The space was generally masc,
Is hexbear a femme space? If hexbear was masc, would that be really bad and perverted innately?
Sorry, I don't disagree with the whole post but this lil zinger is just hiding in there all innocuous.
Banned? DM Wmill to appeal.
No anti-nautilism posts. See: Eco-fascism Primer
Slop posts go in c/slop. Don't post low-hanging fruit here.
The space was generally masc,
Is hexbear a femme space? If hexbear was masc, would that be really bad and perverted innately?
Sorry, I don't disagree with the whole post but this lil zinger is just hiding in there all innocuous.
Not necessarily, but I think the combination of being 80% dudes and having any horny posting drove women away. Particularly the chasers. I assume that environment also lends itself to unwarranted dms.
I think it is still mostly masc, but the energy is different. Less posts about how "socialist/rebel woman is hot". It's still there, but subdued.
"Masc energy", masc is when you have chasers and horny guys and dm harrassment?
It can be, but I feel like I'm being raileroaded here.
Because these statements are ascribing "horny and disrespectful and harrassing" as an innately "masculine" behavioural trait. Do masc lesbians do this too??? More broadly though what's the flipside of this, that "femme" is innately good and non thirsty and benevolent, so we must eradicate all "masc energy" in the space? Is this like when dunking was cishet white man behaviour?
A little was written about it here because this type of unserious, non-intersectional 'feminist' thought is not an uncommon sight, but it's very silly. It's just doing gender essentialism again at the end of it, like "masc" seems to actually mean "male" and "femme" actually means "female", and it's not cool. I mean, imagine deploying gender essentialism in the apparent interest of keeping the space safe for marginalised people?
If there's an alternate explanation for this that doesn't suck I'd love to hear it, sincerely, but all I see is denoting specific behaviours as innately gendered and describing one binary gender as benevolent and non-oppressive and good, and the other as violent and oppressive and bad.
OK, I'm not saying that's innate. I'm saying that that's what the environment of r/cth was and used a shorthand for it that is pretty well understood. I can change the post to reflect this if you'd like.
You used "masc" as a shorthand for 'pornbrained and DM sexual harrassment'? I am being sincere when I ask: do you understand the problem with that?
Idk, its 2 am here and I'm trying to go to sleep, but now I have to finish this conversation.
Yes, ok. What term should I use? You know the kind of dudebro energy I mean, I'm sure. I will change my original post
I'm not asking you to stay up, you can take time to respond. I'm not gonna declare war because you got sleep. Literally please go to bed instead of listening to me yap, I can wait.
Why does unwanted forward sexual behaviour need a gender tag, though? Why should it be ascribed to a gender tag anyway? You can never, ever make the generalisation "all people of a gender do this". Plus, "dudebro" and "masc" are not synonyms. Does this mean that transmasc users were involved too? Even just saying that cth had too much leering, disrespectful objectification would have done. I sincerely do not understand the compulsion to ascribe behaviours to entire categories of people.
Edited og post
lol
Skeleton at the bottom of the ocean meme
that is exactly how I feel
My biggest opsec is just deleting 90% of my post before I actually post them.
There's definitely value in spiking your posts with false data to obscure who you are and where you live. Lie about where you live or travel to, what car you drive or where you work/have worked. If you think you've revealed a bit too much about yourself, burn your account and make a new one, or better yet, gradually move from one account to another so it's harder for people to track you to your new acct. Blur out backgrounds in photos you share that may have things like licence plates on cars, shop names or street signs. Think critically about how a drip feed of PII (personally identifiable information) may not be enough to pin you as one individual, but enough yo narrow it to, say, 100 or so who may go to a certain bar or venue, or live on a certain street. A sufficiently motivated chud may think that those odds are good enough to shift from online to offline work and potential harrassment.
For example, I once was a roadie for Pink Floyd, I drive a maserati and live at Mawson base in Antarctica where I research the interactions of penguin guano on endemic moss populations.
I used to delete all my comments on occassion. Nowadays I just add false information about my self at times
This is the way.
Am I 20? Am I 40? Do I live in NYC or Arkansas? Who's to say?
Actually I'm an ancap at heart, I work as a fintech consultant in a think tank and I believe the government should just let businessmen do business. Come at me
I mean there's definitely multiple power users here who have posted more than enough to be identified by a moderately determined adversary. I think the de facto rule really is just that users decide their own level of privacy, and the no-selfies policy is mostly useless.
