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You have to read Marx

The trick with any daunting task is to break it up into small, managable parts.

I would start by looking at men with large breasts and/or butts, then work my way up the Kinsey scale from there

Simple, tap water and soy will turn you gay.

I would rather like men

why, do you enjoy being disappointed or something?

Learn rust

Get super lonely and have serious body image issues and alexithymia so all your feelings mix together and you obsess over loving the unlovable/dangerous/repulsive and eventually you'll be jerking off to bugs and aliens like a normal person

idk but what ever you do don't play competitive Super Smash bro's.

I’m attracted to everyone I get to know and it’s very tiresome. I’d rather only be attracted to women because mediocre men are just too easy to get.

Start with femboys and work your way up

It’s like going to the gym you have to train those muscles

Ten hours hypno femboy transformation porn

Watch boykisser for 10 hours

we’ve won, the straights are finally ok!

You can't conversion therapy what you are attracted to.

Smoke weed everyday. Seriously. Somehow becoming a stoner for the first time since I was a teenager greatly expanded range of gender expression which I am attracted to.

don't worry, I speak from experience - some of us are limited by our simple minds, you'll manage

I wish I wasn't attracted to men but dudes be hot

I found romance/erotica about a preferred type helps unlock a lot of the feelings of attraction. Most people have a lifetimes worth of romantic context surrounding the opposite sex. It can take some relationship role models to find the proper way to express your sexuality.

I used to be kinda asexual but then I started reading romance about different types of girls and started finding the various archetypes I read about a lot more attractive in real life. Of course, this may just be an emotional blindness thing where I had to be guided by the hand to become aware of my own internal state.

Go on hormones

(Some people's attraction changes on hormones)

(Don't actually do that unless you're trans)

[CW: internalized homophobia, misogyny, sex] Had a really complicated journey with this myself where I had partially worked through my internalized homophobia and started sleeping with men in a fulfilling way. At the same time, I felt complicit in misogyny participating in 'heterosexual attraction' as a 'man' which led me to fully embrace homosexuality. Later on, I realized 1) I am not a man, 2) I was mainly interested in women out of desire to be them, and 3) how to start disentangling the violent mythology of/approach to sexuality given by patriarchal society from actual sexuality. As Anuradha Ghandy points out, most people will mainly experience heterosexual attraction so the issue can't be with heterosexuality itself, it has to be with how heterosexuality is constructed. This made me realize that non-exploitative/problematic heterosexualities could exist at the same time I was realizing my interactions with women were not exactly heterosexual anymore. At which point, I had a pretty fulfilling saphic relationship but have since gone back to being with men and wood elves.

Conditioning by repeated mental association

Become a sailor

According to some people, if you watch too many Disney movies you will be indoctrinated and shipped off to Cuba to be placed into the gay space laser transformation facility.

Honestly, sounds like a good time.

I can't tell if this is a joke or not but I'll answer it seriously.

Is this an absolutist thing for you where any woman not fitting this description is a no-no for you? Then that's a problem. Otherwise you just happen to like what the vast majority of straight men like. You can always give men a try to see if you're into that sort of thing. I tried it once and learned that I was very straight, but it could be the opposite conclusion for you.

I would rather like men, it seems cooler

I know, right? As a straight male, i just can't help but be intimidated by gay men. It's way more manly to like men! No innate power imbalance! No easy mode! What if you cheat on him? Straight guy cheats, waahhh, tears. Gay man cheats? You'd better be able to ninja out of that window.

Wild to think about, really. Shit must take serious balls

Anyway, shower thoughts...

Alright, time for some forced feminization videos

Put on this dress and prepare for the modified Ludovico technique

Read boyfriends. If it makes you feel swoon-y, chase that.

Quite honestly I just stopped chasing, we chase after what we know

When you stop chasing and just be, you start to recognize genuine healthy connections when they naturally come along. It's been a journey for me but honestly I still relapse here and there because it's something I'm barely grasping

I don't have any advice but I think JoeAndMacAndCheese would be a good alt username for you.

I'm...not sure that's how that works unfortunately.

The best you can probably hope to do is repress your desires I guess? Not that I'd reccomend that.

But odds are deep down you'll still always like what you like.

¿porque no los dos?