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Trans Megathread from January 27th, 2024 to February 2nd, 2024 (lemmygrad.ml)

submitted 6 days ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Hiiii!

Today: a short yap about computer hardware:

Damn I love the AM4 socket its so upgradable yay, bought a Ryzen 9 5900X for our old desktop soon to be homelab and so excited for it.

Computers are fun! ~~(and expensive)~~

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago (2 children)

can't spell "sonic the hedgehog" without "he hedgehog"

people who headcanon him as transfem owned doggirl-smug

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 days ago (4 children)

can't spell "sonic the hedgehog" without "hog" feral-hog

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Caves of Qud is so much fun!

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I like when my dream is like:

doggirl-smug “c’mon you’re male, you are the brother, beat up your sisters abusive ex”.

…and then I actually do it as if I’m not a 5’3 estrogenized girl-thing who can’t even pick up 50 pounds to save my life. doggirl-sweat

[–] [email protected] 13 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Dream tips. Go for strangling, the punches do nothing. the-more-you-know

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Strangling feels kind of visceral.
I just punched them a lot and slammed them on the ground over and over.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 days ago

Fair fair.

Also really cool waow-based slam that fucker around, girlie

[–] [email protected] 24 points 5 days ago (2 children)

trans girls with deep voices are super hot

[–] [email protected] 18 points 5 days ago

shout out to transgirls that sound like whiny preteens doggirl-hi

[–] [email protected] 14 points 5 days ago

If only I was one of them. trans-sad

[–] [email protected] 23 points 5 days ago

depressing

the state government here are pulling a terf island and pausing puberty blockers from being prescribed through the public system for under 18's deeper-sadness

since there was literally already a review done last year (that found kids were in no way being coerced into hormone treatment but instead that wait lists were way too fucking long - at 577 days for some patients), i'm guessing this is just an excuse to defer to the Cass review. i kinda guessed something like this would happen soon but shit's really making me want to niko-cocktail

[–] [email protected] 19 points 5 days ago

All I have playing in my head is, what am I supposed to do.

I feel like crying but I can't.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 5 days ago (1 children)

doomposting

you ever feel the need to just rot in bed all day and not do anything because whats the point in doing anything if the world is careening off a cliff with the pedal welded to the proverbial floor? catgirl-flop

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 5 days ago (5 children)

More men should show me their soft bellies with their little treasure trails

They would if they weren't cowards

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Going on a date on thursday, I'm so nervous🙈🙈🙈 First time I've been asked out by someone I met IRL, although he most likely doesn't know I'm trans, so I'm not excited for that conversation😖 Idk what to expect😫

[–] [email protected] 15 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (5 children)

CW: Genitalia

Tried tucking for the first time (in private). I got some compression panties from Tomboy X. They are expensive, but seem to work. Unfortunately, I got an erection from gender euphoria that ruined the tuck, but I was able to try on some pants that I had gotten and really like but couldn't wear due to the fit as it regards the untucked crotch.

Also, starting to do voice training exercises. It's neat to feel and manipulate the larynx, although I can see how it's going to take a lot of practice and effort to sound natural/consistent. Got laser hair removal scheduled as well. Just going to be $75/session for the the face/neck, which isn't bad at all.

Regardless of the broader context, I am happy to be making consistent transition progress.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I could see myself in a lesbian relationship tho

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago

numb

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago (1 children)

In the most recent Larian community news post about Baldur's Gate 3:

our Community Team took the next most natural step and joined Tumblr - because if the gang are going to star in a thousand slow-burn romance fics, we might as well be there to see it.

it's like they follow me~

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Kind of have the urge to play

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 5 days ago (5 children)

I wish there was HRT that made you less wide doggirl-tears

Tbh, I wish HRT worked the way it does in something like Trials in Tainted Space.
Where it’s like a delicious candy and it rapidly alters your bones and muscles and can turn you completely cis if you overdose. doggirl-sweat

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (3 children)

In the process of getting a therapist. Hoping to hear back this week!

Venting, Probably Insane

I had a bad day yesterday. Really lost my cool, lost my glasses then got frustrated with my brother over text trying to talk about it. I hit a level in my emotions that I am not comfortable with, so I need to change.

My new glasses were like, part of feminizing my appearance, so it's upsetting not to have them. Glasses are the only thing protecting others from my intense yet forlorn stare. They help me see, also.

I guess I got caught up in assuming that just because my brother is also trans, that he would like, be more understanding of this or something. He came out 10 years younger than I am. He had our parents. Nobody knows what I dealt with in high school, and they'll never ask.

I worry more and more that everyone in my life likes their Quiet Little Brother who Doesn't Speak, and don't have a ton of room for that to change. I feel like I have to work 150% to match other people's social competency in most settings. So speaking of my needs is just really hard.

It's hurtful to call someone your favorite person and then just keep them in a little box and disregard their emotions and their problems when they get too big. You can at least say you don't want to talk about it. That'd be a step up.

Equally fun is processing that I'm probably autistic and have an entire other theater to wage war on in terms of understanding myself.

So yeah, I feel completely out of my element in just about every way imaginable. I'm hoping that therapy will help.

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