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Esther Rose - Wanton Way of Loving

Boulevard Montmartre - Night by Camille Pissarro / La Vie en Rose - Louis Armstrong

Tracey Chapman - Fast Car

Elvis - If I Can Dream

Huangguoshu Waterfall

Pang Xunqin - 1940

Owl on a Pine Branch (1833)

Utagawa Hiroshige

Boston Cremes (1962) - Wayne Thiebaud

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[-] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 5 points 2 months ago

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[-] RION@hexbear.net 27 points 2 months ago

Also I'm going to dinner with a few coworkers tonight. All four of us are some flavor of trans or nb but two of us haven't told one of the others yet, so I have to wonder if she has any clue what this is about... But then again she sits just over from my cubicle and I'm not always subtle when I talk about it with my deskmate so perhaps she suspects. We'll find out!

[-] meler@hexbear.net 26 points 2 months ago

I've moved into the new place!!! I get to sleep in a place of my own omg. I have a rooooooom with a spot for my computer and a windowwwwwww and I get to go for walks like I used to ughfjsoajdiskdbeodnxn

[-] 0x2640@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago
[-] 0x2640@hexbear.net 26 points 2 months ago

unfriendly reminder that "dude" "man" "guy" etc arent gender neutral, fuck you

[-] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago

I know Im so over being good called dude and being told to get over it because "I meant it gender neutral" 🙄🙄

[-] meler@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago

Why is this so common? I had gotten so accustomed to hearing this excuse used for "dude" but the first time I heard it said for "man" I was flabbergasted

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[-] RION@hexbear.net 25 points 2 months ago

It's so swag to be going through my day and knowing the E in my body is reaching heretofore unseen levels

[-] 0x2640@hexbear.net 25 points 2 months ago

cis ppl should consider loving us while were alive instead of posting platitudes once we arent

[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago

Cis people are evil and supremacist

[-] 0x2640@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago

if this was a post and not a megathread comment there would be at least 5 cis people being like "ougghh not all cis people are bad ur so cisphobic" completely unironically and i find that very sad

[-] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago

cisphobia is one of the 5 infinity gems of forbidden phobias that aren't real, actually, but all cissies act like it's the worst thing since chattel slavery

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[-] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 23 points 2 months ago

back in my cis days i could never imagine taking a nude selfie of any of my body parts, but these days i do be takin quite a few pics and sendin em around to consenting individuals ofc catgirl-smug

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[-] Dort_Owl@hexbear.net 22 points 2 months ago
[-] RION@hexbear.net 20 points 2 months ago

24 hours later the tits remain hidden. I was kinda surprised as at one point I didn't have any clean clothes so I was just wearing my mom's bathrobe and I thought they looked kinda obvious? But nope

Although oddly enough there was another close call where she wanted some of my extra semaglutide syringes to use for my dog's insulin injections. Only I didn't have that many left over because I haven't ordered in a while and I told her so. Then she asked me if I was doing drugs or something because apparently I was acting cagey?? Of course I, the recently injected with estradiol "boy", said no.

It's gonna be tough when I move, I'll need to make sure they don't run into my makeup or HRT. I might ask a friend to hold on to it for a couple days...

[-] 0x2640@hexbear.net 22 points 2 months ago

I thought they looked kinda obvious

cis people are oblivious

[-] Ceres@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago

I've made it well past being nervous about them into frustratedly wearing a padded bra to reach C/D cups so that people notice them at all, and not automatically gender lol

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[-] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago

Being beautiful (some of the time, at least), and loving myself is so cool.

I'm gonna get even hotter just to mog all the cissies. Cissies literally can't be as hot as me, I am a Goddess who has overcome all their little rules, they literally can't compete

[-] 0x2640@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago

reminder diet culture is a form of fascism

(diet culture doesnt just mean “being on a diet” for some personal reason. diet culture is the societal idea that everyone should be striving for "physical perfection" at all times. its that thing where nearly everyone is on a diet or told they should be)

[-] 0x2640@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago

also reminder that BMI is the fakest shit ever

that shit aint real!!!

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[-] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago

some days i wonder if biggs clocked me as an egg biggs

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[-] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I love all of you cat-trans

[-] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago

Transgender, they could never make me hate you. catgirl-happy

[-] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago

Now cisgender, though.. catgirl-hiss

[-] SerialExperimentsGay@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago

she's using high speed rail and is trainposting again, it's so adorable how passionate she gets about her special interests crush

[-] Nasalstrip@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago

I keep losing my health insurance and having to reapply every 2 months. I haven’t had new T vials for months (using old ones, I’ve officially ran out as of last week) and I haven’t been able to take my antidepressants nor my adhd medication regularly. I got approved again on November 3rd… but have to wait till December 1st for it to even fucking activate. I wish I didn’t have all this mental shit and didnt have to rely on pills to function. Being human sucks bruh I did not ask for this shit! And ESO just crashed while I was waiting for a world boss to spawn I’m gonna crash out 😔😔

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[-] 30_to_50_Feral_PAWGs@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago

Yelling, "BEGONE, FOUL DEMONS!" like a TV preacher while I do my HRT injections

[-] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago

Imagine a gaslighter transitioning

"What, are you crazy? I've always been a girl, you just didn't notice ..."

