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Trans Megathread for the Week of 5/13 - 5/19 (hexbear.net)

submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Another week, another thread. Go out there and have a good one everyone! trans-heart

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago (1 children)

new unjust depths! ::: spoiler spoiler crying a little at how nice it is to see homa getting everything she deserves. she got to wear a pretty dress and gets to feel like her body is her own, disability and all, and gets to kiss a pretty girl and find a connection to her heritage and gets lots of reassurance from the other union shmii members and gets to declare that she'll go with them of her own choice even now that she has a different community she could join if she wanted who would accept her and it simply makes me cry a lot

i am going to ignore the stuff at the end ( scared ) for now and simply bask in the good times zone

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago (1 children)

sniffs

Yeah my timer's probably up regarding my need for ✨ gay ✨ honestly... I sure hope I can balance reading UD with the silly vidya gaem agony-wholesome

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 9 months ago

I’m trans Harold halibut

[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago

I'm quitting Effexor. This shit sucks. I do not wish effexor withdrawals on anyone. Still got 30 days left of this

[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (2 children)

edit: I still feel some of these ways kinda but over all I'm feeling much better right now. A little depression nap goes a long way sometimes.

I feel like such a fake

uhh feeling fake, negative self talk, light ableist language. I think that's everything covered.

I just am. I don't use the right language, I don't feel the right ways, I don't understand things, I didn't figure it out early enough. I'm just so stupid. Why do I think things wrong. It's driving me crazy. I was thinking of changing my pronouns but right now I almost feel like I should change them to he/him instead. I'm just a stupid guy who got an idea in his stupid mind. I'll never be a woman. I'm an attention seeking guy. I don't deserve good things.

My brain is full of FUCKING BRAIN WORMS FROM THIS SOCIETY. THIS FUCKING SHIT ASS SOCIETY MAKES ME FEEL LIKE A GOD DAMN PERVERT AND I HATE IT AND EVERYTHING IN IT.

Oh, and now I'm going to make people worried again. What the fuck is wrong with me.

No point in going into detail, but the urges are back and really hurt. I don't understand. I'm not depressed like I was, but I'm still feeling like sh.

ed (eating)

Feeling this coming on too. Had to force myself to eat last night and hated it. It's so fucking complicated.

Only kinda a sharp turn but my questioning if I'm autistic has gotten much more serious the past weeks and months. But if I do have it, why wouldn't my therapist have brought it up? I'm probably a fake there too kitty-cri

[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago (3 children)

why wouldn't my therapist have brought it up?

All medical professionals are clowns when it comes to autism. My gp practically fell off his chair when I brought it up. The diagnosis lady said I was "a very well adjusted individual" which is absolutely laughable. The opinion of these people almost doesn't matter honestly. The diagnostic criteria only applies to ten year old whiteboys, and even then only barely. It's such a joke.

Also let's not understand things and realise too late together!! I'm sure I don't have to tell you that you aren't a pervert or "attention seeking stupid guy", meow-hug but it's not just a bit or a platitude when people say it takes everyone different amounts of time. It'll have been ten years next year for me, and I only just figured out literally last week that "woman" does not exactly fit me. Of course that has absolutely nothin' to do with autism ^/s^ blob-no-thoughts

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago

I keep wanting to play Celeste, but every time I see something I can relate to or see in the trans experience, it wells up emotions and I find it hard to continue. Really wanna finish playing it too, because that gameplay is solid.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (3 children)

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