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submitted 3 weeks ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

Hi! I've been extremely tired this week and nearly forgot that I was hosting one so I'm writing this last minute! I couldn't think of anything so I'm going to write about one of my hamsters who is not Biggs; Meredith

Meredith was another hamster of mine from a few years ago during the early days of COVID, and she was the absolute sweetest little creature I had ever met. Very friendly, very gentle. She loved exploring anywhere I put her into and never bit me ~~okay she did once ever~~. She was an absolute sweetheart and bundle of love and was with me during some of the rougher parts of my life

She unfortunately died very suddenly out of the blue one day at a terribly young age showing no symptoms of anything wrong with her prior, which breaks my heart to this very day

I never had her as long as any other hamster of mine but I don't think I had any other hamster touch my heart in quite the same way. I miss you, girl


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[-] [email protected] 28 points 2 weeks ago

I got approved for bottom surgery!!!!

[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago
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[-] [email protected] 25 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Apparently my partner's queer org got kicked from their original space due to being too anti-genocide and pro-trans that it made the libs who owned that space lib out.

erm-this-you

[-] [email protected] 20 points 3 weeks ago

pro-trams

Fuck liberals and their hatred for public transport. madeline-angry

[-] [email protected] 16 points 3 weeks ago

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand i'm thinking of how my crush nerds out about her favorite Soviet locomotive again lol

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[-] [email protected] 24 points 2 weeks ago

Came out to all of my friends today, they all knew me as a trans nb they/them

Now they know me as a woman comfy-cool

[-] [email protected] 15 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah, I came out to everyone as NB, but I skipped right to she/her peltier-laugh

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[-] [email protected] 23 points 2 weeks ago

me with my two friends that i will definitely make within the next two years inshaallah

[-] [email protected] 23 points 2 weeks ago

When random people I don’t know well bring up trans rights stuff while talking to me I’m always a bit suspicious that they clocked me and that that’s why they brought it up.

[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago

Something similar happened to me once. I was at a small festival with 3 other people, one of whom knew that I was trans, because I told them right before that. We were just talking about the usual stuff until suddenly the 2 that didn’t know started shitting on Rowling and talking about trans stuff.

I was completely baffled by that, because I’ve never seen cis people bring that up by themselves, not even today. I just stood there and said nothing, while they continued. I was absolutely sure that the 3rd person must have outed me beforehand, and that the others just said that to make me feel more at ease.

But as it turned out, it was just a really weird coincidence and me not expecting such a thing ever happening because I live in a conservative area where trans stuff is ignored for the most part.

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[-] [email protected] 22 points 2 weeks ago

update

Came out to her. She is accepting. Talked about it a little bit. I didn't tell her my name though. Don't know why. But yea, went well and I feel good about that. Its nice not feeling so alone.

[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

One other thought on this same line of thinking, when I first told my therapist one of his first questions was my sexuality. And I've kinda been worried every time since someone would ask but thankfully they haven't 😅

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[-] [email protected] 21 points 3 weeks ago

Was I always a woman? Did I become one?

The secret is my pre-transition gender is whichever is funnier for the joke I'm making right now.

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[-] [email protected] 20 points 2 weeks ago

I was leaving the bathroom as some guy was going in and he had to go back out to double check that he was in the men's bathroom lol

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[-] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago

You're telling me that you clocked in for this shift BEFORE your injection?? You're injecting on communal time???

You're telling me that you were clocked in for twenty whole minutes before your injection?? So the commune got twenty minutes of you not being your best self??

Self. Crit. Now.

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[-] [email protected] 19 points 3 weeks ago

wrote 3 pages for a group project and then i see it in the final report and it's not at all what i wrote. I ask my group member whether he edited it using chatgpt (clearly he did because it was trash), and he says he "tried to enrich it". god help me avoid homicide this semester

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[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago

Me. It's lovely, every moment and every change is blissful euphoria.

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[-] [email protected] 18 points 2 weeks ago

I got called to set up a gynecologist appointment in a few months 😵‍💫

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[-] [email protected] 18 points 2 weeks ago

My lips too small; my teeth too big. I’m a mouse girl now.

[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago

Cheese to meet you.

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[-] [email protected] 17 points 3 weeks ago

Hex hamsters never truly die fidel-salute-big

[-] [email protected] 17 points 2 weeks ago

been sitting here struck with the realization that boys are actually really cute and i am significantly less gay than i thought. i'm still bi but like wtf i can't stop thinking about men. i've been stuck on "damn wtf i'm into boys a lot more now" for the past like 4-5 months and still can't get over it

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[-] [email protected] 17 points 2 weeks ago

I was just reflecting on the day I came out to myself as a trans woman and I feel all the emotions flooding back to me and now I'm sitting here in bed bawling the happiest tears I've cried in a long time. This feels like pure trans joy and catharsis.

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[-] [email protected] 17 points 2 weeks ago

family nonsenseMy mom has been absolutely horrendous to me ever since I came out. She's refused to talk about trans stuff with me even though I have asked 6 times now. She has avoided it every single time. She's been guilt tripping me and acting like I'm being unreasonable and needy when literally all I'm asking is for her to call me by my name, or at the very least tell me why she won't. It's been a thing for like a month and a half now. Since she was ignoring me when I was trying to talk to her, I ignored her when she needed information from me, and it led to a 6 hour inconvenience on her part. Now she's gotten it into her head that she's been nothing but supportive and great this whole time and I've gone no contact at the slightest push back from her, when in actuality, I actively tried to talk to her for a month and a half and she ignored me. I guess she's getting what she wants, because I'm not planning on talking to her again after this. She's acting like I never gave her a chance, but I did. That was it. And she stepped all over it.

