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Hi! I've been extremely tired this week and nearly forgot that I was hosting one so I'm writing this last minute! I couldn't think of anything so I'm going to write about one of my hamsters who is not Biggs; Meredith

Meredith was another hamster of mine from a few years ago during the early days of COVID, and she was the absolute sweetest little creature I had ever met. Very friendly, very gentle. She loved exploring anywhere I put her into and never bit me ~~okay she did once ever~~. She was an absolute sweetheart and bundle of love and was with me during some of the rougher parts of my life

She unfortunately died very suddenly out of the blue one day at a terribly young age showing no symptoms of anything wrong with her prior, which breaks my heart to this very day

I never had her as long as any other hamster of mine but I don't think I had any other hamster touch my heart in quite the same way. I miss you, girl


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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

To the girl reading this, what color is your favorite color?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 hour ago

mine is orange!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 hours ago

Probably purple, like this kinda shade. Although it depends a lot on context too.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Sure sex is probably cool but you know what's better, getting a full nights sleep with minimal piss/water breaks doggirl-sleep

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 hours ago

Back in high school all the cool gay kids would listen to like lady gaga now they listen to walls of noise broken up with old radio number stations or whatever.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

Gonna go watch labyrinth, first time ever seeing david bowie on the screen. I heard they weren't even acting in that movie no one bothered giving them a script just that good.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 hours ago

Get thee to a haberdashery

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 hours ago

pissthing i've noticed change after about 6 weeks sober: my piss is starting to become noticably yellow again. most likely because i'm not constantly drinking a diuretic. this is probably a good sign but also weird to have happen

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

So I'm not closeted. But I present butch so most people probably just see androgynous/fruity man. I won't give the exact details for OpSec but last week I basically got outed on a large scale for a community I'm involved in face to face regularly. I had an almost panic attack because of it.

But I eventually realized "hey this was good, it's like pulling a bandaid off all at once".

Except no one seemed to notice, at first I thought people were just being polite and pretending not to have notice. It wasn't subtle it was literally almost "Xia Cobolt is actually a woman, she is trans!". But like no one actually was paying any attention in the slightest and I'm like relieved but also disappointed.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 7 hours ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Want yalls opinions because I don't have cool enough freinds to ask opinions on collars, which option(s) do you like better? I really like the rainbow one but it's $45, and I'm unsure if its too flashy. Then there is the other style that is $15 that I'd get that with a burgundy strap and unsure on either a dark nickel or "gold" chain. Going with the $15 collar also gives me the option of adding a leash for $15, and I will spend less money overall. And then also then I have a leash for doggirl-kiss

CW for leather, also maybe NSFW because collar (also if you know of something similar to these that is vegan lmk)

Also before anyone comment about it, no I'm not too concerned about opsec for posting potential collars I might be wearing

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago

spoileroh jeez now i'm looking at collars for myself again doggirl-sweat

I also really like the rainbow one! I don't really have any idea of what's considered flashy or extra though, and I'm a little bit of a sucker for heart-shaped rings...

[–] [email protected] 11 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

doggirl-smart The power of Marxism-Leninism transformed a KatGirl into a DogGirl, marvelous

[–] [email protected] 8 points 9 hours ago

the wonders of communism never cease to amaze me catgirl-smug

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Already back after just 2 months? Seems like the grass touching was very successful. doggirl-thumbsup

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

doggirl-sweat Have managed my internet usage better, but social anxiety and imposter syndrome are holding me back from social stuff. Have made friends tho and gotten into political organizing finally which has been fun, just not as social as I'd like to be, but its slowly getting better

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 hours ago

I wouldn’t call that slow. That’s actually some nice progress you’ve made there.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (3 children)

vampirepostingMy blood looks tasty.. Rich and succulent, dark and deep.. I wanna vampire so bad..

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 hours ago

twitter trans vampireposting

[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

spoilerMm, I would.. But I already gave some away today.. So my body needs rest. Maybe if you were to take it delicately, and take care of me after however..

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

spoilerCan I have some? Just a taste, I promise. xok-og

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

spoilerPerhaps I could spare a prick of my finger..

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 hours ago

leslie-shining

spoilerThank you, comrade

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

My favorite transpost, spoilered cause it is a little edgy

spoiler

Ratlimit is such a powerful poster. rosa-salute

[–] [email protected] 10 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

Bad day. Horrible day in fact catgirl-cry

[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 hours ago

"Hey tomorrow! You better fucking make sure that you’re nicer to her and give her a day she deserves. Or else..." madeline-deadpan gunpoint-alt

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I think my skin is getting softer or smoother or something? My knuckles are like weirdly shiny and they feel good to rub my face against. Huh

[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

When I was with my ex, I had just started HRT and it didnt take long for them to notice my skin was significantly softer. Like 6 months. It just keeps turning more and more into girl style skin the longer you're on it!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 hours ago

I am going through this right now while also doing laser and my soft, smooth face feels like fucking magic

[–] [email protected] 11 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

you're telling me a chihuahua fridayed this rice?? circle-quad-2

[–] [email protected] 11 points 12 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 11 points 12 hours ago

does anyone hear a distant yapping sound

[–] [email protected] 11 points 12 hours ago

You’re telling me a mouse Friday’d this rice?!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 hours ago

my appearance, dysphoria, drugs, hopeI recently realized I am very pretty :)

My hairline is trash, I'm like 40 lbs more than I want to be, my feet are huge, I've got bad skin, I often have visible stubble, I don't shave my body too often cuz it's a pain, I have crows feet, and lots more stuff like that.

All that stuff used to bother me a lot. But while on shrooms I decided I was pretty any way. And now I feel like I am pretty all the time.

And other people think I am too! People don't actually care about that shit. I literally have visible chest hair in my cleavage showing pics on my app profile. And shit is going great.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I've seen people talk about all the weird drug interactions grapefruit has, but is grapefruit-flavored seltzer enough to trigger those? Surely not, right? It would need to have a fairly substantial amount of grapefruit in it to cause problems, yeah?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Depends how much actual grapefruit is on it. Also are ya gonna be drinking grapefruit seltzer quite often? Multiple times a day or daily? Probably should skip depending on how much is in it (depends on your meds too). A few times a month or less? Go for it

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

It's unfortunately my favorite drink cri , but also probably explains some of the weirdness in my levels. Dutasteride is my AA if that matters at all.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Dutasteride is highly metabolized by CYP 3A4, the same liver enzyme affected by grapefruit. Grapefruit blocks the action of CYP 3A4, which means your Dutasteride levels will remain much higher on the days you have grapefruit.

I can't say how much or how little your intake in grapefruit flavored seltzer is affecting your Dutasteride. One glass of just grapefruit juice (not just flavour) or one whole grapefruit can have that blocking activity last up to 72 hours.

I would say skip the seltzer just in case. If you've been drinking it the whole time you've been on Dutasteride and you've been getting levels checked, it might be fine to just keep chugging it! I wish I had a better answer. You can ask an actual pharmacist in person or by phone, they'll have better clearer answers.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago

Thank you!!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 13 hours ago

unusually cold week, my beloved. temporarily assuaging my climate change anxieties briefly doggirl-sleep

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