read a transphobic op-ed by someone with my deadname. weird feeling
this post was submitted on 26 Feb 2024
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What happened to that wayne track d'usse. I think it was meant to be on tha carter v but it didn't make it and now his best track is just sitting on youtube?
cis people will always let you down
I don't get people complaining about not having big tits. I am not in HRT yet(sadly), but looking at my family I will be lucky to get something bigger than an A cup. And I am honestly fine with it. Femininity isn't stored in the tits after all. And small breasts are not exclusive to trans people, it is just a natural distribution.
It's the preference of some people just like some people would rather prefer being smaller chested. Nothing wrong with either at the end of the day.
I, personally, want them to be big. Why? Cause I have a large, wide bone structure and larger breasts go a long way to help even out my body shape so it's distinctly feminine.
My wife, on the other hand, doesn't want them big. Just enough to have them be seen in everyday clothes and that's it. Why? That's just how she wants them. B cup max for her.
EDIT: Forgot to add contrasting example >.>
I used to think I wouldn't care too much about what breast size HRT gave me, but once I started becoming more serious about passing, I noticed how my shoulders and upper chest area is definitely the most masculine-looking part of my body, and while I'm sure the inevitable muscle atrophy will help a bit, having noticeable boobs would make it a lot better.
i don't need big tits but like, it would be nice if they made an impact on my silhouette (which is not the current state of things)
True and I don't really want huge tits either just enough to make some kind of impact
idk if I'll ever be able to get over missing out being in school but as a girl
i was a theater kid. recently i saw my cousin in a show that i was in when i was in hs, and had a nice time but couldn't stop thinking about how much i had wished i was one of the girls in the ensemble at the time
Despite the fact that I never give myself time to think about it, I think I might be trans or nb, not sure, didn't give myself time to think about it.
It's amazing to me how quickly my time away from boymode has become my favorite time. Its my preferred new normal. Going back to boymode for work or social situations feels like putting on a mask that weighs a million pounds. It's exhausting.
Also, this weekend I discovered the dysphoria fighting powers of baggy overalls. Since it was nice out, my husband wanted my help with a bunch of spring cleaning and outdoor chores. I was dreading it because the weekends are my time, and I don't have anything to wear for that kind of stuff. And I definitely don't want to have that conversation with my neighbors yet.
So as I was getting dressed, I noticed my old baggy overalls. Imagine how pleased I was to find out that my brain doesn't gender overalls at all. So those and a cute tee shirt had me feeling great all day. I'm going to have to get a nicer pair to work into my regular going out and doing things clothes.