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agony-shivering LIKE SHUT THE FUCK UP, WHY ARE THEY FUCKING SIMPING FOR ME, THEY'VE INTERACTED WITH ME THREE TIMES AND THEY LITERALLY CALLED ME M'LADY TWO OF THOSE TIMES AND THE OTHER TIME IT WAS A COLD DM FROM A COMPLETE STRANGER

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[-] [email protected] 105 points 2 years ago

Also someone called me transphobic for saying I wouldn't want to date a chaser

[-] [email protected] 66 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

jesus-christ you deserve better than that shit

[-] [email protected] 45 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Wtf, I just saw that comment. I thought the transphobia issue was just isolated to the old 196 post.

CW: Transphobia spoiler

It is presumptuous to think that you speak for the trans community as a whole

You may have a distaste for verbiage

In essence, your take on what is and isn’t phobic, is in and of itself, phobic.

I'm going to report it to see if anything actually happens. You never said you spoke for all of the trans community, and the person replying to you seems to think they are allowed to

Edit: It actually got removed, I don't see it anymore

[-] [email protected] 48 points 2 years ago

Literally vaushites explaining why not wanting to date abusive psychos makes you transphobic: morshupls

[-] [email protected] 41 points 2 years ago

vaushites

That explains everything

[-] [email protected] 36 points 2 years ago

I hate that creepy abusive libshit since we have to deal with his unending hordes of creepy sycophants.

[-] [email protected] 26 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

My friend's band would sometimes have shows in the city V**sh is from so there is a chance, however small, that I shoved him in the pit a decade ago. I mean it probably never happened. But it would be funny if it did!

[-] [email protected] 33 points 2 years ago

The wording seems to suggest that the v**shite accuser isn't calling them transphobic but "chaserphobic", but knew not to write it out like that because it would make more obvious how stupid and disgusting their assertion was

[-] [email protected] 29 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Holy moly, that is such a garbage response lol. It just became very obvious to me in the past year or so just how much people will spew the most meaningless takes and try to pass it off as intelligent because they have a decent vocabulary. Just because you use the word "verbiage" does not mean that you know what you're talking about

[-] [email protected] 29 points 2 years ago

That specific reply user is also one of the most vocally upset about the admin defederating from lemmynsfw over CSAM concerns.

[-] [email protected] 42 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Again, every LGBT person I've met in the real world, including myself, hates "chasers". Trans women and trans men hate them, bisexual women hate them for trying to find a "unicorn", lesbians hate those clingy straight guys that think they can "convert" them, gay guys hate those straight women that always hang around and think they can make weird sexual jokes and think it's fine because they're gay.

Me and my friends make jokes at the expense of these people all the time. Being pro chaser seems to be a terminally online phenomenon.

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[-] [email protected] 75 points 2 years ago

You got an unironic m'lady in the year of our lord 2023? Incredible stuff

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[-] [email protected] 42 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

It's a new age m'lady.

Back in the day, redditors used m'lady to be condescending towards cis women and be their cringey idea of "classy" alongside wearing a fedora. That kind of thing is pretty dead.

Nowadays, chasers say m'lady to virtue signal to trans girls that they see them as their real gender. This is all the rage rn, I see it all the time from trans girl reply guys. Same vibe of "look i'm showing you basic courtesy now will you show me your tits" though. Also kind of an uncomfortable indirect emphasis on someone's trans-ness if that makes sense.

[-] [email protected] 33 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

cringe

Thanks for this (horrible) context

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[-] [email protected] 71 points 2 years ago

When they were just on Reddit, 196 seeming to be a community of mostly children at times being encouraged to be horny and fetishize trans folk was at least a bit yikes which is why I never engaged with them.

HB jokes about the volcel vanguard a lot, but there's a kernel of truth for how much less horny this instance is which is good for discouraging chaser behavior.

[-] [email protected] 52 points 2 years ago

volcel police is a joke with a point. I keep it up to try to keep the horny posting limited to one or two comments. Ace comrades have expressed unease with hornyposting in the past, so, volcel police.

[-] [email protected] 34 points 2 years ago

The VOLCEL POLICE are on the scene! PLEASE KEEP YOUR VITAL ESSENCES TO YOURSELVES AT ALL TIMES.

نحن شرطة VolCel.بناءا على تعليمات الهيئة لترويج لألعاب الفيديو و النهي عن الجنس نرجوا الإبتعاد عن أي أفكار جنسية و الحفاظ على حيواناتكم المنويَّة حتى يوم الحساب. اتقوا الله، إنك لا تراه لكنه يراك.

volcel-police

[-] [email protected] 32 points 2 years ago

I also appreciate that it's kept to a minimum because I'm old enough I could be a lot of the users here's dad lol

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[-] [email protected] 27 points 2 years ago

I put hornyposting behind a spoiler typically

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[-] [email protected] 44 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

There was a lot of chaser stuff on the old subreddit which always I always found kind of gross even as a non-trans person. Plus a lot of people who were very horny for like AOC and Tulsi Gabbard.

There's a reason that the volcel police bit was developed over there, and a lot of that shit has gotten purged over here over time

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[-] [email protected] 38 points 2 years ago

Anti-horny aktion is important to keep the creeps away

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[-] [email protected] 60 points 2 years ago

Bit idea: Add vaush to the slur regex

[-] [email protected] 62 points 2 years ago

We usually just use funny-clown-hammer to reference him.

[-] [email protected] 64 points 2 years ago

Fuck, leftypol is only above us because their word filter can change words into other ones.

Vaush should honestly be regex'd to change in :funny-clown-hammer: automatically lmao

[-] [email protected] 30 points 2 years ago

I endorse this

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[-] [email protected] 26 points 2 years ago

You're technically not supposed to talk about him outside The Dunk Tank. People usually style his name "Vush" or "V".

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[-] [email protected] 59 points 2 years ago

The only two instances one needs is lemmygrad and hexbear. In whichever order they prefer.

[-] [email protected] 58 points 2 years ago

yea this is why its important we have trans supportive spaces, not chaser spaces

[-] [email protected] 56 points 2 years ago

Holy fucking shit this is disgusting, you sure you want to keep that alt? Most of the users blahaj has belong in 196 and are most are probably :funny-clown-hammer: fans

[-] [email protected] 54 points 2 years ago

Ngl, increasingly considering deleting the account already

[-] [email protected] 53 points 2 years ago

yea, you know they're not just randos from the sub. It's much worse, it's their d*scord server.

[-] [email protected] 50 points 2 years ago

Since we're defed now, would it be against the rules to name and shame this creep?

[-] [email protected] 59 points 2 years ago

I'm pretty sure they're a kid so I decided against including screenshots or anything, if they keep it up I'll just block and report them

[-] [email protected] 47 points 2 years ago

Fair enough, though might be a good idea to report sooner than later. If they are a kid then maybe they'll learn something from it. Actually, the blahaj mods would probably take their side kitty-cri-screm

[-] [email protected] 25 points 2 years ago

Based on their record, the mods would DM them, accept any excuse, and do nothing further.

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[-] [email protected] 46 points 2 years ago
[-] [email protected] 42 points 2 years ago

I muted 196 very quickly so I didn't know what people meant by chasers and... Yikes. Sorry. Pardon me. M'yikes.

[-] [email protected] 41 points 2 years ago

M'LADY

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[-] [email protected] 28 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

The m'lady comment got removed which is good. The user is not banned tho which is upsetting.

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