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fuck apple music, they think the only things I like are chappell roan and the va-11 hall-a soundtrack, which yeah but recommend something else for me once in a while
who would win two weeks of work at a space station or Sisko's baseball obsession
About a month ago, I told my wife she can use he/she/they pronouns for me.
She pretty much exclusively uses she/her and calls me her wife.
Chat, what does this mean?
okay question to Agenders but first context
OKAY so i got good vibes from this one professor so I told them I was trans (as part of an assignment ofc writing intensives are hard, but gender is easy to write lots of things about) and MY VIBES WERE CORRECT THEY'RE TRANS TOO (Agender specifically)
Agender professor!
uh how does one like talk to professors im scared of them? anyone can answer this please help
Im shooting a message back in another assignment and i was thinking of making an edit of a blahaj with an agender flag on it and i was wondering if there is a more appropriate figure for agenders? What are the Agender stereotypes that would communicate as a message of solidarity and shared community?
am i just overthinking this and should just put an agender flag on a blahaj picture and attach it to my homework
lately I've been catching myself doing a gay little sigh 
my conspiracy theory at the moment is that they turned the good youtube algorithm back on recently to release social stress generated by the biden election stuff n gaza
wearing black patterned tights under demin shorts, feeling cute (esp hair is cute, but i need to even it up a bit tonight), therapy went ok, still processing
edit: also listening to 
I've been drinking so much cough syrup for this dorky cold, it is going ok tbh.
I dreamt of the fruity lil twine game. As in, me in the role of my own detective. Nothing that exciting happened but Waow, brain, you really wanna date vampires that badly? 
When I meet Astarion and he tries to kill me off the hop I don't think "oh boy, I can't wait to romance this guy or literally ever forgive him" I just think when my next chance will be to shove him off a cliff
I don't care that people think he's a pretty affably evil fop, he tried to kill me apropos nothing - I can never get out of that mindset in terms of RP.
All tied up with nowhere to go
Cmon, that's a free harlequin slightly kinky title, am I the first to come up with it?
I wanted a flag like other cool people
Went to the lesbian store and they were all out of butches, is a dyke okay?
At least I'm feeling better from my infection, maybe, but everything is still ridiculously sensitive. I made a beer pizza in a cast iron pan baked in the oven, that came out really well would recommend especially since you can use any old thing for toppings and sauce is optional, like I had onions and olives and it worked out great.
NSFW more dysphoria returns and body torment stuff
spoiler
Looks like I didn't luck out and my bs body is working against me again. I thought I was prepared with menstrual cups but I'm way too sensitive to use them right now. I'm also super sensitive to soaps etc right now, can't even touch a lot of soaps without a burning sensation like I touched ragweed or something. Wth happened to me.
Underrated prog experience: waking up in a daze thinking about B O Y S
dysphoria mention
I hate when I have an outfit planned in my head and I put it on and it just... doesn't turn out the way I wanted. Anyways that was today's outfit, I still like the concept but this is an outfit I need to wear a binder for, and I really didn't feel like binding today. Took the photos, and now they're making me dysphoric because of how much I can see my chest in them.
Despite my high DIY dosage, I don't think the E is really working throughout the entire week. I feel distinctly worse on some days than others.
Does anybody have any resources for doing SubQ buttock injections? How easy is it to miss the spot, and what can happen if I do?
whoever recommended "ADHD: A Nightmare Under Capitalism" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T05Sli_-xBA thank you oh my god it was so good. i also really appreciated the video from the same channel that just lets some autistic people talk about their special interests for like 40 minutes, lol.
(@[email protected] was it you who posted this video?)
external motivation, not understanding
Idk. For me it's a practical thing of feeling no motivation to transition because nobody is actively helping me? Like am I just supposed to do this?
I apparently fooled everyone into thinking I'm a sad straight male who gave up on his life 4 years ago. I wish I could do anything on purpose as well as I've done that on accident.
The fact that nobody in my life suspected that I was queer or autistic or struggled at all feels like an indictment of my ability to communicate and build relationships. It feels like my support system lost track of me. That's where the shame comes from. The fact that nobody checks in on me is a sign that they've given up, it's certainly not a sign that they're still here.
A lot of times I feel like a Muppet that needs a human character to be their straight person, ground them in reality. I'm being forced to imply and discover a LOT of information that I'd rather simply be told by someone I can trust. It's tiring.
buying swords off kult of athena is not gender affirming care. it does not help you transition. you do not need a sword
writing this primer document about covid in 2024 is so unexpectedly difficult. I can bullshit a liberal artsy paper, but science communication? help idk what i'm doing
starting an LLC and turning the trans witches into businesswomen
Someone here kept talking about Wayhaven Chronicles so I bought the first chapter and have been enjoying it thus far.