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[–] [email protected] 36 points 3 months ago (2 children)

pepe-silvia the news mega people couldn't handle how successful our trans mega has become so they shot trump about it to make the news mega number go up higher than us

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Boymoding for the first time in a while to meet my grandparents, but I lost like 7kg of probably mostly muscle since I used these clothes so I just look like someone who raided her boyfriend's wardrobe.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 4 months ago

I just look like someone who raided her boyfriend's wardrobe.

goals??? kinda i dunno thonk-trans

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 4 months ago (7 children)

CW: transphobia

So my dad's cis but really outspoken about trans rights (and queer rights in general) which has led to him arguing with all sorts of reactionaries in, like, Facebook groups and shit.

His go to arguement has been to demand the transphobes prove he's a man and then poke holes in whatever proof they suggest as they grow increasingly flustered and run out of arguments. After which he'll hit 'em with a line about how all they've got is his word on it and that's all that should matter.

And, well, I've had a hard time of it recently with transphobia so it's been cathartic seeing him just verbally steamroll these dickheads, laughing the entire time.

Shame the extended family are kinda a nightmare about their transphobia (so bad that I'm not going to out myself to them 'till I have, like, at least an entire country between myself and them), 'cos it's nice having supportive parents.

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[–] [email protected] 33 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (10 children)

It's so funny how my main concern sometimes when having somebody stick something inside of meis that my moans stay fem and passable so I don't scare the lesbian off with my deep ass voice πŸ’€


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[–] [email protected] 32 points 4 months ago (6 children)

Just took my first dose of progesterone. If I don't wake up with DDs, I'm gonna cry

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 4 months ago (8 children)

upbearing the trans mega but not the news mega despite reading both to maintain trans hegemony over the site im-doing-my-part

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[–] [email protected] 31 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (5 children)

trump getting shot is a false flag to make the news megathread bigger than the trans megathread

transphobes win again trans-sad

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 4 months ago (4 children)

You should all be glad that Hexbear rules forbid photos because I would be unstoppable if I could post all my cute outfits here.

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 4 months ago (3 children)

have i me tiond evr iam nonbinry

[–] [email protected] 24 points 4 months ago

ths iz sincerr i hapily use all pronouns

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 3 months ago (7 children)

Before I my egg broke I thought I was unique for being a woman on internet fora with almost only men, now I finally found a place with many women (this mega) but it made me realise I’m not a woman ooooooooooooooh

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 3 months ago (7 children)

Assassination attempt on Trump, smh these news mega posters are getting desperate.

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 4 months ago (11 children)

Guess who just got her asshole lasered? it was me meow-fiesta

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 4 months ago (11 children)

I may not be a mother, but baby trans treating me like an elder who can give them advice and guidance does make me feel like one. comfy-cool

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 4 months ago (3 children)

I don't know how much more waiting I can stand. madeline-sadeline

Waiting for laser hair removal to be finished.
Waiting for the hormones to work.
Waiting for blood tests to see if the hormones are working.
Waiting to lose weight.
Waiting to be with my girlfriend.

It seems like I've been waiting all my life just to be happy. madeline-scared

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 4 months ago (3 children)

finally got to my upper lip during electrolysis this week. pain is just dysphoria leaving the body, right?

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 4 months ago (11 children)

One of the good things about Arabic is gendered verbs, idk how to explain it, but I can gender myself easier while monologuing, like "I'm laying in bed" in Arabic is gendered so I'm she-laying on bed (can work too for they pronouns but I don't think it'll work for neo ones), I can gender myself in it and no one can stop me.

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 3 months ago (7 children)

So far T has been keeping my potentially monthly issue away, hope it stays that way forever. I found cheap cups on AE that pass the silicone burn test, in case it decides to try me again I'll be prepared. For more positives my voice has been passing more and more, my laugh is another issue though, its been so long since I've laughed around people I forgot that was a thing.

I'm expecting work to be a transphobic complete and wretched shit show today, yesterday was basically the retail version of the first Clerks (all we were missing was the dead guy in the bathroom). I hate closing.

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (11 children)

Got my haircut for the first time since transitioning with a local queer barber. They said my hair was beautiful and gave me tips to take care of my curls. aubrey-happy This is so sweet, as I am a bit uncomfortable with the thin hair around my scalp.

