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I dunno where you live but you should be able to get your birth certificate amended to female. You shouldn't need an orchi for that. I changed mine (Canada) just at a registry and a month and a half later they sent me a reminder to have my cervix examined lmao. I kept the letter, but good luck to any doctor that tries I do not have oneSome of those concerns are valid, it is something to figure out pre surgery if you want zero depth or if you want to have penetration. Dilating can be onerous and annoying, especially the first few months after surgery. You shouldn't be having sex for the first while so yes it will literally impact your sex life with her. It's not your partners body and I don't think she's gonna get it which is going to be frustrating. You seem to very eagerly want a vagina, this is something you can get and it seems to cause you some level of distress without one. Your partner doesn't have to live with the same dysphoria you do. I can't say it won't change anything between you and her but if she's mostly been supportive I think she'll continue to be even if she's anxious about it or your identity as a woman is becoming more real
I had a tracheal shave and I found it quite helpful for myself and for passing! Plenty of cis girls have a more prominent tracheal bump (I've met some). If it doesn't cause you dysphoria, then tell your family to fuck off and move on in life without it. For me, it also didn't like remove my Adam's apple, it just very very reduced it. Didn't affect my voice or anything else.
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consulting transhub for this since they've been pretty reliable for all things Aus-specificit is what it is but i reserve the right to be pissed
honestly i think there's been many such cases of this since i transitioned and every time it actually came down to it, she has been supportive. so yeah, i'm hoping it's just looming anxieties that will eventually be resolved but it weighs on my mind
that's good to hear! my main concern if i did decide to go through with it was damage to my voice so thanks for the reassurance. i feel pretty indifferent to the surgery - i'm leaning more into it but i don't want to do it just to make some cis people more comfortable iykwim
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Well that's just annoying about NSW wow.