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Hi! I've been extremely tired this week and nearly forgot that I was hosting one so I'm writing this last minute! I couldn't think of anything so I'm going to write about one of my hamsters who is not Biggs; Meredith

Meredith was another hamster of mine from a few years ago during the early days of COVID, and she was the absolute sweetest little creature I had ever met. Very friendly, very gentle. She loved exploring anywhere I put her into and never bit me ~~okay she did once ever~~. She was an absolute sweetheart and bundle of love and was with me during some of the rougher parts of my life

She unfortunately died very suddenly out of the blue one day at a terribly young age showing no symptoms of anything wrong with her prior, which breaks my heart to this very day

I never had her as long as any other hamster of mine but I don't think I had any other hamster touch my heart in quite the same way. I miss you, girl


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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Think I'm on a new arc where I'm just not gonna correct my spelling no more, it shows hesitant and weakness to go back and edit things.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago (4 children)

I was just reflecting on the day I came out to myself as a trans woman and I feel all the emotions flooding back to me and now I'm sitting here in bed bawling the happiest tears I've cried in a long time. This feels like pure trans joy and catharsis.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (3 children)

today stunk... some loud braggart said some stuff and i got in this whole argument

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I love how I look in makeup, but I actuality love how I look more when I wake up all disheveled, having slept in my makeup. Idk why, it's peak though, I look cute!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

This is so real. I try not to do it often because I know it's bad for my skin, but the look is such a vibe.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

All my friends pretend to be woke but they all doggirl-sleep, curious probably having gay ass dreams just like the girl reading this comment phoenix-evidence

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

so seepy eeepy what cn we saysss,, awrffff,,,,, zzzzz :3

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

headpat no worries pup go back to sleep

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yakuza 5 was the one where they introduced the new engine they would use in that game, 0 and kiwami 1 also the first game where majima started getting his shadow clones. Not gonna say the game was super realistic but this alongside of saejima punching the ground to hurt people and akiyama flying by kicking quickly it started getting kind of out there. I've seen people say it's majima's killing intent or him just moving fast and leaving after images but nah I'm going with shadow clones.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yakuza 5 is also where they introduced Shinada, who was one of the best protagonist characters they ever had, which means of course they had to completely memory hole his ass once Y:5 ended and tanked the series once they hit Y:6

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Shinada is so goated, he's poor, horny and loves baseball what's not to love. I do miss him ngl but when they kept brining akiyama back I start to get eh. Shinada got his life story resolved and got to move on though I did find it funny when all them had their super moves shinada's was dragging a guy on the floor.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 days ago (4 children)

update

Came out to her. She is accepting. Talked about it a little bit. I didn't tell her my name though. Don't know why. But yea, went well and I feel good about that. Its nice not feeling so alone.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago

Yay I'm glad!

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

One other thought on this same line of thinking, when I first told my therapist one of his first questions was my sexuality. And I've kinda been worried every time since someone would ask but thankfully they haven't πŸ˜…

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

party-blob Congratulations!!! party-blob

trans-heart bridget-pride

Maybe one day you can share your name with her!

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

cat-trans Thank you! Obviously was really scary for me, especially telling someone in real life who I see all the time.

I really hope so kitty-cri-potato I love my name a lot- we will see.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago

So happy for you and so proud of you!! trans-heart trans-heart

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

don't tell me shut up you are not my boss

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

*approaches you wearing a trilby and a trenchcoat*

"Hey there, kid!"

*takes cigar out of mouth*

"You want a job at my factory? All you got to do is paint watch dials with this special paint. I’ll pay you a dime for every hour. Sounds like a great deal, doesn’t it?"

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Oh to be a radium girl.. Twould be so gender affirming..

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

why are you wearing a trilby if you are not going to call me m'lady

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

"I like your attitude too, m'lady. You got the job, now shut up and get back to work!"

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Piss on, piss off, piss on piss off, the pisser

Get out of my head, and into my piss

[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 days ago (3 children)

When random people I don’t know well bring up trans rights stuff while talking to me I’m always a bit suspicious that they clocked me and that that’s why they brought it up.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)

family nonsenseMy mom has been absolutely horrendous to me ever since I came out. She's refused to talk about trans stuff with me even though I have asked 6 times now. She has avoided it every single time. She's been guilt tripping me and acting like I'm being unreasonable and needy when literally all I'm asking is for her to call me by my name, or at the very least tell me why she won't. It's been a thing for like a month and a half now. Since she was ignoring me when I was trying to talk to her, I ignored her when she needed information from me, and it led to a 6 hour inconvenience on her part. Now she's gotten it into her head that she's been nothing but supportive and great this whole time and I've gone no contact at the slightest push back from her, when in actuality, I actively tried to talk to her for a month and a half and she ignored me. I guess she's getting what she wants, because I'm not planning on talking to her again after this. She's acting like I never gave her a chance, but I did. That was it. And she stepped all over it.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

Laser on the face really be like "you will shave twice a day and be happy"

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I got called to set up a gynecologist appointment in a few months πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago (2 children)

You barely got approved for a vagina, and Big Gyno is already trying to subject you to the Vaginal Industrial Complex

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (5 children)

Trying to figure out what I potentially want to do with my hair going forward, but it’s hard because you see people with all kinds of hairstyles but you have no idea if your hair is suitable for it or what they have done to it necessarily. kel-screm

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago

I'm supposed to sit at my desk and work even when I'm overwhelmed with sapphic yearning? wtf, this is homophobic.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

Oh yeah, i’m on that bi-cycle sicko-biker ! hexbear-bi

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