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WEBRINGS:
Hoping to hear everyoneβs week went well this past week. Go out there and have a great week this week everyone! 
I came out to my family today. I am so grateful that they accepted me, though it wasn't too much of a surprise I will never underestimate just how lucky I am to have an accepting (and queer) family. Now I just have to hope that my friends are the same way...
EDIT: I DID NOT LOSE ANY FRIENDS π
Came out to another friend today. Remained cool and composed. The very picture of emotional stability
hey everyone if you're gonna get electrolysis, make sure to not change the topic of conversation to bizarrely intimate details about your sex life while I'm electrocuting your cock and balls. happens more often than you'd think and is pretty gross and I had to implement code of conduct forms and fire a client last week. which is fucking wild, I take this work extremely seriously, bottom surgery prep is my top priority work, it takes a lot for me to say "yep I don't wanna see you again"
also make sure not to say things like "wow I'm in subspace" or any other fucking weird ass shit you wouldn't say to your barber or some other service worker 
I feel like a lot of my clients think "wow you're trans, I'm trans too, we can talk about anything!!!". No we can't, you're a stranger, don't tell me weird ass shit in the first hour of knowing me when I'm supposed to be providing important care to you. maybe eventually when we're pals we can talk some freak shit, but holy fuck
"wow, I'm really in sub space right now 
"
"Good, then listen to me. Shut up and don't talk to me for the rest of this session
"
Day 1 of being a girl:
I understand my feelings now 
I understand my feelings now 
Migraines are the least fun thing in existence and whoever invented them can fuck off. Same goes for PMS. Both can go to hell.
It may be very stupid internet faux science, but I recently saw a video that says putting your feet in really hot water while putting an ice pack on your head can help alleviate migraines.
At the very least, at least it's free to try. Migraines are fucking awful
Shaving is a rabbit hole of time and treatment, but it sure does feel good once it's done.
CW: Dysphoria
Actually felt so bad about my facial hair growing in while I was wearing eyeliner that I started wearing a mask around my family. Told them it was becuause of allergens. Not something I was expecting to feel at all.
Final follow-up was today! I healed super well and will need no further appointments. Iβm so happy to say the least. I really needed to get such good news after the last few days.
I hope everyone's doing well 
I'm thankful that my workplace is mostly accepting, and that if any guests try to fuck with me I get to personally kick them out.
Queen behaviour
I actually find it hard to wrap my head around the fact that there are people out there who donβt want to trans their genders. Even back when I thought I was cis (lol) I was like βwell being trans would be so fun and interesting. Too bad Iβm not transβ¦β
First pride month trans! 
coding
finished project 1 in the curriculum, read through the next part, now onto project 2. I set up some stuff for it earlier, so I can get right into it this weekend. I'm also very comfortable with git again
body stuff (pride month edition)
The dysphoria and contempt I have from having a vagina is unbearable, especially in a month where I should be proud of myself. I'm proud of the majority of my transition, and certainly my identity, but I also feel like a failure.
Was just chatting with some trans girls and apparently some ppl still have breast growth many years into HRT, so it's pretty probable you're never 'screwed' in terms of breast growth
new job is fun i hate it
WHADDYA MEAN I HAVE TO GO TOMORROW TOO????????
I have an intense urge to be cuddled and worked up the courage to make a dating profile, despite being super nervous about being trans on a dating app.
I instantly match with some guy.
He just sends "Hi", "horny?", then a picture.
Definitely not opening that.
This was a terrible idea, I panic and delete my profile.
Still have not been cuddled.