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Warning: Grapefruit can interact with drugs, such as decreasing the effectiveness of estradiol, making Oxycodone last longer, increasing blood levels when on Viagra, and much more.

Grapefruit inhibits multiple enzymes in the small intestine, most notably CYP3A4. CYP3A4 is involved in the breaking down of a lot of drugs, so when it's inhibited Oxycodone becomes inactive slower, and estradiol won't break down all the way into estrogen. Drugs that are affected by grapefruit will often have warnings on their packaging

Personally, I like putting just a little bit of salt on my grapefruit, to counteract the bitter flavor. Dumping sugar on it doesn't help. Grapefruits are about half as sour as lemons, since they have half the citric acid content.

Grapefruits were accidentally created as a cross between the sweet orange and the pomelo, in Barbados. Those fruits originate from Asia, but were brought to the Caribbean in the 17th century. Since it's parent fruits are native to Asia, it grows well in Asia too.

some-controversy and peekaboo (China and Vietnam) are the two largest producers of Grapefruits, producing collectively 6.3 million tons out of the 9.8 million tons of worldwide production.

The painting was made by Robert Papp, who has a website here: https://robertpapp.com/. I don't really know anything about the guy.

The lemon things with all of the recipes was really cool, but to be honest I just like grapefruit raw, cut in half and ate with a spoon.


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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (5 children)

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

JohnBrownsBussy2  (4/7 - 4/13)
peanutbuttercupola (4/14 - 4/20 (weed))
Eco* (4/21 - 4/27)
EstraDoll* (4/28 - 5/4)
SadArtemis* (5/5 - 5/11)
yewler* (5/12 - 5/18)
AshenWolf* (5/19 - 5/25)
oscardejarjayes* (5/26 - 6/1)
AshenWolf* (6/2 - 6/8)
PeeNutButtHer (6/9 - 6/15)

​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Wow, looks like my time as the traa mega-master is coming to a close. What's JohnBrownsBussy2's plan? What fruit will they pick?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Posting in a lame duck thread

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Maybe Trump will bring back third terms, something bad will happen to JohnBrownsBussy2, and this thread will live forever.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Wanting to be held but there is no one to hold niko-cri I am slowly stealing all the blankets in the house tho..

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

CW genital talkYo it's been 6 weeks since I started HRT and I tried to trim my public hair and ending shaving everything and woah my scrotum is already like a few shades darker and I got that very dark line under my penis. Which I understand all is normal but I didn't think it would be this fast.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

::: spoiler relationship shit I'm 99% breaking up with my long term gf.

Tonight.

Been a long time coming, i just need to actualize it.

On the other hand I started seriously talking online to this enby that's been super cool and has the same kind of adhd and autism as me and it's been crazy fun. We've known each other for a year but recently got super into things together in the last month.

I'm trying not to conflate the two events, but being around this new person has made me realize how stagnant my relationship got and how important queerness is to me in relationships, platonic or otherwise. I also realized how my gf is still kinda seeing me the same way she's always seen me even if she's been supportive to my transition, whereas this new person treats me... like a woman? idk it's different for sure. I don't know where things are going with this new person but they're super flirty with me and me with them. We're both poly (though my relationship wasn't so I've even monog in practice) and things have been freeing hearing about them and their experiences. We're kinda sorta making plans to meet up later this year or next and I'm almost in disbelief that this is happening so fast and they are as well.

idk im scared and excited and nervous and

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

as many one night stands as possible, then do long term

or play video games, I don't control your life

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

awwwooooooooo :3 see yall next megathread

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

how dare you think about leaving my mega

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

my bralettes have been feeling a bit tighter recently which either means my tits or my muscles are getting bigger. either one is fucking great

arm-Lsicko-femarm-R

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I had this happen to me when I first started lifting, since I wasn't losing fat they just got bigger. Being able to make them pop always makes me feel powerful tbh

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Uhhh... What do you mean with "make them pop"? asa-brow

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Using the pecs underneath to move them, flexing them

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeah, I had some visual help and ehmm.... I get it now. crush

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago
[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

E gave me freckles! Never knew that could happen

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

I wish I could be that lucky. sicko-wistful

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Ugh. Both my parents are being weird about my gender catgirl-flop

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

*huggggggsssss*

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

answerThey have both said the whole "I still love you" thing but it seems like they're actually just doing everything in their power to avoid having to think about the fact that I'm not their son.