Anyone who has ever posted any kind of payment service handle to /c/mutual_aid could be identified by the feds if they had a reason, for example.
i genuinely hope the cops identify and charge me with terrorism for my hexbear posts because you know what, I think this site DOES need a "stereotypical Hexbear" kind of person that'll haunt their minds and I'm willing to be that...stay tuned folks
Hexbear needs its "r/antiwork mod on Jesse Watters" moment
my /c/selfcrit post after I show up on BBC Newshour talking about Hexbear is gonna be legendary
Anyhow I just booked my trip to Uzbekistan via cruise liner where I intend on instigating the revolution by introducing vegan pilaf. During this time I will only post Kelly emoji to convey my progress. o7 o7 o7
Go periods of time without posting. The more you post, the more you will likely have a signature in the way you post, what you post about, and who you interact with.
Nice try mods, you will never make me touch grass.
Go periods of time without posting.
I have no superiors to relieve me of my duty. You bulldozed them all to a mass grave for trying to free humanity.
Afaik the implementation of Lemmy this is a real problem due to federation to other instances, you can post things here that end up somewhere you don't want them to and if you delete them it's not certain if they will also be deleted there as well. It's been stated for a long time but it's one or the other really, you can't have a decentralized social media without federation, and you can't have full privacy with federation. I might very likely be wrong about the specifics of this, but this should be also taken in account when considering to post something more personal.
This is correct. Anyone can implement the activity pub specification (what Lemmy uses for federation) without implementing the delete parts. Sending delete to a federated site is nothing more than a "pretty please remove this"
Edit: to be fair, anything put publicly on the internet can be downloaded and saved forever, its just that activity pub also pushes (compared to normally where things are only stored on one entity's servers) stuff out to who knows which servers
Electronic Frontier Foundation has a good collection of articles and guides that are not just practical but teach you how to think about your own particular situation: Surveillance Self-Defense
First thing is you need to think about your "threat model". Which means what information are you trying to protect, and why? There is no universally "best" way to do anything. Tactics that might increase security/privacy in one situation might impair it in another. Like if you are trying to avoid getting doxxed by random internet people who take a dislike to you that's one thing, but if you are trying to avoid government (which government(s)?) spying that's another. If you are trying to avoid government spying, is it to avoid legal prosecution, or to avoid covert interference in your organizing (ala COINTELPRO)? They can be totally different kinds of surveillance so you need to have different strategies to avoid them.
Also need to consider that making an extremely elaborate or onerous plan that you will never bother to actually enact, or requires a high degree of technical skill or perfect execution might not be practical. They might interfere with your purpose too much.
This page covers the basics of how to think about your own goals, fears and priorities. It's very generic but is a good overview. It's really key to think about this ongoing to avoid falling into the trap of following advise that might be perfectly reasonable for another person but counter productive for yourself.
Good post and should be stickied.
The culture generally leans towards anonymity but there's some leeway for how much you personally.fond necessary. I've got a record, anything I post here really doesnt matter, it's posting consistent with my arrest record. But I still try to.be vague and keep a general culture of relative anonymity going on. I've described my tattoos but I'd never post a picture of them, I'll post pics of the inside of my house but not my house. If you go through my lists it's pretty easy to tell.ehat city I live in but I've never explicitly said so. I'd say probably my piss poor level of personal security is thr bare minimum and I'm a bit internationally sloppy cause if feds are looking me up.its gonna get a we'll established file and it's a waste of their time. Others, maybe not so much. Just be cautious, there's people out here to whom jail is less of a big deal. Be a cautious cat as standard practice.
I know I'm bad about it. I delete my account every couple of months but I bet a dedicated person could track me down based on my posts.
Though I'll say that in the real world I've gotten more guff for not having a mainstream social media account than for openly expressing my communist views. Even lost a job offer over it once (though I consider that a bullet dodged) because I had shared with them my linkdin acct that only has my resume and they wanted to check a Facebook acct that I've never had.
Imo it's good to raze the account every year or so. I've been lazy and have let this one go for way too long
The thing that creeps me out most now is the availability to feed all our posts into LLMs. The tech exists now most likely to tie burner accounts together and form a more complete profile, so it's not just what you put in an individual account but all of them. Not for chuds but for cops. I'm not even doing anything illegal but if at any point there's a commie roundup, well...
I think I'm gonna join the bureaucracy next for another layer of opsec.
I delete my account whenever I make a really bad comment and want to avoid the heat, or when I smoked too much weed and got paranoid.
So about every 3 months.
or when I smoked too much weed and got paranoid.
Weed paranoia is the key ingredient to robust OpSec tbh
For voicing your opinion about activism,
I'd recommend to at least use:
Above should cover the needs of most people.
But if you think you're a high profile target,
then following would also be smart:
Hey look it's the post that caused me to make a hexbear account
Honestly it's pretty much impossible to be anonymous these days anyway so I guess I'll live fast and die young
I do lie a lot though, I find that helps.