(making a dedicated post since this doesn't exactly fit with the mega's trans joy theme)
I asked my sister if I could come over to her place after my doctor's appointment to do therapy. She then lets slip to my mom that I've got an appointment. I've basically told my mom everything about my health except the whole trans thing so me not telling her obviously sets off alarm bells. She knows when my last check-up was and it wouldn't make sense to go to this doctor for a work mandated test. Worst of all since I reset my phone I had read receipts on so she could tell that I read her initial message and didn't respond, so I couldn't take time to think of a casual excuse.
I eventually told her that I was trying to introduce a little privacy in regards to my health thanks to work I'd been doing in therapy, which is true on a variety of levels
Was not expecting to have to deal with this. I'm still waiting a little longer to tell my mom but now this is hanging over me
Yeah ultimately it probably doesn't really matter too much what I have, I was just kinda struck by it. I would like to get better