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Made this one somewhat last minute, but here goes- my reccomendations for this week are a yuri "mystery" VN that's near and dear to my heart (that goes into processing grief) though it's been a while since I last played it, and a cute and sloppy (not bad sloppy) manga about crossdressing (and if you ask me is honestly at least kinda genderfuckery).

I figured I'd also add BonnieBugsy's "Ranma Lazuli" fanfic series (available on Ao3) to make it a triple feature because why the hell not. The two fics I can recommend (not having completed the other large fic yet though I'm sure it would deserve equal recommendation) are pretty near and dear to me as well.

CONTENT WARNINGSSeaBed: processing grief Handsome Girl and Crossdressing Boy: some chapters, particularly the extras, can be particularly suggestive/R18+ Ranma Lazuli: for the two fanfics specifically I'm discussing, "Skies of Blue, Red Roses Too" covers dysphoria and abusive family circumstances, with the premise of the titular Ranma escaping these and finding a place where she can be and grow into herself. "I of the Storm," in contrast, deals with the abusive and unhealthy dynamics of that "place where nothing ever gets better" from the perspective of someone still living within it- Akane- who herself, also has to deal with her anger and the consequences of (being a victim, but also perpetrator of) abuse, apathy, and past mistakes, while moving past that environment herself.

Premise and things I liked about (SeaBed)Sachiko and Takako were childhood friends and lovers, but unknown circumstances tore them apart. Now they have to piece together the puzzle, as Sachiko keeps hallucinating about Takako, and Takako deals with memory issues of her own.

Personally, Seabed can come across as a bit of a slog (but in a good way- and in a way appropriate to the themes of grief, of mental processing and memory issues, etc). And it can be very heavy. I played it during a time when I was dealing with grief among other things myself and I loved it- I intend to play it again someday (ideally soon), but needless to say it won't be for everyone.

Premise and things I liked about (Handsome Girl and Crossdressing Boy)Admittedly, this is just comfy, queer (IMO), somewhat suggestive (YMMV, if it were just up to me I'd not even consider it NSFW but it's definitely toeing a line and considering cultural and even circumstantial differences of different online spaces- well yea) and sappy light-hearted romance. Iori is a crossdressing boy(? very eggy if you ask me), and Hazuki is a handsome girl. Needless to say gender is a fuck.

The extra chapters (generally noticeable as something like "chapter 23.5" instead of being an outright "chapter 23" for instance) can be even moreso questionably/maybe "NSFW/18+" (though if you ask me that's all "western puritanism and backwardness/regressiveness" which they then infected many other parts of the world with)

Premise and things I liked about (BonnieBugsy's 'Ranma Lazuli' fanfic series)The two "Ranma Lazuli" fics I can recommend (the others I either haven't read yet or are very short) are both what I would describe as "coming of age/graduation(?)" plots, wherein Ranma moves from her abusive, overwhelming, demanding upbringing to the welcoming and progressive Beach City from Steven Universe (no knowledge of either series is necessary IMO to enjoy these fics, that said) and is finally able to develop within such a healthier environment, and Akane comes to terms with and breaks free of the fallout and that unhealthy environment in her own way, in her own separate life.

Both fics, I feel, correlate with my own defining experiences on many levels- whether it be Ranma's growth and the liberating feeling of finding a positive, comfy space and escaping the small, shitty, abusive world she was raised in prior, or in Akane's own growth and rejection of that same small world, as well as the permanence of one's actions having come from and having been a part of what made that world so small and unhealthy to begin with, and growing past that and coming to terms with it.


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[-] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago

Well work was enlightening the other day, I learned everyone, or at least at my workplace, dissociates in/at a/this shitty job, that makes me feel so much better. Also on reflection I realize life has been challenging with so many close calls I'm lucky to even be alive, that also strangely makes me feel better.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago

preparation of food and storing itI made much soup, probably 2 gallons of hot an sour and 2 gallons of sopitas de conchitas (I put the soups in bags and the freezer , smash off pieces and reheat)

[-] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago

my doctor gave me hand goop to put on my hands to reduce the inflammation in my thumb tendons. she said it might help them heal faster.

its really goopy, i cant even wash it off, but generally my thumbs feel better.

