askchapo

It depends. Are you looking for:

• an asexual-centric thread where you can talk about your experiences with asexuality?
  • [email protected] may be for you
• general discussion threads where nobody is horny?
  • I find that sexuality can often be an inescapable persistent undercurrent of online discussions, which really frustrates me. this definitely happens on hexbear sometimes, but I think it's not too bad, as you can always invoke the magic words to get that out of here
    
    the magic words

    volcel police!
• or have you experienced outright ace-phobia on the site?
  • if so, use the report button or inform the mods, and they'll purge the perpetrators

We've had the VoPo as part of this community's culture since at least 2 years before this site even launched. It's a clear enforcement of "neither horny nor a coomer be". Or does "asexual-friendly" mean "asexual-centric"?

I have at least two ace friends and they're great.

[email protected] has a rule against aphobia.

Feel free to post some memes from Reddit's r/aaaaaaacccccccce or whatever — we just don't have as many active Fediverse users to sustain active communities.

I definitely think ace comrades (and aro comrades too!) should get a space or regular thread somewhere for themselves, to talk and share what they want to share.

I guess there needs to be a minimum amount of people/interest in it, but I think even if it's not many people here it should be an option.

Hi! If you're looking for a community specifically for asexual people, we at Lemmygrad have one over at [email protected] 😊

Always nice to meet a fellow asexual person! ^^)/ 🫂

I do think Asexuals should get a space of their own. I don’t think the entire site should have to repress its sexuality when it’s already weirdly puritanical on that end. I also find it odd for asexuals to be incorporated into LGBTQ comm when sexuality is literally the defining criteria for the comm.

Are you looking for a space to specifically discuss asexuality, or a space about general things minus references to sex?

Not sure what you are asking. Like is there a comm where nobody ever talks about sex?