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[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago (2 children)

my gf is bullying me about a lack of proper reddiquette ... i dont even have a reddit account

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago (6 children)

as a redditor, i expect you to behave better

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 days ago (1 children)

doing my part to spam this thread is also therapist-and-girlfriend-approved as i dont want to isolate myself anymore

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 days ago

it's friday rice bear-peekin

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago (6 children)

I tried to do my eyeliner today and failed miserably doggirl-cry I just want to be pretty and hot tonight (im going to a show) but instead my eyes are angry at me doggirl-tears

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago (3 children)
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[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago (3 children)

It just takes 15 seconds to post in trans mega chomsky-yes-honey

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago (4 children)

When I came out, I thought my relationships with friends and family would qualitatively change. However, things are exactly the same.

I have to imagine this is good. I'm not a new person after all. But when I'm hanging out with friends, and it's the same as it has always been, I get in my head that they're still treating me like a guy.

I have no evidence of this. I have no idea what it means to be treated like a girl. Wouldn't even know if I would like it from them.

Even with my wife, things haven't changed at all (except she loves me even more ❀️). I feel like we interact the same way we always have.

Idk is it supposed to feel different? Am I overanalyzing?

spoilerYes

I guess I can only tell after I fully transition and meet new people and see how they treat me.

People here treat me like a girl because you've only ever known me as a queerdo, but also you're all legally obligated to treat me that way or you'll get gulaged.

But upon further investigation, I'm not even sure I could point at a comment and say "yeah, this is a good example of someone treating me like a woman"

I'm just spinning my wheels at this point.

niko-speen kobeni-dance

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)

If a friend or family member came out as a woman to you, someone you've known for a while say, what would you want to change when you two hang out?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago

Idk. That's kind of what I'm stuck on.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago (14 children)

Sonic 2 just don’t hit the same as Sonic 1 niko-yawn

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