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[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago
[–] [email protected] 137 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Kelsy Brainard, 18, a student of the $70,000-per-year Roman Catholic institution in Worcester, Massachusetts

Now it makes sense, they're rich kids looking for an excuse to beat someone up

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I want to know how they pronounce “Worcester”.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

you know it's some shit like Wooou-stah.

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[–] [email protected] 127 points 1 week ago

squidward-nochill a 22 year old was beaten up for dating an 18 year old

squidward-chill they were a us troop

[–] [email protected] 105 points 1 week ago (1 children)

This is just plain liberalism of not having any actual convictions and not knowing why age gaps are actually bad in the "adulthood" beyond the reflexive and visceral "hurr pedo bad you're literally Jimmy Saville if you're 19 hanging out with 18"

[–] [email protected] 47 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

fr a 22 year old is still just a fuckin kid. I'm 40 this year and I would never ever consider dating a 22 year old. 30 maybe, but like how can you have anything in common with someone 20 years younger than you power dynamics aside. All that said 22 and 18 is a lot better than the relationships a lot of my girl friends as a teenager got into.

Edit: okay it was a troop fuck him he deserved the beating even if it was for the wrong reasons.

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[–] [email protected] 81 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Liberals who infantilize women should be called out for their misogyny. Just ridiculous how they treat adult women like they’re still children. madeline-angry

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[–] [email protected] 79 points 1 week ago

A group of Assumption University students...

well, at least they are living up to the alma mater's namesake.

[–] [email protected] 76 points 1 week ago

the reasons for the beating are obviously wrong, however, upon further reading he was an army soldier... so officer-down

[–] [email protected] 71 points 1 week ago (1 children)

College senior hooks up with college freshman? Possibly worthy of teasing by peers.

[–] [email protected] 67 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Meanwhile actual pedophiles flying under the radar: side-eye-1 side-eye-2

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago

Pretty amazing that the USA is both beating up people for dating someone slightly younger and putting them in positions of power.

[–] [email protected] 43 points 1 week ago

Meanwhile known pedophiles sitting in congress

[–] [email protected] 68 points 1 week ago (10 children)

Power dynamics. Do you disagree?

Seriously though, this is fucking stupid. I can't believe I'm saying this but I don't think they were justified in mob beating this US soldier. Stay within your race and birth year is the message we'll all be getting soon, then? Is anti-age gap really a common thing now among younger people?

I would figure maybe this was caused in part by conservative Catholic anti-sex brainworms and young guys feeling ownership of women their age and jealous that their classmates are dating older guys instead of being their Catholic trad wife. Hook up with a guy a few years older and we'll lynch his ass? That's the message.

[–] [email protected] 78 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I feel like we're splitting hairs here the correct takeaway should be imo that it's always ok to beat up a US soldier

[–] [email protected] 55 points 1 week ago

You're right, Comrade. I take back what I said.

Their desire to beat a US soldier was justified but their analysis was wrong.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 week ago

ok nvm i stan them good job fidel-salute-big

[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 week ago

conservative Catholic anti-sex brainworms and young guys feeling ownership of women their age and jealous that their classmates are dating older guys instead of being their Catholic trad wife

This is 1000% it

[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 week ago (2 children)

When I was a young man I thought I was "raised Catholic" because my Catholic parents took me and my siblings to church weekly until we were each 18. But the older I got, the more I realized how fantastic they were at shielding me and my siblings from Catholic brainworms, after seeing what actually happens to the actual "raised Catholic" victims.

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[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 week ago (1 children)

They're just doing what the unions want. Do you disagree?

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

I would figure maybe this was caused in part by conservative Catholic anti-sex brainworms and young guys feeling ownership of women their age and jealous that their classmates are dating older guys instead of being their Catholic trad wife. Hook up with a guy a few years older and we’ll lynch his ass? That’s the message.

I mean, c'mon here. The people who have been yelling about "age gaps" for the last 4+ years have not been Conservative Catholics & Incels. This is 100% a "cultural-left", radlib phenomenon.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 week ago (10 children)

I disagree a bit. I know of a not-insignificant portion of young misogynistic guys who are angry at women their age for dating older guys instead of them. They were around even when I was the age of the guys in this article and that was a while ago. I always felt like that fed into a lot of guys buying into the Alpha Male discourse that come around later. Probably related to incels too, but not sure which came first.

There is totally a radlib thing about age gap and that's also stupid, of course, but there's definitely a reactionary, misogynistic ownership aspect that's been festering for a long while.

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[–] [email protected] 54 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah this is too much. If he was like 40 or something going after an 18 year old it'd raise my eyebrow but a 4 year difference, 18 and 22? C'mon.

[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Literally conforms to the divide by two add 7 rule!

