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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago

spoilerI wanna frot with a trans guy. I wanna measure up week by week as he's taking T and I'm taking E, see when he inevitably gets bigger than me 🤤🥵

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago

Gotta do my transplaining gender presentation for nursing students again but I'm so sleepy, finished a night shift only had 4 hours of sleep 😴

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago

Got an appointment for orthopedic for my broken hand

Uninsured lol

This is gonna fucking suck catgirl-flop

dysphoria(boymoded for the appointment before this and X-rays)

(Nurses assistant) "Any medication changes? Are you still taking.... estrace and spironolactone? (??)"

(spaghetti floods the exam table)

fuckkkkkk that was awkward

She was really nice about everything but ahhhh

I looked like absolute dog shit and my voice was all hoarse and gravely from smoking a lot and screaming when I broke it and fuck

Probably the most masc I've looked/sounded in ages and it's the one time I get directly clocked lmao

I gotta work on voice training

Otherwise I'm just gonna have to go for "futch tomboy Dr. Girlfriend"

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

My cat children now find it funny to sleep on my tits like they’re pillows for cats. Their head just lying on my breast and nothing else. Gods I love them. They’re such little shits.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I started doing voice training exercises, and it feels really good and I’m already seeing changes and I’m crying a bunch.

Does anyone have tips for not having to keep stopping to yawn?

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago (5 children)

More men should show me their soft bellies with their little treasure trails

They would if they weren't cowards

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago

uhhhmuhmuhmuhhmuhmhhm >~<

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Hello trans mega friends, I think you’re all very cool and I’m glad that you’re here.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I haven't come out to anyone about being agender which is weird because I like being agender. But I absolutely hate having to come out. I've still barely told anyone I'm pan, and I've never done that sober.

And I'd like to say my friends will all be supportive and loving but I'm not sure that's true.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I did get measured today fora bra after work. It was terrifying, but I did manage to do it. I now have a definitive bra size and I love it and hate it. 38I/40H. I didn’t expect that large of a cup size. Kind of gave my mind rest so I don’t have to worry about them being too small. Also, I will never buy another bra under $70.

I was terrified and nervous, but the shopkeeper did an excellent job taking care of me. I’m shocked I was able to do it. Maybe things are turning around. I hope so.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I've been thinking about what name to call myself. I have one name in mind that I really like, but it's literally my birthname with two letters added. And I don't know how to feel about that. And while it sounds good in most of the languages I speak, it sounds like it was ripped out of some fantasy novel in english, because that's the only context where I have heard the english translation of that name being used.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago

I don’t think I could’ve ever been comfortable with the feminine version of my deadname. I would’ve constantly had the feeling of getting deadnamed even when they get it correct.

Instead, I got both my first and middle name from Greek mythology, which could pass as fantasy novels, I guess. doggirl-smug

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (8 children)

I've been doing some thinking about my own morality as of late and why I believe the things I do, and the more I think about it, the more I feel drawn toward veganism

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Read I Love Amy, was good but very sad at parts

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (10 children)

Thinking about wearing something like this to my sister’s wedding.

Top:
Bottom:

Idk about fashion

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago

I want to learn how to knit so I can make sweaters for my plushies blahaj catgirl-heart

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (4 children)

looking through my old discord DMs, I can pinpoint the moment my egg cracked drunkenly venting to a friend about my gender with a margin of error of about 15 minutes

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Hello darlings. Every day my life is made better through my connection to you wonderful, dear people. Thank you for helping me become my best self and for teaching me to be a better person. This is the best place on the internet and I love you all 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

Is it worth it to get actual bras instead of the cheap sports bras I got when I started hrt? Breast tissue still isn't very developed so I'm just anxious about spending money on bras over and over

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (4 children)

kink adjacentwhen your dick is too small for the chastity cage doggirl-shock doggirl-sweat doggirl-smug doggirl-grin doggirl-gloom doggirl-cry doggirl-tears doggirl-lol doggirl-thumbsup doggirl-cry

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I like when my dream is like:

doggirl-smug “c’mon you’re male, you are the brother, beat up your sisters abusive ex”.

…and then I actually do it as if I’m not a 5’3 estrogenized girl-thing who can’t even pick up 50 pounds to save my life. doggirl-sweat

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Secondhand enterprise IT equipment should be considered gender affirming medication covered by insurance

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago

Victims of Transphobia Foundation

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

First?

EDIT: Yes.

sicko-power

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (4 children)

dysphoriaI feel like never looking at myself is giving me a very warped sense of myself.

I either pass more than I think I do and I’m inflicting needless mental anguish on myself, or I pass even worse than I think and knowing that will destroy me.
Maybe I’ll hazard a look when I’m 50kg and been on this dose of hrt for a year.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

suicideSorry for the fucked question, but is there a trans suicide hotline that won't call the cops on me?

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 months ago (1 children)

translifeline: U.S. (877) 565-8860 or Canada (877) 330-6366

This hotline says they won't call unless you ask them too. I hope you are okay/as okay as you can be. I'll be thinking about you.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I'm thankful to be living in the same universe as oatmeal

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (12 children)

I see all the suffering in the world and feel like I don't deserve to be safe or happy.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

i thought of "full middle malcomist" and assumed i was being original but someone's already made the joke :(

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

catgirl-flop how do I be nice to myself

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

imagine having to stand on a chair to reach the top shelf. couldn't be me doggirl-smug

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

broke: quitting drinking for health reasons

woke: quitting drinking because it makes me long for a bf so badly 🥺

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago

Yesterday night, I took too many drugs (doctor prescribed) and ended up telling a friend I'm planning on transitioning. Ended up deleting the messages before he saw them, but damn that felt good.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago

Hyped myself into telling my mom about wanting to experiment looks-wise/gender-wise down the road. She’s hesitant but open to helping me try which is honestly on the better end of what I can hope for w/rt it

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago

Planned Parenthood follow-up went well. We upped my dose from 1 mg 2/day oral tablets to 5mg/week EV IM (keeping on the 50mg 2/day spiro for now). Really excited!

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (13 children)

I like to name my characters in video games and ttrpgs the name I veeery nearly chose for myself, as like a little joke that literally only I find funny.

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