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submitted 2 years ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

Things that are so obvious and ingrained that no one even thinks about them.

Here’s a few:

All US americans can go to Mexico EASILY. You’re supposed to have a passport but you don’t even need one (for car/foot crossing). Versus, it’s really hard for Mexicans, who aren’t wealthy, to secure a VISA to enter the US. I’m sure there are corollaries in other geo-regions.

Another one is wealthy countries having access to vaccines far ahead of “poor” countries.

In US, we might pay lip service to equal child-hood education but most of the funding pulls from local taxes so some kids might receive ~$10000 in spending while another receives $2000. I’m not looking it up at the moment, but I’m SURE there are strong racial stratas.

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[-] [email protected] 92 points 2 years ago

I found out not too long ago that apparently in polite voteblue society it's still okay to talk about countries being "civilized" where "civilized" essentially means "white". I am used to chauvinism, but that one really got to me (it was about Russia's invasion being the first time in a long time that there was a war between two "civilized" countries).

[-] [email protected] 42 points 2 years ago

I remember that headline during the beginning of the Russian invasion of Ukraine "This is the first war of my lifetime between civilized countries". So obvious what they meant.

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[-] [email protected] 92 points 2 years ago

Treating the usian "founding fathers" as democracy-loving freedom fighters

[-] [email protected] 39 points 2 years ago

Their deification in general gets on my nerves. Everything they've ever said or written is treated as infallible words of god and nobody may ever dispute them.

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[-] [email protected] 80 points 2 years ago

Racial "preferences" in dating. No matter how they cut it, it's racist. Yet people will say "it's ok to have preferences!"

Yeah sure.... I mean back in the day many people "preferred" to not eat with black ppl.... jesus fucking christ the racial preferences in dating really ticks me off (especially when you see someone who is otherwise "liberal" and "hates hate" date only white people)

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[-] [email protected] 80 points 2 years ago

"I got jipped" or however it's spelled. We say it all the time in America, but a euro transplant informed me that it's basically a slur for gypsies.

[-] [email protected] 69 points 2 years ago

FYI the best term for the ethnic group is Roma.

[-] [email protected] 53 points 2 years ago

True. Gypsy itself is a slur too, right? Sorry, idk much and European bigotry aside from the meme where Europeans scold us for being a racist country, then turn around and say they want to exterminate the Roma.

[-] [email protected] 56 points 2 years ago

Yeah I think so. We have a lot of great threads on Roma culture in Hexbear, I'd recommend checking them out because their culture is really cool. I especially love Romani architecture.

Seriously, check out these sick palaces!

[-] [email protected] 43 points 2 years ago

Those look rad. Like someone was building a traditional European house and half way up got bored and decided to finish it as a Chinese pagoda.

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[-] [email protected] 71 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

”Declining birthrates” is considered a normal thing to talk about, even though it only refers to white people.

Condescending attitudes towards any non-international-community-1international-community-2 country, like I remember when the US left Afghanistan and a lot of people said stuff along the lines of ”We helped them so much and they still didn't become a good liberal democracy!”.

[-] [email protected] 57 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

”Declining birthrates” is considered a normal thing to talk about, even though it only refers to white people.

I encourage you not to read any comments sections about declining birthrates in Japan, South Korea, or China. They invariably read like cattle farmers complaining about a bad year, except usually cattle farmers aren't chomping at the bit to go fuck the cows.

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[-] [email protected] 40 points 2 years ago

I will make 1 or 2 exceptions for the "muh birthrates" crowd, because I just listened to an absolutely heartbreaking interview with a school teacher in rural occupied korea who was lamenting that his school had been built in the 1960s and had rooms for 70-odd students per year, and his latest class had a total of 5 children in it, because cuck-Korea has had a total collapse in the amount of children that people are having. Obviously the proposed solution was not going to work, since Korea has banned all talk of improving society, but the story was still heartbreaking.

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[-] [email protected] 68 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

This one gets me mad, but just the base assumption that our Asian comrades and homies are inherently good at STEM. To this day I still hear people that Asian dudes are good at math as if it were a profession passive bonus in a game. It's just so other-ing to me. It's just kinda one of those racists stereotypes that I wish died away.

[-] [email protected] 53 points 2 years ago

Good thing we've got Andrew Yang trying to build a political career around keeping that stereotype alive.

[-] [email protected] 65 points 2 years ago

Andrew Yang is a trailblazer breaking tropes because he's actually very stupid

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[-] [email protected] 68 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

People seem to be fine with hating Chinese and Indians where I live

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[-] [email protected] 64 points 2 years ago

The police.

More specific answer, the very obvious racial stratification of any urban region in the US. How different demographics look from neighborhood to neighborhood and the clear relation to worse housing, education, everything really. But it seems very normalized.

[-] [email protected] 63 points 2 years ago

Acting like the US is the only country with diversity and treating every other nationality in North America that isn't Canada like a race.

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[-] [email protected] 60 points 2 years ago

I always thought it was strange how widely accepted a statement like "I don't date [Race]" is. Like yeah, I get it, people have preferences and shit but you'd never hear anyone say something like "I don't want to be friends with [Race]" because that's unacceptably racist.

[-] [email protected] 39 points 2 years ago

bUt PeOpLe ArE aLlOwEd To HaVe PrEfErEnCeS!!!!!

[-] [email protected] 52 points 2 years ago

The funniest version of this is the white guy who defends pursuing only Asian women as a preference but complains that it's racist when they refuse to date him.

I've known more than one of these.

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[-] [email protected] 56 points 2 years ago
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[-] [email protected] 53 points 2 years ago

This is pretty insignificant, but it fucking drives me nuts. Whenever a couple goes somewhere and takes the woman's car, the man drives. It's like some silly power dynamic that is built into all M/F relationships in the US.

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[-] [email protected] 51 points 2 years ago

I’m sure there are corollaries in other geo-regions.

This is pretty much how it works worldwide. Living in The Empire™ grants you that benefit. "The power of a US passport" is very well known. Every country could use American tourist money. It is absolutely another neo-colonial sort of relationship. I saw a documentary that shows that Jamaicans (or another Caribbean country) have a harder time getting into Jamaica than Americans do.

[-] [email protected] 48 points 2 years ago

At a lot of airports (eg Singapore) there is an expedited immigration check for 🇪🇺 / 🇺🇸 .

Quite literally

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[-] [email protected] 49 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)
[-] [email protected] 42 points 2 years ago

Claims to be called Isreal

isn't real

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[-] [email protected] 47 points 2 years ago

Everyone pets Lalafells without permission.

Joking aside, the way people treat the British as experts because of their accents.

How immigrants from Europe/Americas are "expats" in developing nations. How Euro-American immigrants gentrify the neighborhoods and country they're in, treating the local populace as NPC servants to their narcissism and wealth.

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[-] [email protected] 41 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

One very normalized thing that always infuriates me is the way news headlines report on major disasters. It's always "Plane crashes in China, TWO AMERICANS DEAD", "Nuclear explosions blows up populated city, four Britons confirmed missing", like bitch all the people on that plane and in that city were valuable humans with valuable lives, not just people with the same colour passport as me.

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