I just got "sir-ed" at work and that has literally never happened before in the 4 years of working customer service while being out. Now I'm paranoid that I actually don't pass and everyone is just being nice to me lol. I know cis women occasionally get misgendered and he was probably just stupid, but damn happy pride ig XD
four years is a long time for people to consistently just be nice imo. probably not the most comfort after it happened, but it really does sound like someone's brain malfunctioning
Hey loves 💙,
Just wanted to check in since my last post kinda got lost in the megathread. Things are still really rough here in Gorom Camp we’re trying so hard to clear hospital bills and find somewhere safe after our shelters got burned down.
I’m gonna keep replying to folks here with love so people know we’re not just here asking, we care too.
We still need about $825 to cover what’s left for safety, food, and medicine. I’ve updated my profile with a bit about what’s happening + my mutual aid link if anyone wants to help or share.
Honestly, every kind word or share right now keeps us going. Thank you so much for seeing us.
My mutual aid link is in my profile if you’re able to support or boost.
Sending so much love and strength to everyone trying to survive another week. Solidarity always.
I am actually just really afraid of being vulnerable (I know how cliche it sounds).
I don't know how many years of introspection it took, but yeah, I'll admit it. If I strip away all the excuses and blaming other people, and focus solely on my own behaviour, then that's the conclusion I come to.
Are other people at fault for the problems in my life? A little bit. But that just doesn't matter. Do I not have the kind of relationship with my parents where I feel I can be open to them? I don't. And yet, I still just have to admit that I have a loser mentality. My current strategy is to just delay, delay and delay, cause I don't want to come out to my parents. This just won't cut it.
At some point I need to bite the bullet and accept that some people will be in the position of hurting me, and some will definitely hurt me. There is a limit to the distance I can maintain with my parents, unless I am willing to cut ties and basically be stranded in a foreign country.
I have to go through my teenage years again .
I thought I was done with that shit.
Personally, I'm okay being vulnerable to people I trust. That just isn't my parents.
I still just have to admit that I have a loser mentality. My current strategy is to just delay, delay and delay
so real
I need to bite the bullet and accept that some people will be in the position of hurting me, and some will definitely hurt me.
I just can't accept this.
Is...
Is aura farming/power fantasy fueled by the desires of the youths to feel invincible in the face of life's challenges?!?!?
Who else crashing out but still vibing?
Not vibing sadly, will trade
It's bad. The doctor diagnosed me with cringe.
hit me up if you ever need advice living with this condition, I've got experience with it
did you ever paint your nails? i like painted nails but I'm also extremely lazy and low rizz so am low key vicariousin thru ya
my pronouns are she, but not her because i am not a filthy capitalist who possesses things
Haha I love this, sis! You’re iconic 😂
staring at myself in the mirror after plucking my eyebrows trying to figure out if i did a good job or a bad job only to realize that i have absolutely no idea how well i did and i have no idea what i'm doing
if they don't look bad you probably did good but maybe plucked a bit conservatively. you could try taking a little more off next time and see how it goes. it just became fairly intuitive for me after a few months of practice, but you can get very mathematical with it if you want:
Self Portrait with Loose Hair, 1947
recently my mom has been showing me random nail salon videos she finds on tiktok and IG reels and idk if she's catching on or what, I'm certain she's not accepting of trans people based on things she's said in the past so idk how to interpret this
our fatigue and pain is getting worse for seemingly no reason, we havent been pushing ourselves at all and that doesnt seem to matter in the slightest
very concerning how much weve declined in the last 6 months
dunno, thats it. just needed to put our thoughts down somewhere
(to the tune of "Fly Like an Eagle")
Dicks keep on slipping, slipping, slipping,
Into my butthole
Fuck liberals
Fuck lobsters?
The VOLCEL POLICE are on the scene! PLEASE KEEP YOUR VITAL ESSENCES TO YOURSELVES AT ALL TIMES.
نحن شرطة VolCel.بناءا على تعليمات الهيئة لترويج لألعاب الفيديو و النهي عن الجنس نرجوا الإبتعاد عن أي أفكار جنسية و الحفاظ على حيواناتكم المنويَّة حتى يوم الحساب. اتقوا الله، إنك لا تراه لكنه يراك.
Made it through everything, and boy oh boy do I ~~not feel better~~ feel moderately better but really just burnt out tbh
dysphoric
Weddings are the most gendered thing ever so it's just really a bad time, on top of being Adderall deprived. I don't feel like a bride or a groom. But I also feel like the only person in the room who feels that way.
And then everyone talking about the wedding they were all at that I missed because I was dogsitting.
Damn, what if I just ate this wine glass?
I wrote a mediocre poem , idk if anyone would read it though, it's not pure garbage but it's not great (at least I think?) . poem below
spoiler
To change is to transgress
Whether by clothes , pronouns , hormones, surgery or a mix of all 4
Being trans is to challenge the means of what is socially/politically accepted
You refuse to engage in cishet normativity Saying no to the 'idea' of 'biological sex' and 'biological gender'
Experiences of rejection and hate by entire political parties such as Labor or Democrat , even ones who like you are trans radicalize you
How could you support a system that wants you dead?
You no longer see the purpose of electoral politics
read theory, unionizing the workplace, practicing boycott, divestments and sanctions as well organizing with your fellow proles
Alas you came a long way, a new comrade made
Steam summer sale started, very tempted to buy the funny twitter lesbian chaser visual novel now that it's only a few dollars
What game would that be?
Heaven Will Be Mine
yess do it
Halimede made a visual novel?
Halimede is from a Visual Novel
Ohmygod I forgot
Literally just saw a sign in my uni that says "it helps others if you are open about who you are".
This can't be a coincidence. My data is being tracked.
transphobia and xenophobia
I keep telling myself that I just need to survive this year and then I can rest, but nothing is coming up that might give me reprieve then. The earliest I reckon I can go and apply for refugee status is in 2028 maybe, and who knows if european countries will a) accept migrants then b) think "transgenderism" is a valid refugee claim
the law of unity and conflict of opposites is just so trans coded. engelmarx would be the best allies
Dreamt the girl I was crushing on fell for Wario also I was developing spiderman powers which was cool but I I was shaping upt to take on Frieza from dbz. I don't think I wanna go into powerscaling but felt inadequate in both senses.
Me and My Parrot, 1941
I'm realizing in about a month I'll be coming up on the anniversary of my egg crack. It's crazy to me I'm almost a year in
Went out to a crafts market tonight, was really lovely. Also got genuinely like 20 compliments on my outfit at least. Like 2/3rds of the artists and then a solid couple random people. Even got a free pair of earrings from one specifically because my outfit was so nice. The fashion privilege is real.
Actually now that I think about it this is also like the first public thing I've done in months. Huh. Maybe I should go out more, maybe I could make friends by just being cute..
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