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Because well, I am Asexual, and well.... it is incredibly rare to find another Asexual person anywhere. Not to shame people for their interests, but I am not comfortable with a lot of posts, even if they are meant to be for a joke, implying that everyone gets horny, and/or that apparent "Peak Hedonism" or whatever it's called, is about having lots of sex. Again, something I am not interested in.

I have seen no signs of any Asexual friendly spaces on this site, not even in the LGBTQIA+ Subcommunity for this site. Although I have been socially isolated by otherwise queer friendly spaces before, for "only" being Asexual.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I do think Asexuals should get a space of their own. I don’t think the entire site should have to repress its sexuality when it’s already weirdly puritanical on that end. I also find it odd for asexuals to be incorporated into LGBTQ comm when sexuality is literally the defining criteria for the comm.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I think GSM (gender and sexual minorities) is perhaps a more accurate label. The community is about being different from the cishet majority, unless you're suggesting straight trans people should be excluded too?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I’m not sure I understand. Why wouldn’t straight trans people be part of an lgbtq comm?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

when sexuality is literally the defining criteria for the comm.

Are you suggesting being trans is a sexual thing?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

They probably forgot to write the "straight" part when you were replying to the comment.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

That's correct. The criticism is still valid though.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Because Asexual people aren't heterosexual. Nor are they necessarily adverse to sex and sexuality. They experience and engage with sexuality differently to allosexual people. They're not just people who are sexually repressed.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

I didn’t say they were sexually repressed