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bottom surgery, sex
I had full depth vaginoplasty this year in January, and my recovery has been very smooth compared to people I know. I wish I could say what I did differently, I ate right, stayed hydrated, was fairly fit, ate a lot of protein (like whey and beans lol), stayed active, stayed on top of my dilation schedule, live alone and no pets so didnt have to clean my tub or whatever any more than usual. The first month dilation schedule does suck, its a full time job and thats not an exaggeration all the dilating, cleaning, drying, 4x a day. The months after get easier and easier but its still a lot of work. I was also lucky my union got us short term disability benefits so I never had to worry about money either.Not tucking again is definitely great - but you dont need full depth for that. You could have an orchi which Ive heard makes it easier to tuck, or zero depth vaginoplasty. Then it just looks like any other vagina but there's no cavity. Recovery is simpler and significantly faster with zero depth. I didnt get orchi pre bottom surgery.
I wanted full depth because I knew I wanted to have sex with a vagina. I always considered myself a top, and I still pretty much top even though... I aint got the equipment for it unless I use a strap lol. I was having sex with my vagina about 4 months in? Which is a little faster than most people but I healed great. It feels great and I'd highly recommend it if its something you'd ever want. Otherwise, if its not something you want theres not much point going for the longer recovery surgery.
I do remember thinking that if they said "you either get FFS or bottom surgery free, pick" I wouldve picked FFS. Im actually quite happy with a vagina though, its great!
Thank you.
(Sorry if i'm grossing everyone out. i'm far too awkward with the irl people i could ask these things to actually ask them in this level of detail)
cw: surgery, sex, masturbation
Yeah I'd pick FFS first too if it were an option. But I'm glad you're happy with your bottom surgery and you've definitely got me thinking about getting full depth. Like, imagine just being able to have sex whenever with no planning or preparation. I know you said you're a top, but are you able to say how vaginal feels compared to anal or nah? I think they position everything so you still get prostate stimulation, right? Did you keep full sensitivity of the various tissue that got moved around? How's masturbation? I typically use a magic wand, but the idea of perhaps just being able to use my fingers is kind of nice. Do you ever miss having the bits to top with? Do you feel more comfortable topping with a strap?Oh also, did you need to get electrolysis on the area first? Was it more painful than face or about the same? And was it done at a hospital or in a regular hair removal salon? The latter concerns me quite a lot because they're all (presumably) cis women at the one I go to.
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I was never interested in bottoming anal, so I have nothing to compare it to lol. From the people who I know whove had both, its comparable ish. Some people still need prep with a neovagina, I dont and I dont think Im rare for it - I get wet and all just fine. As far as I know most people are able to get wet after, but some people still need a little prep - but not full on bottoming prep, like just lube. Which is the same as plenty of cis women with vaginas they were born with.Youre able to check and touch and otherwise stimulate the prostate from the front yeah~ also they save a bundle of tissue and nerves that acts more or less like a g spot too. I kept sensitivity, and for me it does feel more sensitive and pleasurable but it might be more down to no more bottom dysphoria rather than anything they did to nerves or tissue. Fingers feels great, vibe feels WONDERFUL. I did not know how good it felt. Its also nice how long it can go? And it just keeps going and going too, with my gock it was like - build up then its more or less done in one release. It has not been like that post op.
The only stuff I miss about my old gock is the ease of peeing standing up and how much faster masturbation was. I can still pee standing up but it takes some awkward stances and muscles lol, and while masturbating was a lot faster - it also wasnt fun, more of a chore. I topped with a strap before (occasionally) and after, I preferred it to my gock even before. Now, I get to use a strapless strap on (like a double sided dildo kinda, you hold on to one end inside you and use the other) - thats been great.
I got laser for one session before, but honestly it wasnt necessary. It didnt hurt much, I have a high pain tolerance but honestly it barely hurt compared to my face. They like scrape off your hair follicles during the surgery? I dont have any hair inside my neo vagina, and out of the other post op trans women I know I think only one had a couple hairs inside? Anyway, they can get rid of any spare hairs inside if some happen to make it past surgery. I had my laser session at a place that has a lot of trans and gender diverse clients, and I had the same tech for my face as I did for full brazillian. Cis guys get it too, not often but they do so if you wanna boymode aboht it - well you can.
cw: more
Def not me only just finding out that vagina-havers can pee standing up. Humans are truly magical creatures.Thanks for answering so thoroughly and being so patient. That all seems really good and I kind of think i want it.
Do you mind me just asking a little more about recovery? How long were you bedbound for? Did you have someone to look after you to begin with? How long until you were able to go up and down stairs and stand long enough to shower and prepare food? Did you need a ring cushion to sit down (I guess there's a lot of swelling in the whole surrounding area)? If you work out/cycle/run, how long until you were able to start again?
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More prep then lube?
Edit: oh idk how I missed the rest of that paragraph, I swear I read the whole thread. But is it just lube? Like because you said it's not full on bottom prep... Is there still more/other stuff then natal vaginas?