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Pride’s over everyone! It’s now illegal to be gay again.

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[-] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago

the trans posting squad is gonna easily break 1k comments

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[-] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago

I managed to meet some local trans-ppl. I just had to go to one event, talk to the guy who seemed like an organizer, out myself to him. Get a number for a telegram account from him, write to that account and introduce myself,and then get invited to a weekly get together that's organized over whatsapp.

They were very nice, and I am happy I put in the effort. One is even looking for a roommate. One of the better things to happen to me recently.

Also: is that the normal ammount of effort required, or is this place just special?

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[-] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Good morning cute trans people in my phone~ I am feeling very eepy today

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[-] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago

the trans megathreads are reaching a critical mass, soon the world will kneel bridget-vibe

[-] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago

I started hrt over a year and a half ago and prog 8 months ago, which has been great! But now the clothes I bought a year ago don't fit cause my ass, tits and thighs are too rocking 😫 which, sure, is a nice problem to have but those clothes were cute...

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[-] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago

i saw the tv glow talk and also transphobiai have no idea where to find the scene but that one bit where Owen is sitting in the back of the movie theater with his coworkers after walking in on one getting a blowjob and he gets mocked saying "so did you like what you see, huh?" while Owen is staring at the floor wanting to die? yeah that scene pops up into my mind every time I hear about how trans women are "socialized male"

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[-] [email protected] 18 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

This is kind of brainwormed and kind of weird, but idk maybe writing about it will help me work through things. So in like 2018-2021 I was more involved in local organizing than any other time. I lived in a pretty rural place, and the only org we had was DSA, so I joined DSA. I can't say that we were building the revolutionary vanguard or anything, but I do think that I did a lot of good work and met really amazing people. It was a really positive thing in my life for a while for both myself and others. I stopped all of that during COVID, mostly because my own life fell apart.

Almost 4 years later I'm doing a lot better, living in a new city with a new degree and new sex hormones. But I'm not involved in the local political scene at all. I don't think I would be useful if I joined an org. For one thing, most of the work we did involved in talking to people. I don't want to go around as a non-passing trans woman talking to strangers all day. I'm probably more shy and awkward than ever these days, even though I'm happier, because I honestly have no idea how I'm perceived. I don't think even liberal people are receptive to me.

But also I'm not sure that I care. Like the local left orgs are involved in a lot of causes. They talk about queer liberation during pride month, and the next month it's on the tenant rights or whatever. Maybe Im a bad person, but I don't care that much about the other stuff. I feel that my community, as in trans people, are under significant threat right, and I want to do everything I can to keep the people I care about safe. I don't have room in my life to worry about others besides them

I know that's not intersectional, and that some members of other marginalized groups are also trans, but Im not sure that matters because honestly I don't trust most of the activists I know to do anything for me if things got really bad. Like sure, they'll use my pronouns when they're not they/theming me, and sometimes they'll be extra friendly because my existence makes them feel diverse or whatever. But they wouldn't shelter me, or break the law for me, or die for me, like I would for the other trans women in my life.

Im sure if I joined all the local orgs I would meet based queer comrades who did have my back. But that's pretty much the only draw for me. And should I really join a group who allegedly wants to do serious work only to use it as a social club?

[-] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I'm a little overwhelmed right now, in a good way. I'm going to be a woman. I'm going to look like a woman. People are going to look at me and think "damn, she's cute". Maybe even be ~~jealous~~ envious of me. I never thought that'd be a thing for me.

I can't wait to start E

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[-] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago

kinda a downer thing about abuse also SEX MENTIONEDso i broke up with my partner of about a year about a month ago

i learned that after cutting communication with them from a mutual friend that they had called me transmisogynist bc i was attributing them "standing up for themselves" as a threat because of me thinking of them as a dangerous cis man. obviously i did not think this, and the "standing up" for themselves was them yelling and insulting me, usually over perceived slights that were not what i was trying to communicate.

while we were dating they had also made a lot of transphobic comments towards me and other AFAB trans people. like saying AFAB trans people have it infinitely easier than AMAB trans people and that there was little point to me topping cos i'd have to use a strap.

so yea i dont feel great about all that lmao kitty-cri

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[-] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago

whenever i post in this sub the two ghosts look cute together in my comment history ngl

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[-] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago

Voice training is hard madeline-sadeline I'm surprised by how much of the info is new to me, it's almost like my past experience with my voice harms me when it comes to this.

