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some dude with a broken mic just taught me more about drawing perspective in a seven minute video than any "professional artist" ever has in a 20 minute video with perfect lighting and transitions.
Itβs always the dishevelled artists that blow everyone else out of the water. The messier they are, the more powerful they will become.
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Anyone have some Yuri recs? Looking for stuff that has actual adults, and bonus points if it has cat/dog/etc girls
Commenting in case there are yuri manga with cat/dog/etc girls
It's been a long time since I read them but I remember liking How Do We Relationship by Tamifull and After Hours by Yuhta Nishio. My apologies if they have any scuffed shit in em.
Guaranteed Scuffed Shit
I recall reading a 4koma manga that has a catgirl/doggirl pairing, even!!
It's called Inugami-san to Nekoyama-san by Kuzushiro. There are things I liked about it and things I really fuckin did not. I recall it being pretty horny as well, which is a matter of taste. But it was rolling around my brain, so. I hope this doesn't have any REALLY scuffed elements I have forgotten... is it set in a highschool, can't remember...
tomorrow i finally finish my exams AND i get to see my dog! woohoo!
God made me cold so the warmth of my gf would be all the greater
First off, through the power of lesbianism all things are possible, so jot that down
I LOVE MY GIRLFRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! somebody challenge that feeling so i can strike you down in singles combat and prove it
omg whoever fae is is so lucky... fae definitely loves you back and was so happy to see this post that fae nearly choked on faer coffee...
Wait a minute...
A true girlfriend lover would challenge me in Gen 5 triples!
i want to watch this
Oh I'm totally out of practice lmao
i'm using only banned pokemon :)
Ubers? AG wasn't a thing until Mega Rayquaza
omg you are such a geek... we're back to the singles combat invitation now
i took a kickboxing lesson once at age eight you will never beat me
while you were kickboxing, i was taking shotokan karate in a strip mall dojo. give up now.
You can't do singles combat if you're PAIRED UP
i will allow faer to sit this one out. i've trained my whole life for this
thanks I'm more of a flighter than a fighter anyway
you are so cute :)
Robot yuri?
Yes
Also I hope I live long enough to see a scentient program write Yuri, would be sick as hell
Robot yuri by yuri robot
cw: dysphoria i think
reconsidering my relationship with gender again, as it happens every time I'm introspective and/or sick as i am now. like I've got serious neuroses about confrontation and change esp under my parents eyes and roof so I have done like zero experimentation, which sucks because I want to but my brain basically shuts down at the possibility, like there's a block there. traces of performative masculinity? fear of sticking out? which sucks because rationally I know I should start trying shit out. my sister is already growing her hair out and painting her nails, but I've gotten the same haircut for 10 years at this point and I just can't bring myself to like, deviate at all besides my absolute aversion to facial hair and body hair, but even the latter it's hard to get myself to maintain, partly because of ADHD, but even then I'm so neurotic about facial hair. the idea of growing a beard is so fundamentally repellant that shaving my face is one of the most consistent bits of self maintenance I am able to do despite my ADHD
it's to the point where it's causing self-doubt, because online I do present myself as I do and there's a dissonance between that and how I present and have tread IRL, where it makes me feel like I'm faking it online to not be a bog-standard white boy, that some aspect of this is just performance and wanting to feel like I'm part of the larger struggle when I'm rather privileged otherwise, being a suburbanite cracker who's going to college
but then that rubs against my very loud internal assertion that I really, genuinely don't like the more-masculine physical aspects of myself and have genuinely spent hours internally moping over, uh, not having boobs, well after no longer being pent-up (which makes me feel shitty to even qualify, but there are kink-related aspects to my internal mess of gender shit, so I feel like it's necessary to do so at least for my own rationalization) and every time I try a feminine face filter my feelings about it are an entangled mess in a way that someone secure in their gender identity probably would not experience on that level.
I guess it's the bit where despairing over the idea that I may not be trans is a form of gender dysphoria in-and-of-itself, but my thoughts on it feel way too messy and I'm deathly afraid that when I do experiment in a tangible way it will invalidate these feelings, and that's terrifying to me
Total shot in the dark
but my thoughts on it feel way too messy and I'm deathly afraid that when I do experiment in a tangible way it will invalidate these feelings, and that's terrifying to me
You won't know until you try, right? And surely it's worse to let it keep tormenting you like this instead of just finding out?
Plus, if you do in fact find out from experimenting in a tangible way that you have less gender going on than you thought, (which is extremely implausible, look at what you've written, no cis person could ever) you can just move on with whatever amount of gender works for you?
Seriously though, nobody pretends to be trans online in order to "not be a bog-standard white boy". I find white boys are typically unashamed of their place in society =) Plus I highly doubt anyone cis would be worried that gendery experimenting things are not for them...
I think psyching yourself out of even trying anything is hurting you more than the trying, is all. I know getting over those internal hurdles isn't easy though
cancer
Update: no cancer just some glandular tissue
:boohoo: I GOT SPOILED FOR A MAJOR PLOT POINT IN A YURI NOVEL IM READING BECAUSE I DIDNT THINK THERE WOULD BE SPOILERS AFTER A SPOILER WARNING IN A VIDEO COVERING THE ENTIRE SERIES. :boohoo:
Anyone know artists that draw lesbians/sapphics/GL/etc that have POC in them? I have a few subreddits I look at drawings from but the images are 80% entirely white people. ~~Unsure if its due to reddit being white, liberal level racism or~~ nevermind as I was typing realized its probably both
Also wish they was a better place to look at drawings that wasn't using twitter or reddit, both places are liberal hellscapes
2 weeks until I start HRT, I feel like I'm moving really fast since my egg cracked like 2 months ago but when I really look at it I've known for years and years and just suppressed it and I wanna feel happy about myself. Excited and anxious but honestly I'd start today if I could
This will be the first Yule by myself on Saturday. Granted my ex really never got into it, but you know. Gonna be fun just hanging around home and doing my yearly Yule rituals. By myself. I guess...
A bunch of random, kind of shitty things happened today, but its nothing worth complaining about. Kind of apathetic about it all now anyway. All I feel right now is depressed. Hoping it doesn't get worse.
In good news I stood up for myself and he apologized, so that was nice. Always struggle with that.
I'm bad at standing up for myself too but I had a couple nice interactions with strangers today and saw a very attractive person that goes to my gym so it wasn't all bad
Hope you feel better and tomorrow is better
(that one pumpkin flash game thing voice)
I'm very tired
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But tomorrow I'm gonna try to get a bunch of chores I've been putting off done and do self care shit I've been avoiding and try the hair removal body mask/scrub stuff I got awhile ago and never used and I'll give you all a review if it's good or not
(I have bad/hirsute kinda Mediterranean genetics for hair and also dainty little gay baby east Asian skin so everything is an issue for me with shaving and body hair stuff but I'm gonna be smooth and soft and cute even if it's painful)
I hate all this fucking Christmas music. No I don't care about this fictional lady/man's straight relationship I am trying to disassociate during work