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Mfw I'm somehow getting gender euphoria from a damn pen. It's not even anything femme it's literally just a nice simple pen that feels great when writing and twirling. Why is my brain like this.

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 2 weeks ago

I'm starting to become uncomfortable with how gay people here are.

spoilerIt's not gay enough. I'd be more comfortable if it were gayer.

[-] [email protected] 16 points 2 weeks ago

Going on a date with a beautiful trans woman this weekend. im-fuckin-gay

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 2 weeks ago

Finally a good day 😢haven't happy cried in a long time and have been off and on all day. Mostly about telling my friend but also reconnected with one of my online friends and played some CS/the finals and it was a really good time. idk today has been a good one.

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 2 weeks ago

LIBERAL SPOTTED

GO GO GADGET REDSAILS ARTICLE!

[-] [email protected] 16 points 2 weeks ago

dipshit customer: "hey how come you're the only one here wearing the mask?"

the answer i should have given: "the same reason you're wearing sunglasses indoors"

the answer i actually gave: "personal choice"

the REAL answer: "i'm a trans woman and didn't bother shaving today"

[-] [email protected] 16 points 2 weeks ago

Against my better judgment I am getting the Amazon skirt. madeline-stare

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Broke: I'm considering orchie for anti androgen reasons

Bespoke: I'm considering orchie so my high waisted pants are more comfortable.

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[-] [email protected] 15 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I would like to announce that last month my egg may* have possibly cracked. Does anyone have any advice for experimenting with presenting fem when in a very masculine coded & non LGBT friendly field? (HVAC)

*I say may because I'm not sure what to do about these feelings or whether they make me trans or not. This describes my experience pretty accurately

I've also changed my mind on the button thought experiment, for most of my life I would decide to push it just to try out having a female body for little while but keep the opportunity to change back if I didn't like it. But now I think I would want to push it even if the changes were permanent.

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[-] [email protected] 15 points 2 weeks ago

Went on garden date with wife doggirl-grin

[-] [email protected] 15 points 2 weeks ago

I just went to the knitting group I’ve joined for the first time today, and it’s been absolutely wonderful. The people there were so damn nice and didn’t care at all that I’m trans. They also gave me a lot of help, which I desperately needed, because I’m still a complete beginner, so I was very grateful for that. The only thing that I had to get used to was that everyone else was twice my age. There are younger people of course, but they couldn’t make it today.

And today is also my 5th anniversary of starting HRT, which still boggles my mind how it’s already been half a decade. I know it shouldn’t surprise me that it feels a lot shorter than the 5 years I had to wait before I could finally start but it still does. Like, if you told me that it’s only been 2 years, I would fully believe you.

The only thing that really annoys me though is that I’m completely overwhelmed by my emotions now. It’s like a tsunami composed of all kinds of emotions hitting me head-on. I wish there was some kind of switch that could turn them off, because I’m having a hard time calming down again.

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[-] [email protected] 15 points 2 weeks ago

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[-] [email protected] 14 points 2 weeks ago

I dry my nail polish using my gpu exhaust fan

Gamer gurl trans-undertale

[-] [email protected] 14 points 2 weeks ago

volsex, HORNYAte my partner out right before bed and first thing in the morning and we've both been fucking glowing all day long. I love the way they squirm and moan and beg for more. My lips and tongue were tingling for hours afterward (and still are actually, I had just tuned it out). Estrogen seems to have only made me hornier, or maybe girl horny just makes more sense for my brain. trans-heart panting

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[-] [email protected] 14 points 2 weeks ago

doggirl-smart The power of Marxism-Leninism transformed a KatGirl into a DogGirl, marvelous

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[-] [email protected] 14 points 3 weeks ago

I love Meridith, she sounds like she was great!

[-] [email protected] 14 points 2 weeks ago

new puppygirl experiments underway

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[-] [email protected] 14 points 2 weeks ago

I now have a girlfriend, which is great! But she is so horribly dysphoric that she thinks life will just always be that way. Forever. Gotta buy some nice clothes with her, and love her lots.

[-] [email protected] 14 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

horny postAte a trans girl out wirh a neo vagina. If I hadn't seen her (naked, for sex) before bottom surgery I wouldnt have even known tbh. Smelt like, tasted like, felt like, got wet like, a vagina she would've been born with - even had her (called it prostate but dont think it was) more or less right where the g spot is in birth vagina. I'll be getting my bottom surgery from the same clinic she got hers, so it was also like looking at what I could have

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[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

An old person (like forgotten generation) after a long talk already asked what my progress badge meant and I explained it and they said they "didn't know why people were so hateful to you" and wished me luck.

And it's so funny because they clearly didn't know what my specific deal was (a butch trans woman who mentioned a female partner). And I didn't explain and they didn't push it like a boomer might have.

Perfect way to act. I don't understand and I don't care it's fine.

[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago

sexFollow up on https://hexbear.net/comment/6124212 She came over for a few days, and we basically spent them high and fucking. It was amazing!

I need to freak out less and be more confident.

Also I'm fully in my slut era, I hooked up with three other people in the last week too :D God I love being a cute girl

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[-] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago

After waking up my curls still look pretty nice. I’m really shocked at how effective hair gel is. Without it my hair would be such an utter mess by now, and I would always dread looking in a mirror because of dysphoria.

I feel so pretty still. lea-blush

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[-] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago

I've successfully finished my finals :)

Stalin would be proud catgirl-salute

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