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alright gang, we need another win over the news mega this week! keep those numbers up and keep being trans as hell 
Here is a screenshot of where to find the spoiler button.
Discussing bottom surgery
For me, life after bottom surgery has been amazing. I'm still amazed sometimes when I look in the mirror and see a vagina. Sometimes I still have thoughts of "I wish I had a vagina" and have an "oh wait" moment just a second later. It's something you'd think one would get used to after 4 months, but gods, it still amazes me day after day.
Trying to make a sim that looks like me, but I haven't looked in a mirror in 3 years.
What I have so far kind of reminds me of my sister though, so I think I am close.
WHAT THE FUCK, I JUST FOUND OUT MY TRANSGENDER WIFE HAS NEVER PLAYED FALLOUT NEW VEGAS
CW sadposting, dysphoria, executive dysfunction, hygiene/grooming
spoiler
Should have showered and shaved and went to the store earlier, couldn't bring myself to have to interact with my own body like that or look in the mirror to shave and ended up blowing the whole thing off and feel disgusting and exhausted by everything
When I was young, I hoped I could be beautiful someday
Then it became hoping I could be decent looking
Then it became hoping I could look normal enough to go out in public without feeling uncomfortable
Now the bar's sunk to the level of just hoping I can put up with myself enough to function sometimes
I feel like I'm running out of expectations to lower and ways to disappoint myself more
I know sometimes I just have shitty mental health days and can catastrophize and this ain't my first rodeo 
but I just get so fucking tired of having to be me sometimes
When it takes every fiber of your being to resist wanting to strangle transphobes to death with your bare hands. 
Mania honestly has the most dog-shit sprites and art style.
Everything is too shiny and Sonic is a sickly bright blue instead of the nice cool shade he has in every other game, he looks radioactive.
Sonic 3 clears.
how does one deal with someone not accepting you? like transition related. I need to just leave it alone, but every so often I think about trying to explain my situation differently and hope it sticks
The temperature has been cooler these past couple of days, and I'm actually so happy that it has. Windows can be open, I can hike, and the air feels much more fresh, even if it's still humid.
Altering my pronouns because very many skyr*m g*mers used "they" 
no ill will, I'm sure 90% of these users just did not see the original poster or were doing the autism thing where you default to "they" for everyone, but like blegh. Nty.
The council of transes has decided your fate... 1000 years as a cute girl! (Alternately cute boy or enby)
I like that we have just pulled ahead of the news mega through the sheer power of Sonic 
Every night I wait until midnight so I can do the days NYT puzzles when they come out.
I feel like such a little nerd or grandma ๐
horni
I thought I was ready to hang up my hat on sex. Finish off on a high note and never fuck again.
But the horniness... why must you come back... just stay away, you do not spark joy, you are not wanted
i'm upset and frustrated this morning 
but the fact that i'm angry rather than being depressed/apathetic is good. feeling a whole new range of emotions from my wellbutrin
weight loss
When I went vegan almost a year ago, I lost about 30 lbs fairly rapidly over the course of a month. It made a large part of my wardrobe unwearable. I didn't have a lot of money so I was only able to replace a portion of it using thrift stores. Then about 3 months ago, I started Adderall for ADHD. I lost another 10 lbs and now some of those replacement clothes are getting loose and baggy too, including a new bra that's now too loose in the band. And I have even less money than I did before and I'm at a loss at what to do. I've tried but putting the weight back on but I can't eat enough to the calories to do that. I have a sewing kit but not like a machine or anything and trying to adjust clothes seems like a nightmare. I also don't have a ton of experience so it'd be slow and I'd probably fuck it up too.
I don't regret going vegan or starting medication but I wish I didn't lose the weight. I miss the roundness in my face 
I feel like d*scord doesn't really notify me when i get a message so i end responding hours later and worrying that the other person thinks i was being rude 
Pokemon but it's me collecting trans people in my DMs instead of animals.
@[email protected] you need to start posting in here or i'm gonna get mad
literally posting in the damn news mega all the time. it's ridiculous. we need you over here
you guys should post more when I am busy so I have more content to come back to and read, please. thank you for your consideration
getting jokerfied applying for apartment viewings. go to reality websites, message like 7 estate agents, 6 call you back to tell you the place that was listed 2 days ago is already rented out. I have some viewings set up, and more I am waiting to be gotten back to on.
why can I not just walk into the appartment shop, pick one, and say then and there yes I want this one here is money let me live there now. I don't wanna deal with all this shit