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[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 week ago (6 children)

why is always when some shit like this gets posted i see a bunch of reactionary comments on hexbear like 'oh well i guess we all have to date someone born the same SECOND as us HUH? I better tell my WIFE I'm a P*DO because there's two years between us!!' like come the fuck on

i get it, idpol's gone wild and the youth are nutso but do you really have to throw out the nuance?? maybe i'm misreading things but it feels like some of yall get really defensive when this topic comes up, and as a result we can never have any valid discussion about this topic without someone throwing some reddit-level bad faith thing at you for saying 'yes, there is some truth to age-gap discourse'

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I'm only seeing one set of comments like that, and they're definitely satirising those redditorisms rather than being reactionary.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

you missed this one https://hexbear.net/comment/5812044

and this one https://hexbear.net/comment/5811125

and this one https://hexbear.net/comment/5811178, specifically sooper_dooper_roofer's comment

and as for what you've linked, where you're reading 'satirising' i'm reading 'taking something to a logical extreme to show how ridiculous it is', and it's definitely pointed at this discourse and not at redditorisms

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Gonna be real, when I read

i see a bunch of reactionary comments on hexbear like 'oh well i guess we all have to date someone born the same SECOND as us HUH? I better tell my WIFE I'm a P*DO because there's two years between us!!'

and

do you really have to throw out the nuance??

together I don't expect you to mean any of those comments. Just go reply to them instead of vagueposting.

I guess I see what you mean about the ones I linked, but I'm inclined to give them some benefit of the doubt from being on Hexbear.

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[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 week ago

18 and 22. Both college aged young adults. Such a terrible age gap.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm only going to try to date women born +/- two weeks before or after me going forward just to be safe.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 week ago (3 children)

If we don't share a birthday they give me the ick tbh

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Age gap ‘discourse’ is just cheap moralism. Vapid self-righteousness is like the zoomer internet brainrot equivalent of boomers howling about immigrants

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 week ago (6 children)
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[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 week ago

for fuck's sake

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Guarantee these catholic white knights have never beaten down a priest accused of actual predatory behavior

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 week ago

It's always stupid to take screwball incidents like this and extrapolate them as part of a bigger societal issue. Very reactionary thinking.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 week ago (2 children)

This is more than likely some sort of clickbait based on how irrationally annoyed I feel (my internal "Am I being fucked up?" meter), but no one should be doing "To catch a predator"-"esque" sting operations. Esque (not a real word according to Apple. Thanks, Tim (it is)) in quotes because calling it such sort of implies a similar dynamic of "adult seeking obvious child" for sexual reasons. Or other inappropriate relations... which is basically any relations between some stranger and a child. Two adults meeting is not "to catch a predator" unless the 18 year old was pretending (as they did on the original show) to be underage. Like 14 or something. Then, ok. But that's not represented here.

Beyond that, random, private citizens have absolutely no business doing this type of stuff. It's debatable if even the fucking cops/FBI, in cooperation with skilled professionals, should even be doing this stuff. Certainly not for anyone's "entertainment." If there is a legitimate predator problem amongst the general population that justifies stings like this, then the appropriate law enforcement agencies can/should handle it. They can announce the stats from the stings afterwards. We don't need some Chris Hansen type lecturing a creepy 42 year old munching on pizza who thought he was going to meet a 14 year old girl from AOL instant messenger. I understand it's "funny" or mostly just shocking to see such footage, but still, some things just shouldn't be made.

Also, most sexual assault of children is done by people they trust. Family members or close family friends. It's not common that a stranger from the internet is the perpetrator. Also, cops are a huge percentage of abusers. If these types of "pedo stings" (which this doesn't appear to be... given only this headline) wanted to be effective they'd just wait for cops to arrive and search the cops' shit. Statistically, that would turn up more evidence of wrongdoing than luring random dumbasses (who are gross, for the record. Doesn't need to be stated...)

Anyway, all that said, the media tying this to a TikTok trend which I've heard of exactly twice makes me think this was a tiny, isolated, still very stupid and bad, incident. So, in short... I got clickbaited

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Esque (not a real word according to Apple. Thanks, Tim (it is))

"Esque" isn't a real word, "-esque" is a suffix.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

I appreciate the incredibly pedant hair-splitting over the difference between a suffix and a word, but my point was this suffix is real and shouldn't be underlined as if it's misspelled.

Thus, Tim Apple must still stand trial for his crime.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 week ago (2 children)

The feeling I always got from these vigilante pedo hunters is that they don't really care about victims of CSA, because if they did, they would actually help children and victims. They want to exert power over someone and live out a violent fantasy, and nobody is gonna come to the defense of a pedophile, so they make good targets. They don't actually improve anything or make anyone safer. They humiliate someone with a sense of moral superiority, knowing that they will face no consequences for it.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 week ago (5 children)

could we get a link to the story maybe

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