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[-] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago

Trans mega just eating all the other megas at this point xok

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[-] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago

What if, hypothetically, the trans mega could get more comments than the news mega debate-me-debate-me

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[-] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago

Feeling good, today was a productive day meow-coffee

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[-] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago

I had a good opportunity to come out to one of my friends last night, but didn't. "coming out" would probably have just been saying I wish I wasn't a guy sometimes and maybe asking for they/them pronouns.

:cri: like actually how am I going to be able to do this, especially with family. I just want to curl up in bed and stay there.

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[-] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago

Looking for recommendations for trans/queer narratives. I've recently watched I saw the TV glow and played Celeste and am looking for more.

I am unlikely to read a book, just being honest here. If there's an audiobook available maybe.

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[-] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Edie still wants a LadaBecause it's a "vintage car" insurance is completely and utterly fucking stupid agony-consuming

You can't drive the car more than 6000 km/year. You can't use it as your everyday car, in fact you have to register a different car as your everyday car. You have to be 25/30^[1]^ years old. You are only allowed to drive it between the 15th of March and November^[2]^. It has to be locked inside of a garage/building when not in use (exceptions for when you are on trip). It has to be historically correct and in "original condition".

This isn't a car anymore it's a self moving piece of metal you show off. LEMME DRIVE IT AS A FUCKING CAR.

  1. I looked at two different companies they had different requirements. Of course I'm not that old.
  2. Again different requirements for the two, either the 31th of Oct. or the 15th of Nov
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[-] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago

probably an uncontroversial take here but i think that the way people talk down about pumpkin spice lattes is somewhat sexist

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[-] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago

Helped with move the other day and still able to lift things at almost 3 months into hrt. 😎 Curious how the next move will be though. 😰

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[-] [email protected] 17 points 11 months ago

Thinking about how much happier I was, in general and with my body pre puberty. Really peaked. I wonder if second puberty will make me feel that way again.

To be clear this is not sad posting

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 11 months ago

almost at 666 comments again snom

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 11 months ago

Almost forgot to take my Cypro. madeline-shock

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 11 months ago

Hi computer trans people, it's me, again, going on about my HRT, again.I contacted my doctor after posing my questions about Anti-Androgens and the possibility of mono-E therapy. Her thoughts seemed to be those of waiting until I got my E and T levels tested, and then making a decision from there (would be in two months). She clarified that Spiro is the only option for an AA, because they do not prescribe Bica due to the risks involved with the liver. My main question is: Spiro now, or wait and see what my E and T levels are? Is there any benefit to starting Spiro sooner rather than waiting (quicker and/or "better" results)? And, one last question, will I have to start buying like 3 jars of pickles each week on Spiro? (/j).
Again, thank you all, even if you don't have any thoughts or answers. You all helped my egg crack, and have pretty much been one of the only sources of community guiding me along the way. Just feel like I should say how appreciative I am of this comm and all of you trans-heart

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 11 months ago

I am now reading my university texts out loud for voice training, and it really is exhausting after a short time, but I can still manage it wthout my resonance slipping into my chest, for a paragraph or two.

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 11 months ago

how come there are SO MANY pretty girls out there and i am not allowed to kiss all of them kitty-cri

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

CW: depression mentioned but within a sister appreciation postMy cister is letting me cuddle with her Blahaj because I am feeling so depressed. I love her so much, I couldn't have asked for a better sister.

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I was really starting to get jiggly butt and thighs, and it was nice as hell. I even got some new jorts that fit me super well.

But then I started puking every day, prolly cuz I was smoking too much weed (CHS), and I have lost 10lbs over the last month. My jorts no longer fit very well. madeline-sadeline

[-] [email protected] 16 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I'm on week 6 of HRT, I feel like shit still boy-moding. I need to level up my girl perk tree.

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 11 months ago

Love meeting other trans communists cat-vibing

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[-] [email protected] 16 points 11 months ago

Summer is fun cause I can't tell if the people are staring at me cause I'm trans, or oggling cause I'm finally comfortable enough to show some skin. Either way it's a weird feeling.

[-] [email protected] 16 points 11 months ago

Tried buying new glasses today, and the store assistant, when I ask her for help, sends me to the mens section. I do not have new glasses.

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