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[–] [email protected] 17 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I can feel myself developing a special interest in brutalist architecture in real time. I've loved brutalism for a while now but I'm literally like, planning day trips to go see some brutalist buildings near me.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 6 months ago (3 children)

sleepyy but I have therapy after work niko-yawn

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)

BAD VIBESNot doing great still, it fucking hurts, he literally called me all the chapo.chat slur autofilter words, I thought I am over this but I am so close to call him and scream at him. Fuck whatever made him like this

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 6 months ago (11 children)

What are the odds this new "weird" trend gets redirected to us?

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 6 months ago (2 children)

HRTmy wife is geting fucked around by the NHS with her HRT. she moved here from anoher country while on HRT, got an NHS script for cyrpo and estradiol. then hey phone her up the other day and said 'sorry we have to cancel the cypro because a specialist has to prescribe this in britain'. now I know that high doses of cypro, of which stuff like 25mg or 50mg which most trans people take is a high dose, do have adverse long term side effects of spinal cancer and stuff like that, so that might be why? gut reacion ofc says institutional transphobia, but they didn't do anything abou the estradiol which is also ofc anti androgenising; so if it was just a transpobia thing they'd surely cancel the estradiol?

anyways, I told her to get her former doctor to forward relivant diagnoses and stuff, so we'll see. she has a doctors appoinment set up about this to plead her case. I am hoping the NHS is reasonable, because just denying somebody a medication they have been prescribed by a doctor is actually kind of fucked up regardless of transness or not

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)

I've been having a good time touching grass, hanging out with my best friends for the past few days, and we're making plans to do it again soon. We've been online friends for months but this is only the second time we've hung out irl (and last time we were both in significantly worse mental spaces.) It's so nice to be together irl with someone on the same autism wavelength as me haha. I'm so excited, in the coming months we'll be able to spend a lot more time together irl.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 months ago

"My husband died so I instantly fell for the first beautiful woman I saw": a romance

[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 months ago (4 children)

I have a personal connection to God. I can send any message you want to the big cheese just let me know

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 months ago (3 children)

ah FUCK, yeah. the lack of T is really eating away at my muscles and I can feel myself becoming weaker and more tired now

yes-honey-left <--- accurate depiction of every muscle cell in my body right now. fuck, i'm tired

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 months ago (6 children)

Feelin disconnected and rudderless today. Did the productive things (i.e. phonecalls) and now I'm like uh, I dunno. Weird and flat.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (3 children)

Celeste is in a bundle on Humble rn for $6 (the four item pack) and that alone is worth it if you like tight 2d platformers and discovering speedrun mechanics. The main character is trans-fem. And some money goes to charity.

Webbed looks pretty fun and highly rated as well and you play as a spider. 2d platformer with grapple mechanic.

https://www.humblebundle.com/games/pixels-with-porpoise

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I'm kind of a dense bundle of emotions this week and I don't really know how to manage it all besides just doing what I need to do to move forward. I rarely talk about personal stuff anywhere online and I'm probably terrible at it, but I'll try. Some things:

The good:

  • I have a BIG life change coming up that I'm extremely excited and happy about. I wanna be careful about saying anything too revealing right now but I'll probably talk about it a little more after it happens. It's not transitioning, but will make that much easier.
  • I think I finally got PC-98 games working in a browser, which is something I've been trying to get right all week. I still have yet to test if fonts show up correctly, but if they don't, I have a plan B that I'm pretty sure will fix that issue. With the set up I have now, I can also more easily port other emulator stuff to my page, including DOS games, old console games, arcade stuff, etc. so all the work I'm doing now will pay off for everything else I want to do with the site.
  • I saw a post earlier this week about LGB people's views on trans people that made me feel happy because it sort of addressed a weird insecurity I have:
    (cw: brainworms, personal weirdness)One thing that has always kind of bothered me, even before realizing I'm trans, is feeling unwelcome and excluded in women's spaces. I don't mean anything to do with sex and dating, mind you, but just being able to hang out with women socially and be welcomed as part of the group. I mean, I 100% get it because lots of cis men really are predatory creeps and it's understandable for women to be a little leery about male-presenting people, but it still always kind of bothered me, especially because I felt awkward in most masculine spaces as well for reasons that are now obvious to me. Anyways, there were 2 different polls posted both showing cis bi and lesbian women being overwhelmingly pro-trans compared to cis bi and gay men, which runs totally counter to my irrational worry about cis women being afraid of me or something. Maybe it's weird, but made me feel warm and fuzzy and even more excited to transition and officially join the girls club. Related, the absolute best part of coming out as trans so far has been being involved in trans spaces like this one, talking with other trans girls and being part of the group. Maybe it's sappy or something but I feel a sense of acceptance I'm not sure I've ever really felt and it's pretty amazing. niko-tear-wipe