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[-] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago
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[-] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago

You can lead a trans woman to estrogen but you can't make her inject it! Sad!!

[-] 0x2640@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago

you can inject it for her though :3

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[-] grym@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Latest blood test results are in, my levels are perfect! Sweet spot estrogen at 162 ng/L (at least that seems perfect according to various recommended levels I've averaged together), and nuked testosterone at 0.22 ng/mL.

And all that with just E gel and a prog pill, no injections

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[-] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago

Now that I have my bottom surgery date, I have to like work a lot of OT because my short term benefits only cover 67% of my paycheck. Bleh. I have enough sick time and banked time to cover 1 month at full pay which is great and all but whatever. I dunno how people manage this without benefits, I guess they save up more

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[-] RION@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago

I had a great time with my work friends!! We got pizza and talked and I was so animated I felt like a real human. I didn't actually disclose the whole trans thing to the one who didn't know. But next time we go out together I'm gonna lay all my cards out on the table right at the beginning. Hell maybe before that, I kinda wanna ask her if she does injections or not

[-] Arahnya@hexbear.net 17 points 2 months ago

anti-transmasculinity anti-non binary

there's a sort of cis approval or head nod ( 😠) when they think my feminine expression is just an ontological part of my so called "binary sex" like "Ah yes see ur a girl clearly 😏" but then also disapproval and confusion, they cant quite parse me and how I act (its the trans masculinity and non binary femininity,) but they dont want me to be too feminine. They want me to be the sort of "girl" who takes charge and bosses "her man" around to do things I "cant" do, like open a jar of pickles. And the cis women are like 😩 why dont you ask a man to do it. And then she opens the jar herself lol. Like the rules are MADE UP!!!

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[-] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

What the fuck is this shit, T? Im a fucking girl but Im born with a fuckin penis?? Get the fuck outta here

[-] Wmill@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago

Hearing the high hopes song at the pharmacy and trying my hardest to be a normal person negative just give me my flu shot please

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[-] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago
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[-] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago

hornyCan't believe she was never fucked while tied up before wtf, shes such a rope bunny

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[-] OffSeasonPrincess@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago

Would the USSR still be around if Stalin took estrogen? Discuss

[-] BtownNobody@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago

Not just the USSR, Stalin might even still be around

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[-] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago

"this assembly requires TWO PEOPLE"

skill issue, assembly completed by one (1) sleep deprived disaster lesbian without complication

[-] 0x2640@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago

in spirit of thanksgiving, give land back, support indigenous peoples everywhere and fuck colonialism

[-] Alisu@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago
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[-] RION@hexbear.net 16 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

The doctor confirmed my initial dosage of the cypionate was 1.25mg because apparently it's stronger than the valerate, but that doesn't seem true according to either estrannai.se or https://transfemscience.org/misc/injectable-e2-simulator/? (to be clear I'm on the valerate now, I was only prescribed the cypionate briefly before I saw the low dosage and asked her to switch "because of the expense")

I know I'm beating a dead horse with this but I still almost can't believe it. Is there any good reason for her to say that?

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[-] Nasalstrip@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago

Man I’m super struggling with my loneliness and the fact I haven’t had a friend in years, since about junior year in highschool.

I’m turning 21 in January and I feel like I’m so behind. My brother is only a year older than me and has so many friends he actually is close to, not just acquaintances, he’s planning a ski trip to Colorado with a group of friends and plays video games all the time with others and goes to parties and I struggle so much with comparing myself to him. He was talking about his plans and friends yesterday, and he just got a really really good job in realty, at just 22, when we went to my moms for thanksgiving and I think that’s what brought this feeling on. I have a hard time giving myself grace with the fact that being trans and having adhd and ocd has made my development hard because he’s also adhd and ftm, although Im stealth and he’s open.

My parents are also very extroverted and I’m just so sad I’m the only member of my family who is super shy and can’t even begin to understand how to approach talking to someone. I have brain fog all the time and can never think of funny or interesting replies in conversations unless I’m really familiar with them. With my family I’m funny (I know because they’ve always told me lol) and smart but with everyone else I’m so fucking boring. I’ve been working for a year and a half and hav even going to college since fall and I feel like I haven’t made a dent in my social skills. I always feel so aware and I hate it.

I’m just really struggling with this feeling of horrible loneliness, and it makes me so sad to see everyone else living how I want to live. I just don’t know how to start. I’m moving to Chicago late next year when I’ve finally saved 10k and I hope it helps to give me a reset, I feel so stagnant here.

I like me and I don’t want to fundamentally change myself, but I wish I could make friends and be more outgoing but that feels so not me. I love extroverts and want to have extroverted friends but I can’t imagine attracting those types because I’m so stoic and take a while to open up.

Idk. I just feel pathetic. I’m nearly 21 still working in food service, living with my parent, 0 friends, depressed, struggling with even turning assignments in on time, and it’s also hard being gay in a small Midwest town.

Sorry for the long ass rant

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[-] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago

body stuff, positiveThink I'm feeling some breast buds already- there's harder and closer to the skin then I thought they'd be. Its like a damn rock in there. Also my skin feels smoother/thinner.

Point of no return??

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[-] 0x2640@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago
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