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can't believe my legs hurt. bones are literally rocks like get over yourself you're not supposed to feel pain
hell yeah we're trans megathreading now
What stupid cringe shit should I put on my compounded estrogen vials? Thinking of just labeling them "girl juice".
sex, bottom surgery
I absolutely want a full cavity. I'm very very toppy, but if there was a subby top I could change my mind...
I dream of having a secret room full of straps to put on... hmm what are we feeling today my darling... my old clone-a-penis, wolf penis, dragon penis, etc. There have been so many times in my life where I was eager to top and get in there but my parts were just not cooperating (especially after hrt lol). It'll be nice to just have silicone or whatever and have it be a choice I make.
starting my morning listening to the new porter ronbinson single (loudly) and being introspective in bed, my cat is vibing too
living alone has its benefits
I think Trump getting shot was a conspiracy by the news megathread to win last week.
And that anyone who agrees or even disagrees with me, or even who has no opinion at all, should feel free to share a comment saying so in reply to my comment.
I mentioned Gender Outlaw to a cis comrade. “Idc I’m ace.” Then said everyone’s on the spectrum and their attention deficit and computer caused. :( just because you can complain about capitalist brain worms doesn’t mean you’re free.
really need to get a full tarot deck. my current one only has the major arcana
How common is it for a trans person to dream of being a goth dominant at some point in transition?
Why does incompetence have to be a stereotype for husbands? I am a spouse who happens to be incompetent for different non-gendered reasons.
Question for people who have finished laser or have done it for awhile.
The laser people said to not shave a day before an appointment, but I’m three sessions in and shaved 24 hours ago and there isn’t a ton of growth.
There is definitely some, I can feel it, but it’s markedly less.
Would it be advisable to potentially not shave two days before, or would that mess things up some how?
Edit: or I guess I should say they say to shave 24 hours before the appointment, but then not shave until after if that makes sense.
As I have long expected, I do believe I'm some form of gender fluid. After like a month of girl mode, I woke up in guy mode today and was like "who painted my nails and filled my closet with women's clothing!? " lol
For me, as an anxiety prone person, the instability can be kind of difficult to deal with. It also means I have to plan any gender affirming care to be compatible with both of my states.
I'm thinking of just shoving myself into the genderqueer or bigender category. I know these are just labels, but they provide some stability. I think it's easier to conceive of my gender presentation shifting (I feel more masc than femme today) than my gender flipping (I feel more like a woman than a man today).
Whatever, I'm happy, though. I know girl me will be back soon
Tldr; reading vagabond turned me into a guy again. I want to start practicing Muay Thai again and be the strongest in the land!
bitching
Oh my brain is so melted actually! I forgot I had to sit and listen to dudes be very apologetic about being unable to find solutions for my fast decaying body! I had to like take my shirt off and get poked at and whatever, (not that bad kinda weird) then go think about disability support and shit? Listen to my dad talk about politics and how he thinks Kamala fucking Harris is good? I made progress on not dying or whatever but my brain became mulch and I didn't even notice. Only good thing that happened was the nurse lady said my shoulders are tense so I had my wife break every bone in both my shoulders. Banger.
Ran out of prog and the sleep issues are back :( my doctor needs to get back to me asap because I can't do this for super long
Reading Gender Outlaw. So eepy, but I press on. I should do my own research, but have the common surgeries changed much since whenever this book is from?
one is male until perceived otherwise… roughly four female cues to outweigh the presence of one male cue… many women today get “sirred” whereas very few men get called “ma’am.”
Is this true? I got an assumed to be a girl for having long hair when I didn’t even know trans people were a thing, and didn’t try to be fem. My impression is that rather than only masc stuff being picked up on, people are often outed for deviating for the masculine norm.
Do I just swallow estrogen pills or do I let them dissolve under my tounge? My endo just said to take them so I assume they mean swallow but idk if dissolving is better