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[–] [email protected] 15 points 6 months ago (8 children)

I have a confession hexbearI do not share your enthusiasm for skirts. I would just like slightly shorter shorts.
spoiler I have another confession hexbear I have never tried a skirt, this is purely vibes :::

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I’m more at a leggings vibe rn myself.
Although I’d like to try wearing a skirt at my sister’s wedding.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (3 children)

leggins look so comfy, but I'm not sure how they'd actually be (because of the balls). If I like tucking I think they definitely seem like they could be a fav.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I can’t really speak on it because mine retract into my body half the time

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Mostly hyperbole, but they aren’t very intrusive

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I remember seeing someone on a forum like a decade ago with Klinefelters talking about how their penis was so smol that when non-erect, they had an innie. I was very clearly envious, but they were a guy, so didn't even consider that could count as gender envy at the time.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

always fun to go through memories of looking at the dick and feeling bad about it, wondering why that is and then coming to the conclusion it's because it's smol

later on realising that i just fucking hate it and want to rip it off lea-dysphoric thank fuck it's small atleast, easier to hide

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago

Wish I could relate. Never had insecurities about being too smol, but also can't say I hated it either. Would have preferred an innie to and outie, but that was always a "too bad, oh well" kind of thing. Orchis, otoh, were something I realized I'd be happy to have an excuse to get around the same time, but I just blamed that on secret shame about sexuality that was so secret I was unaware of it. Should have probably have noticed a trend, but I never thought those two thoughts were remotely related.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Personally I don’t tuck I just wear underwear underneath. I have a gaff that I wear sometimes for lighter colored leggings, but black leggings are my most common type of pants and for those I just need regular underwear. It also helps that I wear longer shirts a lot of the time.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Oh really? That's exciting to hear, I assumed leggings would be really hard for me/trans women to wear.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

I think it varies based on your situation down there and I got lucky in that sense. But I started out wearing them around the house and in that case it really doesn’t matter. My ass looks better than ever in them, as do my thighs. Looking at my thighs in leggings was the first time I ever found my own body attractive.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Yea, I'm sure it does. We'll see if hrt can help me out eventually.

I still can't believe cis people find themselves attractive. One day I'll be wearing leggings and looking at my thighs though sicko-wistful I'm guessing I'll feel the same way.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (1 children)

You will get to the "staring into the mirror preening" stage!! meow-hug It slaps ngl.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago

I am so excited to get there!!! It's going to be hard but the best thing ever.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago

They are comfy. Granted, I think tucking is comfy, which is probably unusual. Wish I wore them more - only time I've done it in public was when I was cosplaying.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I wish I could get leggings to work, but I need to wear some sort of skirt or shorts over them to hide certain details πŸ˜‘

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 months ago

Dresses >> skirts.

I don't care for skirts either. Idk about short shorts... I do wear boxers over my underwear around the house and basically think of them as a short shorts. So still rate better than skirts.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Hexbear Confession Sub-threadI would like to wear skirts someday...

I also need new short shorts, my ass is too big for my old pairs lol

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago

Ikr, my ass destroys trousers tbh trans-sad

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 months ago

Short shorts are awesome. Some skirts aren’t the best, but most are great.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Go for shorter shorts, can't go wrong with them! Would still reccomend trying skirts eventually though, my initial vibes on them were completely off.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago

I definitely will, once I get a chance. Maybe it will be the same for me.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago

Skirts can be fun sometimes. I didn't think I'd like skirts then I was swayed after trying a few. I love short shorts tho. Tied with leggings for me

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Skirt goes spinny. If you've never done it, please for the love of God but on a flowy dress or skirt and go spinny.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago

I can't kitty-birthday-sad but I will try when I get a chance.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Skirts are an incredibly variable experience. Some are fantastic, some are awful.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I'm surprised by that, I would have thought (just by looking) that they were more or less the same.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

There are skirts that… restrict movement? When movement is the best part about a skirt? Idk I know the thin pencil skirt look is something some people like but I don’t get it.