My mom had told me that she needed time before she started using my preferred name and pronouns. Not time to acclimate to using them, but time to even start trying. I allowed her this time partially because I live 3 hours away and thus don't see her in person often. I recently asked her if she'd given it any more thought and she's been leaving me on read for 3 days now.

My dad told me we'd chat because he wanted to "get my perspective" or whatever but he's also clearly been avoiding that. I dunno it's like neither of them are really trying at all to understand me.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

Money me. Me needing money a lot now

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I rewatched Legally Blonde last night and I was surprised how well it holds up. Especially how unproblematic it is.

There's bi-erasure with the pool guy (but they had only just invented bisexuals in the 90s so it might have not have reached them).

The autistic guy is a bit rough but displayed as morally good and helps Elle in the last act.

The character of Enid Wexler is interesting because it feels like she's mean spirited in intent but just comes off as cool af in modern context.

She's a black Jewish lesbian with a PhD in women's studies (with an emphasis on combat) who organised a lesbian march against drunk driving. That feels like a conservative joke but none of that is bad. In fact it's cool.

Even the scene where she has cornered the cishet white Warner (who the film agrees sucks), and is telling him the university should change the name of "semester" to "ovester" could be fixed with a wink to show she's yanking his chain.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Though it's coin flip that Enid would have either the best or worst position on Palestine or Trans Rights now.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Started doing the ring glitch in no-copyright unleashed to make sonic consume hundreds of chili dogs. Like it works but damn I don't think I'm a major fan of this level up mechanic. I understand it in secret rings beforehand, with how short the game is they had to do something to pad it out (though with how broken a level 99 sonic is I'm eh). Anyway maxed out day time sonic now need to fully unleash the (were)HOG

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Should I actually look at myself in the mirror? madeline-stare

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

regardless of whether you do or not, i think it's healthy that you're considering it.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

that's alright then. maybe some other time

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

then dont <3 eventually there will come a time where you want to

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago

name stuffHad a big city adventure and went to a protest and hung out with rad queer and trans ppl and it really lifted my spirits

First day in ages where I was with friends who only know me as me and not (deadname) and omg I needed that so much

It's not a big deal really but I got dinner with friends and gave my full (femme) name on my order which is still kinda nerve-wracking for me but was with friends and the staff were very nice gay guys who were very kind to me and god I really appreciate queer friendly neighborhoods

Saw a lot of cis ally stuff for trans rights from a surprisingly older and more lib seeming crowd and seeing trans people in public being accepted and defended and thriving really got me emotional and happy

Love my friends and am really grateful to have their support and acceptance

catgirl-cry trans-heart flag-non-binary-pride

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago

dating, anxiety, sex (overall things are pretty good)

The person that asked me out on a second date/meetup finally got back to me. I wanted to show some initiative, and she had suggested the first location, so I suggested a couple options for dinner and activities. Was very nervous since she has been a bit slow in communication, and I was anxious that I didn't make a first impression and that she was just going to let me down lightly or ghost me. That was just anxiety talking, and she liked some of the suggestions! She's just busy right now and maybe coming down with something. So, definitely excited. I really like her, and I hate that my anxiety has been needlessly souring my feelings.

The other person that I scheduled a date with, well, I decided to stop playing coy/hard to get and ask some questions about sex to make sure that we were actually compatible in that department. It sounds like we are. It feels really good to be desired. I think that some clear communication here was very valuable in increasing my comfort levels. Definitely nervous, but increasingly excited. They're going to a convention that my BFF is concidentally going to, so I am going to orchestrate a meetup so my BFF can give them a secondhand vibe check for me.

In non dating news, my ears have healed up enough (8+ weeks post piercing) for trying out new pairs. Well out last night with some spiked hoops and some chain earcuffs. The earmuffs didn't match since I didn't interpret the multipack product description correctly, but I was able to use a pair of those pieces and mod them into a better option (one of the cuffs has a dangling stud, the other a dangling sword.) I didn't get any specific compliments on those, but got a ton of compliments on my outfit in general, especially my studded PU leather jacket. I honestly thought it was a bit much or a bit corny, but I guess my inner alt/goth girl knows better than my grown-up woman brain.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I'm learning kernel module development for the first time and so far the most challenging thing is typing "dmseg" correctly and remembering that I have to use sudo for pretty much every command

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