DM and the other players in my group updated all their character icons / tokens, and suddenly it's Twinks All the Way Down.
this post was submitted on 12 May 2025
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Meredith, one of my other hamsters || Trans Megathread from May 12th, 2025 to May 18th, 2025
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Hi! I've been extremely tired this week and nearly forgot that I was hosting one so I'm writing this last minute! I couldn't think of anything so I'm going to write about one of my hamsters who is not Biggs; Meredith
Meredith was another hamster of mine from a few years ago during the early days of COVID, and she was the absolute sweetest little creature I had ever met. Very friendly, very gentle. She loved exploring anywhere I put her into and never bit me ~~okay she did once ever~~. She was an absolute sweetheart and bundle of love and was with me during some of the rougher parts of my life
She unfortunately died very suddenly out of the blue one day at a terribly young age showing no symptoms of anything wrong with her prior, which breaks my heart to this very day
I never had her as long as any other hamster of mine but I don't think I had any other hamster touch my heart in quite the same way. I miss you, girl
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unfortunately, I'm not breedable, I'm readable. I have a terrible poker face and it says so much more than I ever conciously realize
I'm seedable, but you've got to plow me first.
It says you wanna be bred
The only 
fanfic I've ever read was the IDW one, seeing debate 
wasn't as good as you'd think way too wordy
I dont drink coffee at all
Should I get into coffee? Should I be a coffee person?
Im a "special little drink" person, I switch it up all the time and have month long obsessions with tea, coffee, energy drink, soup, whatever. Its an aspect of being genderfluid for meπ
an aeropress and either a grinder and beans or a good quality ground coffee is all you need
NO! DONβT YOU FUCKING DARE! You want to become one of those hipster nerds who buys extremely expensive gear, just because this James Hoffmann super nerd told you it would make your oh, so special(ty) coffee a little bit better? Are you willing to learn Eyetalian because everything is named in this cursed language? Do you not have any qualms about roasting beanis and turning it into a juice instead of worshipping it like a normal person? Of course not, donβt be silly.
Avert your eyes from this abomination and instead gaze upon your true destiny: Tea 
only open this if you truly want to embrace enlightenment
Imagine sitting in your peach garden with your trusted gaiwan in front of you. Today you want to try some of your favourite roasted tieguanyin. You could have chosen a nice honey Jin Jun Mei, or a well-aged sheng-puerh whose leaves have been collected from 500 year-old tea trees, but today you want to be kissed by the Iron Goddess of Mercy.
You let your almost boiling water fall upon your precious leaves and wait for them to infuse the crystal-clear water. With an elegant but quick motion you pour your heavenly-smelling tea into your gong dao bei and then into your smaller teacup, both of them handmade with a celadon glaze that is redirecting the sunrays to your eyes with a beautiful light-blue shimmer.
As you get your face closer to your cup, you get a hint of the lovely aroma that starts to fill your nostrils. You get hints of butter toffee, dark chocolate and bit of nuttiness. Of course you have to wait for it cool down first before you taste it, so you pull out your bamboo scroll and start reading ancient Chinese philosophy.
After a few minutes you finally get to enjoy this liquid treasure. As it fills your mouth, you get all of the aroma that you smelled previously, but a lot more intimately. Purely divine. A big smile starts forming on your face as you know that today you have been blessed by Heaven. Because this was just the first steep, and thereβs many more to come.
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how many yall like E?
Me. It's lovely, every moment and every change is blissful euphoria.
I don't know but I hate T to death. So hopefully.
it's alright. wish it did more tbh
dysphoria
If it would just fix my voice too I would be so much happier
Pretty cool. Looking forward to E 2.
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Keep thinking of my height, got measured yesterday and like still the same. Just thought well duh I'm not getting taller but the horror dawned on me of what if the reverse 
might not be able to reach up on the top shelf where we keep the good shit away from the shorties
been sitting here struck with the realization that boys are actually really cute and i am significantly less gay than i thought. i'm still bi but like wtf i can't stop thinking about men. i've been stuck on "damn wtf i'm into boys a lot more now" for the past like 4-5 months and still can't get over it
Bi-Cycle, lfg 
Meredith was a cute little nugget, thank you for sharing her with us :)
Saw Sinners last night, amazing movie. 
Are there any good trans resources on hair?
Like how to care for it, style it, choose a look etc.
Feel kind of lost.
Basically any resource for haircare can apply to us too. The only transfem-specific things I've seen recommended is to have hair covering your hairline (either bangs or part the hair in a way that can cover them) and my stylist's suggestion of shorter face framing tendrils to make a person's face seem more round. Also definitely go to either a trans-affirming stylist or nice hair salons that cater to women, since they'll cut your hair in femme ways that you wouldn't get at barbershops.
Go from being sad I'm alone 
to hell yeah vocel gang 
in my vocel gang arc 
Think a lot of it is just getting back into fitness with the single minded devotion I do everything with
An old person (like forgotten generation) after a long talk already asked what my progress badge meant and I explained it and they said they "didn't know why people were so hateful to you" and wished me luck.
And it's so funny because they clearly didn't know what my specific deal was (a butch trans woman who mentioned a female partner). And I didn't explain and they didn't push it like a boomer might have.
Perfect way to act. I don't understand and I don't care it's fine.
I'm not usually big into colour tattoos, but the idea of getting a tranarchy tattoo is really appealing...
wrote 3 pages for a group project and then i see it in the final report and it's not at all what i wrote. I ask my group member whether he edited it using chatgpt (clearly he did because it was trash), and he says he "tried to enrich it". god help me avoid homicide this semester
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finally got around to doing my eyebrows and damn i did a good job i think
Honestly I'm pretty sure femininity is 99% eyebrows. I look so good after I get them threaded.
LIBERAL SPOTTED
GO GO GADGET REDSAILS ARTICLE!
I love my d&d group!
Thats all
I would like to announce that last month my egg may* have possibly cracked. Does anyone have any advice for experimenting with presenting fem when in a very masculine coded & non LGBT friendly field? (HVAC)
*I say may because I'm not sure what to do about these feelings or whether they make me trans or not. This describes my experience pretty accurately
I've also changed my mind on the button thought experiment, for most of my life I would decide to push it just to try out having a female body for little while but keep the opportunity to change back if I didn't like it. But now I think I would want to push it even if the changes were permanent.
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Apparently my partner's queer org got kicked from their original space due to being too anti-genocide and pro-trans that it made the libs who owned that space lib out.
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Focaccia bread with latke baked in 
