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[-] RION@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

New boss has been they/themming me a lot (and maybe even he'd just a bit ago, though she "corrected" to they swiftly). I don't think I've ever referred to myself that way to her, and I've got she/her on my pin and my email signature... Maybe it's because her other direct report is nonbinary so she's got the neural pathways for that set up? prob gonna talk to the nb about it and see what they think

[-] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Actually this reminded me of a really funny story. I have a work colleague who is otherwise a phenomenal ally, but I had noticed they were de-gendering me, but also then I noticed they de-gendered everyone cis or trans.

I gently probed this and they said "Oh I do that for everyone, I kind of wish we didn't have gender, I don't feel locked into any gender..." and I put my hands on my eyes and realised they are an trans-egg

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago

I've got she/her on my pin and my email signature...

And she's still degendeding you? What a shithead

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