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 3 months ago (5 children)
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[–] [email protected] 26 points 4 months ago (3 children)

badeline-rage shutting down the site because the trans megathread was winning the posting wars was not okay

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (13 children)

I finally, finally am (mostly) happy with a DIY dress custom I started over a year ago. idk if this is anyone else’s style, but I love it and I can’t wait to wear it to college lol (especially since once I get to college I can finally go on T!)

please ignore my messy floor, this is my sewing cave

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 4 months ago (1 children)

so I went to my sister's 30th birthday party which was nice. got to talking with two of her college friends, both women, one of whom i got along with particularly well and found attractive. then later my sister mentions the two of them are dating.

my god, the envy that rose up in me. not even about the girl in specific, just that they get to be two pretty girls dating. suddenly i felt so trapped in how I am. Have you ever been stuck in a tight space and know struggling won't do any good, and in fact will only make it worse, but there's still the overwhelming urge to scream and thrash like an animal until you're a hot, raging heap? That's what welled up in me. And later, a certainty that things cannot go on as they are for much longer, one way or another

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 4 months ago (1 children)

My future milf shirt gettin a lot of looks

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 4 months ago (5 children)

sales rep at the appliance store called a coworker over to meet our parrot by saying "come meet Mr. <bird's name>". lady looks at me and my wife, puzzled. thought we were abouta get misgendered for a hot second until the sales rep went "yeah, that's the bird's name" and her coworker's confusion dissipated. imma take it as "neither of us pass as men any longer". victory!

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

40 days sober

electrolysis clinic booked to max. ill unionize against myself when I move offices, but for now the boss wants 12 hour days

expanding to a full time office soon, at which point ill have capacity to do multiple days a month pro bono work for a local drop-in centre for LGBTQ folks

training an apprentice, when they're ready we will convert the business to a workers co-op and bring on another apprentice. im raising an army of based communist electrologists.

lets fucking go

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 4 months ago

I look away from the trans mega to play video games with wifey, 100 new comments reisen-dance

[–] [email protected] 25 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I saw a trans meme in an Algerian instagram page and the comment section wasn't talking bad about it, feels good

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I'm glad you're all commies and I never had to spend any time in lib queer spaces

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

Were talking sexuality tonight looks like

For me, since I was young, I've always gone for the gender different people - tomboy, yes, femboy, yes, enby? Oh fuck yes. That was my only criteria, couldn't date gender normal people. My girlfriend now describes herself as futch and a breaker of binaries, my ex was enby since like 2010. Apparently, gender fuckery is my thing and as far as I remember, it always has been.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 4 months ago (5 children)

I need to start working out, but I feel constantly tired even though I get enough sleep and food.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 3 months ago (4 children)

I started the process for legal name and gender marker change yesterday. I am sooo fucking hype to never have to go by my deadname again. bridget-pride

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 3 months ago (11 children)

I wish my sister was a mad scientist who turned me into a girl so I could relive my high school experience tbh bocchi-cry

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Real Trans Patriots will get the comments to 1918 ussr-cry rat-salute-2

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Babs getting ready to walk to the corner store: "I prolly don't have to wear a bra for this. It's just around the corner and I'm basically flat, right?"

Babs, halfway to said corner store: she breasted boobily down the street, through the city crowds.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Went out last night and my voice feels destroyed. I think shouting over music all night while still trying to sound fem really takes a toll.

Also, some random dude called me a very beautiful woman, and I know you shouldn't take what guys say in night clubs seriously, but waow, I think that's the first time someone's called me that.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 3 months ago (10 children)

I see you all posting in the news mega, you fucking gender traitors πŸ‘οΈ

I'm literally going to inform the TranStasi

You will not tear down the Girlin wall

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 4 months ago (4 children)

I noticed we are using mm/dd/yyyy like a bunch of amerikkkans. Please fix this mistake

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Oh so this is the megathread?

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I'm sorry everyone, but I'm gonna be so hot without facial hair, and you're all just gonna have to deal with it

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 3 months ago (5 children)

first day of hormones today lets-fucking-go

i've been put on patches, are there some patch locations which work better than others?

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 3 months ago (10 children)

i read that Kurt Cobain egg theory post again, and...yea they didnt tattoo their skeleton with "I AM TRANS" so they're definitely cis. Sad shit, all around.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 3 months ago

In better news, my transphobic brother will be in another country for the next few months transshork-happy It's gonna be so nice to just have my parents around for a while

[–] [email protected] 24 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

Tried on a skirt and it actually changed the gender of my shirt. Wtf. Why did I not do this 8 years ago. This is going to make telegraphing my gender 10x easier. tails-what

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 3 months ago

::: spoiler doomer

Okay I'm ordering DIY powder to stock up, I dont think things are looking good.

Also gotta back up sites relevant to it.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 3 months ago (10 children)

Wife bought me an expensive outfit πŸ₯Ί

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (19 children)

I have an announcement to make: I have stolen my wife's sweatpants and claimed them for myself. They are oversized n comfy n gay. If you are not stealing clothes from/trading clothes with your significant other I recommend it trans-heart

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Mom has finally reached the level of acceptance that she wants to braid my hair into every neat thing she saw on tiktok recently.

My hair is just too smooth and fine to be easy to manage and this frustrates her to no end. It's kinda sweet though transshork-happy

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