my gf is bullying me about a lack of proper reddiquette ... i dont even have a reddit account
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doing my part to spam this thread is also therapist-and-girlfriend-approved as i dont want to isolate myself anymore
it's friday rice
I tried to do my eyeliner today and failed miserably I just want to be pretty and hot tonight (im going to a show) but instead my eyes are angry at me
When I came out, I thought my relationships with friends and family would qualitatively change. However, things are exactly the same.
I have to imagine this is good. I'm not a new person after all. But when I'm hanging out with friends, and it's the same as it has always been, I get in my head that they're still treating me like a guy.
I have no evidence of this. I have no idea what it means to be treated like a girl. Wouldn't even know if I would like it from them.
Even with my wife, things haven't changed at all (except she loves me even more β€οΈ). I feel like we interact the same way we always have.
Idk is it supposed to feel different? Am I overanalyzing?
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Yes
I guess I can only tell after I fully transition and meet new people and see how they treat me.
People here treat me like a girl because you've only ever known me as a queerdo, but also you're all legally obligated to treat me that way or you'll get gulaged.
But upon further investigation, I'm not even sure I could point at a comment and say "yeah, this is a good example of someone treating me like a woman"
I'm just spinning my wheels at this point.
If a friend or family member came out as a woman to you, someone you've known for a while say, what would you want to change when you two hang out?
Idk. That's kind of what I'm stuck on.