still trying to figure out my style and stuff
got a new sweater the other day and it gives off massive Basic White Girl™ vibes and I'm honestly pretty here for it
Style is so hard but so fun. Basic white girl vibes are definitely a look, glad you found something you dig!!
Met some new trans person - turns out to be a horny liberal into the game with the
wish me luck for next timeSpoiler
incest subtext
It wasn't just "plays it and doesn't care about the implications", the person had the corresponding fanart on the phone screen
asking for t4t advice
cw sexual content
My GF and I have been together for a bit now but it’s been pretty hard to do anything when we’re together. We can hang out and play games or just talk, and that’s fun, but actually doing, y’know, the thing, is really hard.
I think part of it is that, while I mentally internalize my GF as the girl she is, and it’s really easy to get into things in my imagination of her or while not in person, I think seeing her in person just freaks me out because I worry that she isn’t quite femme enough in her current presentation for me to be fully attracted to her, which really fucks with my head. It’s extremely hard because I want to be freaky with her and usually are but whenever we’re in person I just freeze.
I’m worried I have some sort of internalized transphobia or some subconscious misgendering of my GF which is stopping me from being fully into her.
Is there any way I can help myself get into the proper mindset? Should I have sex while high or something? Maybe meditate on her appearance and like, recontextualize her appearance?
I really need an elder queer’s help here, I feel stuck but also like this is something lots of people would deal with in t4t relationships.
I have this problem that starting a while ago every time I do introspection it tells me I need to come out to people even if they might react negatively and I don't want to do that because it's scary so now I just avoid all introspection 
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