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As I have long expected, I do believe I'm some form of gender fluid. After like a month of girl mode, I woke up in guy mode today and was like "who painted my nails and filled my closet with women's clothing!?
" lol
For me, as an anxiety prone person, the instability can be kind of difficult to deal with. It also means I have to plan any gender affirming care to be compatible with both of my states.
I'm thinking of just shoving myself into the genderqueer or bigender category. I know these are just labels, but they provide some stability. I think it's easier to conceive of my gender presentation shifting (I feel more masc than femme today) than my gender flipping (I feel more like a woman than a man today).
Whatever, I'm happy, though. I know girl me will be back soon
Tldr; reading vagabond turned me into a guy again. I want to start practicing Muay Thai again and be the strongest in the land!
Always a good feeling when you figure stuff out
I've figured things out like 8 times now haha. I'll be a different quantum gender next month.
Doesn't matter, though. As long as I'm happy
Exactly! Glad to hear ^^
Oh yeah, I figured out my no gender feelings are agender so I can use that label if need be too
Yeah, I considered myself demigender for a bit too. That's a good one cuz it's open to man/woman/nothing.
Demigenderfluid
I've went so long feeling like nothing but flirting with fem aesthetic, but agender comes fairly close to ny experience but I'm glad you've settled on what's closer to gender fluid too
I like how it rolls off the tongue
Mood. I've been here a lot. Even when I'm in guy mode, I still pull femme and wear most of my women's clothes. I just stay away from skirts and dresses. Hm, maybe I just think I'm in guy mode because that's like "neutral" or what I've been used to.
Oh, I haven't settled. I'm just getting started
Skirts and dresses i've kind of avoided, but I may get something if I think it fits at some point.
Maybe being flexible is better for you as in go with the flow kind of thing
Well when I said settled now, I did mean for now in the moment ^^ I'm glad you're happy
We all know were accelerating towards the next form of (R)evolution
Oh, I have a ton, and I love them, but they're for full femme days
Yeah, definitely. It's just kind of hard with my personality type because I like to know things in advance and plan. It's just something I'll have to work on.
Thank you for your support. Your gender weirdness is an inspiration ^^
I had a little punk dress and such back in Ireland but I couldn't wear it for safety reasons. And I ended up having to leave a lot of my wardrobe then. But I do want to get some outfits together and maybe mix in some dresses/skirts.
Maybe that will become easier in time, I know I need some stability and routine so I relate somewhat.
Awwh, you're welcome and thank you!
I wanna do Kyokushin so people beat me up
Kyokushin is cool!
I might recommend judo if you wanna be tossed around instead. Could be gender affirming, idk
Can't become the strongest in the land if you don't lean to the right
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