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The Rust Lang Ecosystem — Trans Megathread for the week of December 16, 2024, to December 22, 2024 (lemmygrad.ml)

submitted 3 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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A language empowering everyone to build reliable and efficient software.

from rust-lang.org

Rust by itself is a great language, but what really makes it shine are its many great crates. The ecosystem around rust is one of the best there is, and its documentation is practically unrivalled. So lets look at some of those crates!

actix-web

Actix-web is an amazing web server framework for rust. It's modular, easy to use, intuitive and fast. It's also what lemmy is built on! So when you use this very site, you are using something build with actix!

Bevy

Bevy is a code first game engine for rust, based on the ECS paradigm. It's incredibly refreshing and different from most other engines. It is also unbelievably modular, in fact, just about every part of the engine cam be removed or added as you please! If you are every looking for something simple to play around, try bevy!

Tokio

The backbone of most asynchronous rust. It provides everything needed to build reliable, fast web applications!

Serde

Serde is the go-to library for serialization and deserialisation in rust. Its derive macros make it a breeze to use, and there are countless crates supporting various formats with Serde!

SQLx

SQLx is an amazingly simple sql handling crate. It is both feature rich and yet simple, and just a joy to use!

Reqwest

A neat little crate for sending http(s) requests! It's also used in Lemmy, and just about anywhere else where someone needs to do get some thing from an http(s) endpoint!

And this is far from all! Rust is a lovely language, with an even more amazing ecosystem!

Have an amazing week, everyone!

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 months ago

Time to do the dishes in the middle of the night because I was too doggirl-sleep to do them during the day

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I mega her thread till I the week of December 16, 2024, to December 22, 2024

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 months ago

What’s up guys! Returned I have from a moon logged off. It was pretty nice. I read a lot about Buddhism and completed my first insight cycled. Going to try to not let this place re-embolden my executive dysfunction, but it’s nice to be back. How are y’all doing? Currently kind of contented and tired. I miss being able to cry.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 months ago

doggirl-hi

Been offline for a couple of days as I've been travelling to spend christmas with my family. Things have been going great so far. My mom was always completely supportive but a little awkward about things, but she seems to have overcome that and is using my new name more and more, and while my dad does not, he no longer deliberately misgenders me either, so I hope he's on the right path. Extremely grateful to my sister who's always been super supportive. She's also LGBTQ so unlike my parents she knows what a trans person is. Just lifts a burden of my shoulders to have at least one person who just understands without me needing to explain everything, and she's even offered to talk to our grandparents about it if I don't want to. I think the fact that she's been using my name and has been gendering me correctly since the moment I told her I was trans makes it easier for my parents to do the same.

I'm not out to most of my relatives because I don't keep in contact with them and live far away, but I'm 100 % done with boymoding, so I'll just show up as myself and they can think whatever. Kinda looking forward to seeing how they react tbh

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 months ago

This will be the first Yule by myself on Saturday. Granted my ex really never got into it, but you know. Gonna be fun just hanging around home and doing my yearly Yule rituals. By myself. I guess...

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 months ago (4 children)

Everyone on Love Is Blind is like an investor…or in real estate…or an influencer etc.
Give me literally one person with a normal job

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 months ago (3 children)

I am such a judgmental pos because everyone on these shows just seems like the bougiest fakest people so whenever they talk about like "I want to surround myself with genuine people" I'm like...sure

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

transphobia, parents

My mom found out I'm taking DIY HRT and confronted me about it. I defended myself while she kept saying how it was dangerous because there's no oversight. She also brought up hormonal changes like getting a temper, bringing up how I already always had a temper and that this would make it worse. I mentioned that I think that I will have less of a temper because I'll have less gender dysphoria. I also said this would be the same on official hormones, which she is not against, and she agreed with me. After a while I started crying and kept crying. Luckily she feels like she can't decide for me even if she's against it, so she lets me keep it. But the thing is, that she forcing me to tell my dad since she doesn't want to keep a secret from her husband. He's supportive but anti-DIY as well. I'm afraid that maybe he will try to take it away so I need to figure out how to hide in the worst case scenario.

This bullshit is exactly why I was hiding it from them in the first place. I was thinking of telling them but this shows me exactly that I made the right decision keeping this from them. I shouldn't have put my hormones in my toilet bag, which I will take to vacation. She found out because she wanted to see if I still had anti- cat allergy pills for this vacation.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 months ago (5 children)

I took my first baby step into music production, i downloaded renoise and figured out how to chop a break and sequence it after watching tutorials

Literally the babiest of steps but maybe one day i'll be able to make something cool

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 months ago (6 children)

i feel like christmas music is a practical joke on me that everyone else is in on

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Dropped better call saul after like 3 seasons because I wanted to see the funny lawyer man from the commercials saul-anime not some serious drama stuff saul-stare

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 months ago (2 children)

big sad dysphoria posting

i went into today's voice therapy session ready to absolutely get to work and really drill myself and get the hard stuff done and about halfway through i just fucking broke down crying and couldn't go on. why the fuck do i have to put in all of this fucking effort into maybe sort of sounding like a cis woman when there's fucking billions of cis women out there who have never had a single problem with having their voice sound male and never put an ounce of effort into it why the fuck does testosterone exist why the fuck is there no surgery out there that can fix my fucking resonance why the fuck do i have to put in all of this extraordinary effort jamming my fucking tongue down the back of my throat just for people to call me a man anyway what the fuck

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

afwafwa

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 months ago (10 children)

shit, i think i might actually be poly

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Looking at myself in the mirror is so weird

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 months ago

Guy who thought he was cishet all his life despite all friend groups being lgbtq+

spoiler

that was me blob-no-thoughts

[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Idk where all the new comrades on the site are coming from but I'm excited about it

[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Me when I post on sunday night and the new mega rolls up on monday catgirl-huh wish we had more of the catgirl emotes....