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[-] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago

My mom figured out I think the pointyhat guy is very handsome. I've only drooled over a guy ONCE when she was with me while driving to my tracheal shave, which was embarassing as fuck because the lady in the car over pointed out she saw me checking him out

I've talked about crushes when I was young or when I met someone I wanted to date. Never brought a boy home though, but I do remember teenage egg me being reassured "oh it's okay if you're gay, you can tell me"

[-] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago

I do remember teenage egg me being reassured "oh it's okay if you're gay, you can tell me"

My older sister did this to me so much, and I'm still scarred from it >.>

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[-] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago

Since going back to work I have noticed it, and the prep stuff for it, have eaten up damn near all my spoons. This is such garbage. I have other things I need to do, to take care of, and I've been neglecting it. I'm not even full time. idk how to do this. When will I get like an adult amount of spoons kitty-cri-potato

Also my two year lucky streak got broken, finally got an actual emergency. A seizure from someone with a seizure disorder, no further complications or anything. Pretty much the easiest thing it could have been. Shook me up at the time but now I'm just so fucking tired.

[-] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago

Spent 25 minutes searching for my keys when they were already in my purse i-love-not-thinking

[-] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago

i just finished reading Secrets of Dorley Hall before realising that there's a shit tonne more chapters on ao3 trans-ferret

muh thoughts on the first two Dorley books (spoilers)fyi i'm a terrible reader, Nevada was the first book i've read in years and even then i only listened to the audiobook. for Dorley though, i've been borrowing my partner's eReader and the writing has kept me hooked the entire time. i've certainly tried to read other novels previously - i think the last one i managed was The Hobbit back in HS - but i care so much for this story that it's been keeping me up until 3am every single night toriel-snooze

i don't have much to write about book 1 but it was incredibly captivating. i'm a bit embarrassed for initially shipping Steph and Chrstine but Paige hadn't been introduced yet and they were literally the first two characters we see kiss (i got ahead of myself).

the moment where the whole lie comes undone at the end of book 1 is incredibly cathartic. these girls are fucking terrible liars and, since Bea isn't a total bitch, there aren't any serious consequences to the whole endeavour. Christine doesn't have to lie to Paige, Pippa and Steph can be the sisters they both need, everyone at Dorley can feel a little bit better about force-femming boys since they now have their "first walk-in!" Steph's now able to be open about her struggles to the older Dorley girls and given her own room where she can experiment with make-up, clothes, and voice training ahead of schedule. this allows her to finally admit to herself that yes, she is indeed a girl. and that no, she does not need someone else's permission to claim that.

a lot goes down in the second book, my favourite being Steph and Aaron's budding romance. Melissa's backstory was tragic as fuck and deserves all those CWs included at the beginning. it's heartbreaking to know that hers is the story of so many struggling trans kids (minus being wisped away and offered free estrogen) and by the end i was just left so fucking angry at the bullshit medical system that could have done literally anything to help her. oh and that ending was unbelievable, i have no idea where all that's going to go but i'm very excited to find out.

overall - i'm so fucking dorleypilled lmao. i wish could live in a house full of dysfunctional but caring trans(-adjacent)fems, mentors(/kidnappers), and ironic mugs that make guests uncomfortable. there's a lot personal shit this brought out but i'll save that for another another time, i mainly just wanted to say that i love this story so goddamn much...

this was one of my favourite bits:

One night, a woman had a dream. She dreamed she was walking along the beach with her auntie. Across the sky flashed scenes from the last several months of her life, and for each scene, she noticed two sets of footprints in the sand; one belonged to her, and the other to her auntie.

When the last scene flashed before her, she looked back at the footprints in the sand, and noticed that many times along the path of her life there was only one set of footprints. In the lowest and most difficult parts of her life, it seemed, she walked alone.

“Auntie,” she said, “you said that once I came to you, you’d walk with me all the way. But when I look back at my life, I see that you left me to face my greatest hardships alone.”

“My precious child,” her auntie replied, “I love you and would never leave you. When you see but one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you.”

“Thank you, auntie,” the woman said, looking back again and deriving great comfort from the view, until she saw something in the distance, just before the longest stretch of solo footprints. Puzzled, she asked, “Auntie? What are those little lumps in the sand back there?”

“Oh,” her auntie replied, “those are your balls. Sorry about that.”

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[-] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago

I'm such a failure had this scuffed nails on for so long that even the cishet dudes mention I should probably fix them by now failure

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