it a lot. The therapist has a trans son too and I'll be able to meet him. And see all the people irl (usually we have a zoom call)

[-] Moss@hexbear.net 11 points 6 months ago

I've seen a few megathreads on the topic of Lancer, but it seems to be some kind of computer thing I'm not aware of. Now its the Lancer I am aware of! Yippee! lancer-chad

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