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WEBRINGS:
WE BEAT THE NEWS MEGA
Here is a screenshot of where to find the spoiler button.
People are a lot nicer to me now than before I transitioned, which is nice, but it feels like a lot of them also assume I'm dumb af, which never happened when I was a "guy".
I kinda expected it from men, but what's caught me off guard is that a lot of women do it too.
parents /derogatory
My mom walked into my room this morning and told me she was going to star throwing things out of the house and that included my room. I told her that it’s my room and my stuff and I have a right to decide what to keep. She basically responded with “lol no you’re too mentally ill for that.”
Chat, what the fuck was that?
is there anything better than typing a journal entry into the text box and then deleting it before you publish it to the world
Big update! I finally got a place to rent! I even got room dibs!
The place isn't perfect but it's nicer than any other I've seen so far. And I'm just so, so relieved to actually have a place finally.
Beyond that today's been a very good day too! I got to get off work early to go to a bar with my coworkers, I finished the long project I've been working on, and, most importantly of all, my hair was extra pretty!
I'm even giving myself little treats (shitty spicy ramen) to feel even better~
Computer girls and guys and enbies, I call ye!
I'm building my first computer. All the components are in. I have no idea how to make sure it's cool (as in temp lol). I've never built one
Wanna travel across the world handing out estrogen vials like some sorta trans mansa musa.
Feeling more confident every time I go out looking for women's clothes 
okay, my face doesn't look any more femme but it's clearly a lot softer looking. My roommate wasn't lying about me looking different
love to wake up in the middle of the night and see that ive been lying on my tablet again 
it's not MY fault that the fanfics are just too good to put down 
some sad feelings around motherhood, rambling
ive been doing trauma release exercises and meditation recently and theyve brought up so much shit that ive been repressing. like i think i finally unlocked lesbian yearning and holy fuck i can barely handle it!! 
ive never felt this full body loneliness before, its almost incapacitating. and ive also started to grieve the fact that i’ll never be a mother unless a lot of shit (physical health, finances, mental health) gets magically better over the next few years and it just sucks. it sucks a lot lol
Weird how searching up top surgery info can make your tits weigh ten more pounds.
Discovery: tank tops are rad (especially with room for sideboob 
or if you wear a sports bra that's fun too) because I sweat in them way less.
In a t-shirt, even a men's 4XL one, my underarms become a fuckin swamp, I drip sweat even in moderate summer temperatures. I bought a bunch of tanktops a while back though, both men's and women's, from medium to XL (silly sizes) and it's far less likely I'll sweat to death. I am now in Tanktop and Sweatpants Gang; I am a small shirt big pants queer now!
I've noticed something lately
I used to feel fairly content just doing things on my own, before I really came out as trans to anyone else. Due to a number of factors, I don't feel as content as last year for instance. But despite that, it does seem like I'm laughing more often, which is nice ❤️
I've also made a small IRL trans friend group, and it's fun hanging out with them
I'm still on waiting lists for gender care, and it seems like it'll still be a while, but being able to be a girl in front of more people has made me very happy
I'm planning on coming out to my mom in a few weeks' time, and I really hope it goes well!
The Thing sustaining me rn is that soon i'll be living on an Anarchist commune in another country. 120% tired, 200% done w/ this shithole.
I am genderfluid, it's very liberating to admit that. I don't really wanna stick with one way of presenting myself or having one identity. I am pretty happy as a guy and as a girl and also in mysterious, unknowable forms.
Just wanted to post out into the void that being trans fucking rocks actually. 
spoiler I'm having a whole day today, a lot going on internally.navel gazing, cw discussion of sex related stuff
I guess maybe it's being NB (again) or else I've had some kind of internal seeing-the-light moment, but I have pleasant, weird and new perceptions of myself and my expressions and a lot of things I do.
If you asked me six months ago what I thought of being touched below the belt, I would probably have said "don't even fucking think about it". Now though, I can honestly say that I have had sex without any real dysphoria, which in itself feels weird. I've been a dysphoric little bitch my entire life, and now it's just... fine? I did not feel the need to instantly pull up the covers or whatever afterword. I'm not convinced that my junk bothers me in sexual terms. Cool?? Could I have spent the last decade not suffering if I'd just forsaken binary genders?????? Did it really have that much of an impact on my self-perception and everything??? I guess so...
To be fair, part of this is all that excruciating trauma processing I did a couple megathreads ago =) My mind and its stream of consciousness will still float away and think irrelevant things if I let it, but having put in all the work to actively rein that shit in means I can think clearly about whatever is currently going on, ask myself what I want, what I'm gonna do. I feel ridiculously clear headed now; whereas before I would barely speak, I have a lot less trouble expressing what I want. Maybe I will be ready to do something funny and kinky at some point?
TL;DR 
yeag
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Chat, my wife tells me that my voice sounds good. She is obviously a liar, how can I get her to stop?
I also have not been misgendered in like two years now despite my voice NOT sounding good. This is clearly a lie, how can I get reality & random people outside to stop?
actual non-goofy post
I goofed a little with voice training and I can sing along okay to some cool albums (Eye to the Telescope, Dreamboat Annie) even though it shreds my throat if I go too long. I found what I think is an autism problem, which is that I have really poor control over my larynx and stuff. I think it's inconsistent Idk.
Doxxing I know but 
I should post a vocaroo where I read the first chapter of Nevada lmao
blahaj zone, racism, transphobia?
blahaj zone continuing to be special. this is a mod on blahaj btw. this was in a thread about musk and his daughter but apparently was referencing something else as well?
Long hair feels so good, even if I am constantly keeping my bangs out of my eyes.
Goodnight hexbear, a good end to a good day of girl vibing 
I love being a girl, I'm not going back. I think I'm going to wear my hoodie and pajamas tonight, it's been a few days and I deserve to double up on the :comfy:
Damn I'm really just walking out the house like not trying and people talking about how cute my outfits are. Sorry I can't help it I'm just really cute 😔👯
elon's estranged daughter is cool as fuck.
she sounds like she posts here
Why can’t I look like an anime dog girl!!?? 
We just finished a batch of Ginger + Soy, Tofu stir fry
It's trans relevant because Soy 
It’s good to have peace of mind when doing injections now knowing it is actually working 
my therapist asked me who I marry in stardew valley and told me who they go for
I feel like we know so much more about each other now
getting bottom surgery so i can fulfill my lifelong dream of wearing a packer
More sappy posting about being gendered correctly on this funny bear website.
Someone referred to me as her the other day and 
literally can't stop thinking about it and how happy it makes me feel.
My therapist said to reach out to other queer people. She said Hexbear didn't count as homework, but was still very worthwhile. I even asked here how to do my homework, because she told me I should check. How are y'all doing?
Shower last evening had me genuinely 
'ing and I can't talk about it with anyone without sounding crazy 
Unfortunately for me I am not good at pretending nothing happened when something happened
Send hugs I guess lmaooo fuck
Hey trans thread, I just helped a gal amend her birth certificate. Being trans is alright, but helping other trans people? That's the real good shit.
Working a culturally-specific job is like the best move I've ever made for my own emotional wellbeing.
Wearing one of my biggest t-shirts and it's long enough that it's almost dress-like now that I'm smaller. Feels good.
trans people will be 23 and walk up to you and say "I'm 31, actually" and pull out their ID that makes them older than they really are. No girl, you're not a day over 25, stop lying, you do NOT look remotely that old
