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[โ€“] [email protected] 21 points 5 days ago (2 children)

I have no idea how to talk to cis people
My (cis) guy friend has brought up me being trans a couple times (I guess to show support? That he remembers and thinks of me that way?) and I just have no idea what to say or do about the topic. I don't really have anything "real" going on (like starting hrt or anything) to talk about, most of my thoughts are just dysphoria and like, do I really want to complain to him about that. I don't know, its just new and I have a terrible time with new situations. Maybe I just joke around about it... but how do I do that...

Also my nickname is based on my dead name and I don't know what to do about that. Asking for him to call me my girl name seems awkward and I don't like the thought of that.

I don't know why I'm posting but creature I have a hard time with new things. god this process is going to be hard isn't it...

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[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

some shit abt a mangaSomeone just reminded me that Emporio Ivankov exists (I haven't read Impel Down since the arc was current) and I went and checked, and I was like "wow, this MAD magazine charicature of doctor frank n furter really is poppin off!" doggirl-sweat

I'm being a little mean, like this is way less bad than 99% of manga ever, I think it's well-intentioned. But the lens through which it's presented is a little, I dunno. I guess I'm not shocked that teenage me missed this one. I literally thought it was something Eiichiro Oda made up.

[โ€“] [email protected] 16 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Why must names be so difficult

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago (4 children)

I really lucked out having a name my mom was gonna use if I were different AGAB that's similar to my deadname (but way cooler and prettier imho)

I had chosen my name mentally before I asked her about it and she had the same name picked without ever telling me about it before, it was really strange and serendipitous

Your username has "dani" in it? Dani is kinda cute? Short for Danielle or Daniella? Could go by Elle or Ella with those too, might be a twofer? Idk just spitballing

trans-heart

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[โ€“] [email protected] 23 points 5 days ago (2 children)

My nipples hurt, the HRT is working

[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 5 days ago

No pain, no gain ๐Ÿ˜‰

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[โ€“] [email protected] 19 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago (1 children)

hell yeah bitch (positive, respectful) lario-3

~also~ ~cute~ ~nails~ shy

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[โ€“] [email protected] 21 points 5 days ago (4 children)

Fat maxxing rn to try and move away from my tiny twink body to actually gain the hrt benefits properly

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[โ€“] [email protected] 17 points 4 days ago

Well, it looks like I get to have my friends again, at least for the next month. Going to be interesting to see how I act and feel around them, a lot has changed since I saw them last.

[โ€“] [email protected] 25 points 5 days ago (9 children)

It genuinely boggles my mind how many cis people there are. Like you mean to tell me we all get assigned a social category at birth based on nothing but our sex characteristics and yet 99% of the population is like "hell yeah that doc was totally right."

[โ€“] [email protected] 18 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I watched a documentary recently which featured some trans people in Oaxaca, Mexico called Muxe, which is a third gender in Zapotec culture. they mention how many openly Muxe are in one town there, and I did the math which came out to about 3.5% of the town's population. This is around more than double the percentage of trans people in the US, which leads me to believe that there are a lot more trans people than we, or even they, know. Femicide and (trans)misogyny are still rampant down there which is surely a deterrent for people to transition, but still they have a lot more openly trans people where they have a historic precedent that being trans fits into the sociocultural framework.

Makes me wonder how many people would be trans in a fully communist society

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[โ€“] [email protected] 18 points 5 days ago

Cisnormativity is a hell of a thing and must be abolished madeline-stare

[โ€“] [email protected] 17 points 5 days ago

50% of cis people are women so I get it

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[โ€“] [email protected] 19 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Well, I came out to my boss. She wasn't super familiar with trans stuff, but she was supportive and respectful.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago

I have thoughts about the general Witcher lore, Yennefer, Ciri, Geralt, their family bonds, and how I perceive them as tying into the direction the Witcher 4 is going but I have nobody to scream them at.

[โ€“] [email protected] 21 points 5 days ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 18 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Hi everyone. I now have a gzd federation friendly account :)

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[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago (2 children)

probably not news to anyone but the Metal Gear Rising OST whips ass kirby-jammin raiden-source

Mistral's theme is my fav and smacks of Gender imho

trans-heart dril

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[โ€“] [email protected] 25 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Thinking about an event in my teens when I was having pre-drinks with a bunch of guys, and one of them was joking about how I was mean to him, and I said a cutesy "aww, i'm sorry". It was kind of a dickhead frat bro-ish group and everyone just looked down and got super quiet for like 5 seconds and it was so fucking awkward.

distress

After that I realised I needed to act more masculine or people will think i'm fucking weird and I basically repressed my "natural" personality and way of communicating for years.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 18 points 5 days ago (2 children)

For those of you who wanted a comm for Trans Music Production...

It's here https://hexbear.net/c/trans_synths cheer niko-dance

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[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago (7 children)

celebrity bullshit, junk mention, thirstSaw that there's a whole thing about Justin Timberlake's bulge?? Cis ppl are weird

People are making fun of him and I don't really care for his music but I thought he looked hot in the pics ppl are mocking?

Normalize small junk being hot imho, petite meat is cool and good and a lil' bulge is sexy if ppl wanna do that

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago

Oh my fucking christ

Penis talk/rantI will go to the fucking grave screaming into the void about big penis culture. It's irritating and I hate it to the end. This is coming from someone that had a huge wang before she got it removed. The whole culture is nothing but mentally debilitating for men.

I've said it before and I'll say it again.

  1. I don't want men bottoming out in me. It hurts like hell.

  2. I don't want stretched out with a huge dick. It hurts and it feels like I"m being split in two.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 22 points 5 days ago (8 children)

HRT update: skin is getting softer.

Not all of it has changed yet so there'll be, like, sudden patches where it's less soft on, like, my arms or legs.

Bits that've changed feel nice, still getting used to the difference in how clothes feel on my skin though.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 16 points 5 days ago (1 children)
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