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Trans Megathread from January 27th, 2024 to February 2nd, 2024 (lemmygrad.ml)

submitted 1 week ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Hiiii!

Today: a short yap about computer hardware:

Damn I love the AM4 socket its so upgradable yay, bought a Ryzen 9 5900X for our old desktop soon to be homelab and so excited for it.

Computers are fun! ~~(and expensive)~~

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago (7 children)

oh my gods i did not expect Detransion, Baby to be so unabashedly horny and raw. I read content warnings beforehand but I wasn't expecting this

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago

lmao added to my reading list

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 days ago

Yesterday night, I took too many drugs (doctor prescribed) and ended up telling a friend I'm planning on transitioning. Ended up deleting the messages before he saw them, but damn that felt good.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 days ago

Hyped myself into telling my mom about wanting to experiment looks-wise/gender-wise down the road. She’s hesitant but open to helping me try which is honestly on the better end of what I can hope for w/rt it

[–] [email protected] 20 points 6 days ago

venting about transphobia

It’s fucked up and annoying how people who as recently as a couple years ago were hardcore anti-feminists (and probably still are, but just aren’t as vocal about it) suddenly spouting TERF talking points and pretending they give a shit about “protecting women”

[–] [email protected] 15 points 6 days ago

bad thoughts must be destroyed

must be productive, must finish work, then play games

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 days ago (4 children)

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

screampost

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago

I scream
You scream
We all scream

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago

thurston

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago

screm-a aaaaaaaaaaaaaa

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Depression, anxiety, self thoathing

Feel fucking useless. Every time I try to go do queer shit so I'm not so chronically lonely I get most of the way there, barley holding myself together from anxiety, then it all bursts and I have to struggle not to break down right at the door. It always ends in me being so mentally fucked while I'm there that I don't talk to anyone and nobody talks to me, or I am so broken down mentally that I don't go and leave crying. Just dont understand how the fuck people do this shit. Just feel constantly burnt out and lonely

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago

meow-hug

[–] [email protected] 18 points 6 days ago

Gotta do my transplaining gender presentation for nursing students again but I'm so sleepy, finished a night shift only had 4 hours of sleep 😴

[–] [email protected] 18 points 6 days ago

Got an appointment for orthopedic for my broken hand

Uninsured lol

This is gonna fucking suck catgirl-flop

dysphoria

(boymoded for the appointment before this and X-rays)

(Nurses assistant) "Any medication changes? Are you still taking.... estrace and spironolactone? (??)"

(spaghetti floods the exam table)

fuckkkkkk that was awkward

She was really nice about everything but ahhhh

I looked like absolute dog shit and my voice was all hoarse and gravely from smoking a lot and screaming when I broke it and fuck

Probably the most masc I've looked/sounded in ages and it's the one time I get directly clocked lmao

I gotta work on voice training

Otherwise I'm just gonna have to go for "futch tomboy Dr. Girlfriend"

[–] [email protected] 17 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (4 children)

Thinking about wearing something like this to my sister’s wedding.

Top:
Bottom:

Idk about fashion

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (6 children)

This would look very cute, I'd maybe add a corset or a ribbon to add a bit more visual flair around the waist to fit how detailed the top is but it's plenty pretty as is.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 6 days ago

Sleepy-time tea done, time to lie down doggirl-sleep

[–] [email protected] 14 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

I don't know how I want to look.

I don't know who I want to date.

I don't know how to decide when it changes every day. Every hour.

Two big fucking pendulums, gender and sexuality, both going at their own pace, almost never moving at the same time as one another.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago (1 children)

how do you feel your relationship between gender and sexuality is connected?

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 days ago

🎀 Dresspost #8 is up 🎀

[–] [email protected] 15 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

kitty-cri-screm

reading r/transnord, getting reminded how garbage our healthcare is for trans people.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

cw: suicide

I'm gonna end up killing myself one day aren't I.

So depressed. Every time I think about starting hrt I have so many doubts of whether I'm even trans. Both hrt (diy) and laser are expensive, I don't have a job, and the little I get from the municipality is only supposed to be used on basic necessities (yes, stfu, I know these are necessary for me, but I don't think they will agree). Clothes (if I could stop boymoding) is more money. There isn't any prospect for anything to change

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

::: spoiler spoiler

Its roughly 100USD per year for estrogen monotherapy, and it can be administered with insulin needles, if youre doing DIY. And the mutual aid stuff here could go a long way towards helping you get that. Im not trying to say you have to do it, but just that there is a path to getting hrt (from your comment it seemed implied that you werent getting hrt from a provider, hopefully i havent misunderstood).

Im sorry that money is such an issue, it sucks cat-trans

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

OK, that isnt as much as I had worried, I hadn't fully looked into it. I can find the money, its not as big of a problem as I may have made it seem. Also I don't want to take mutual aid away from some of the others that need it more than me.

I'm not getting hrt edit: currently

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

No one has commented on my piercings at work. I think I could walk in there wearing a dress and people would be too polite to say anything to my face. I'm glad that I'm not getting aby mean comments, but the complete silence on the changes so far has kind of been annoying.

Next week: nails in public.

Also, consultation with the medspa for hair removal went well. Going to be a lot cheaper than the cosmetic surgery place. I also got a quote from Milan and I am creeped out by how persistent they are with the sales. It's way too expensive and I don't want to commit to a lifetime package.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago

Sup? garf-chan

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