The bad:

  • Regarding that "big life change" I'm being vague about, some friends and family are taking that change very poorly and one old friend is being unhinged and weird about it to the point where I had to block him for awhile. If they're taking this poorly, I can't even imagine how poorly they would take me coming out as trans. Maybe I'll just never come out to them and disappear to live my life. That seems like the best option at this point.
  • This weird transphobic Olympics bullshit has me depressed. It's not even about actual trans people, yet transphobes are still using it as an excuse to spew hate and push violence. I'm not surprised, but just sad because it feels like it came out of nowhere today. I'd love to throw all these fuckers in a mineshaft and pour cement on top. barbara-pit tito-laugh
  • Work is stressful and I'm tired all the time, but that's nothing new.
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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (3 children)

She's that pie I've had before and know a lot about y'know what I'm sayin', she's that one pie I would ever want in my life emilie->=3

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

more horny postingmaybe it's just because i've been having extremely high estrogen levels but my god has the girl horny been making me have some completely and utterly unspeakable thoughts recently. like wtf i've never felt anything close to the need to get redacted-1redacted-2 until i can't walk

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 months ago (3 children)

The Matrix chat is already going so strong that Element is unable to display all new messages after a few hours lol

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 months ago

The stardew valley rant from yesterday led to me listening to an audiobook of simulation and simulacra ohnoes

[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I really hate tech and computers and doing IT, I thought I was able to escape it by nursing. Nope. Can't believe I cried over this pc stuff not working lol.

Anyway, I feel better now. I had some non dairy ice cream, a bath, facial mask and now I'm doing a foot mask meow-melt

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 months ago (2 children)

My upper back hurts, this is bullshit!!!

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 months ago (3 children)

So shaved my face fully for the first time since I started figuring out my identity, really first time in years.

Kitty bumps are so fuckin soft. I think I'd look a bit better after I've lost some weight though :p

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 months ago (3 children)

dissecting some transphobia, cw transphobia n homophobiaThe pathetic transphobe mind does not consider t4t, does it? I mean, all of the frenzied transphobic outrage is about trans people advancing aggressions on The Cis in whatever way, "tricking" them into sex or destroying them at sports. This is also all the same type of outrage directed at gay men & lesbian women in the 1990s, all about "converting" 'innocent straights' into gays or that kids might see, that shit.

I think transphobes simply do not consider the idea that trans people would not want to fuck them. Partly it's because the transphobic propaganda shit doesn't stand to benefit much from it and bastards love playing victim, but also for whatever reason (ego? idk) this type of person just cannot imagine that trans people would have no interest in the cis. Breaks their world view. Guessing most of them do not understand what solidarity is either, the terfs in particular probably being too hateful and poisonous to enjoy their concocted "sisterhood" shit.

There's probably not a lot of point to this post but I was thinkin bout The Revolutionary T4T. I've never dated cis people and I feel like I haven't missed out, lol

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 months ago

sex stuffActually in the mood for the first time in awhile, but it’s been so long I forgot I don’t have lube ralsei-pout
Now I have to decide if I should bother walking to the store or not.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (23 children)

would you rather sneeze once a minute for 3 hours or cough every 10 seconds for 10 minutes? yes this is about being trans.

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