@[email protected] Magi actually introduced me to Jex Thoth like six or seven years ago now, yeah they fuckin rule. I still know nothing about them tbh...

@[email protected]

sick raincoat (I've been wearing in the house since I got it lmao) a pair of pants, a hat, an extremely extra fruity coat, a toy lightsaber (I think it's Kanan's?) a hoodie of one of my favorite sports teams and a plush toy for my kitties to wrassle

Is this a fit?? Awesome though, love when the thrift actually has stuff lets-fucking-go

@[email protected] Simply not hanging out with her as before is entirely valid too, I'm just way too indignant and angry honestly. I hate that we pretty much cannot ever trust cis people not to be like this... Brutal and stupid way for her to end things without even realising it...

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 months ago

bonus post, body weight stuff

I keep staring at my new ID, the floofy curly hair, the ridiculously dark circles under my eyes, the gaunt cheeks. Do cheeks actually go gaunt on estrogen? 'Cause mine sure as hell have since I last got my picture taken for ID five years ago, even though I have only gained weight...

[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Anyone know artists that draw lesbians/sapphics/GL/etc that have POC in them? I have a few subreddits I look at drawings from but the images are 80% entirely white people. ~~Unsure if its due to reddit being white, liberal level racism or~~ nevermind as I was typing realized its probably both

Also wish they was a better place to look at drawings that wasn't using twitter or reddit, both places are liberal hellscapes

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Why does the hawk tuah girl have a podcast and a crypto scam? catgirl-huh Wasn't it just a random street interview? Is this just what you do if you go viral now?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 months ago (2 children)

long story short she's a proxy for jake paul scamming people

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 months ago (1 children)

:boohoo: I GOT SPOILED FOR A MAJOR PLOT POINT IN A YURI NOVEL IM READING BECAUSE I DIDNT THINK THERE WOULD BE SPOILERS AFTER A SPOILER WARNING IN A VIDEO COVERING THE ENTIRE SERIES. :boohoo:

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 months ago (6 children)

Okay I have to know what to do with my bangs, and I do not. They just turn into lil goofy springy ringlets, which is fine but when I was doing my hair "straighter" (by accident, brushes etc) they served to offset my face, 'cause a straight part makes my gaunt 'n' gay lil face look kinda long when it's not.

So what's even a good way to do the hair above your forehead when it is curly af?

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 months ago (4 children)

::: spoiler cw sex, leather, excited about toys I finally got my toyyyyssss! Im so relieved, they were lost in the mail for like a week.

Anyway i got three floggers, all of them cats. Two are small; one has little leather balls on the end of the falls, one has little points almost like a leaf. One is big and scary, it has the handle of a signal whip and 9 braided falls which break out into 4 individual strands. I dont think it will mark me up very easily, but it will almost certainly sting something fierce.

All of them are black leather, with braided/pleated handles, and look great for it.

Now i just need to find more Dommes to play with, cause everyone is busy all holiday season catgirl-flop

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 months ago (20 children)

I LOVE MY GIRLFRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! somebody challenge that feeling so i can strike you down in singles combat and prove it

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 months ago

wife gonna wake me up at 7am

so I can have a normalish sleep schedule for when we go to her parents for Christmas and to go shopping

and I know I’m gonna get very little sleep before then. doggirl-tears

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 months ago

I was wondering why things had suddenly changed. Today and yesterday (at least) I have been... different. Wanting to get out and socialize, bunch of new thoughts on gender. Wonder if not taking ADHD meds for some time and then starting back up might have been the cause.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 months ago (1 children)

what is it about protestantism that makes them post the worst memes you've ever seen

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 months ago (4 children)

Well, based on the voting, it looks Tracha will soon become a matrix space (or something very similar to it)!

Hopefully this might allow for more topic-based discussion, and discussions can be less overwhelming for those who need it to be that way (hi).

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 months ago

five word tragedy, lewd whining

Too tired for a libido catgirl-flop

The spirit yearns for lewdness but the flesh is exhausted and wants to hibernate for a week

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

wa
WA ʷᵃʷᵃ

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 months ago (7 children)

Friday Rice doggirl-grin

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Hello Mega ralsei-wave

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (5 children)

CW: dysphoria, family, transphobia, religion

Man, having to performatively boymode for the family (not out to any of them) for Christmas is already wearing me down, and I haven't even left town (they came for my commencement yesterday, and are going back today). Not doing makeup really sucks. I do want to spend time with my siblings, but I may have to figure out an excuse to duck town earlier than I hoped. I am glad that my adult sister isn't coming home until after Christmas: she's tolerable and can even be sweet sometimes 1-on-1 but is a nightmare when we're with the broader family. I know it has to do with her own stresses/anxiety towards our parents, but she ruined Christmas dinner for me last year by going off on transphobic rants so it's hard for me to sympathize.

It also sucks because I've wanted to make the family watch Tokyo Godfathers for years, but it was never accessible on their streaming apps. This year, it's on Amazon Prime but with the climate I think it would cause a fight with my dad (and maybe even mom) who would accuse it of "confusing/corrupting" children. It would be a good way to test the waters and gauge the family's reaction, but I don't want to get in a fight.

Also not looking forward to getting dragged to church (of the "non-denom" evangelical variety). Would be another reason to skedaddle early to at least cut down the number of that experience.

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